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Wiseman2

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  1. Please try seeing a physician for an evaluation of your physical and mental health and get some tests done. Ask for a referral to a licensed qualified therapist for ongoing support. Therapy could help you with chronic negativity and cognitive distortions. For example that the world is against you. The problem isn't dating apps. They're no different than Netflix. You pay to use it whether you like what you see or not. It's this skewed self-pity that stands in your own way and all the commiserating simply increases this twisted bias. It's not that the world hates you, it's that you hate the world.
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  3. In your 24 months of "experience" on dating apps, it's odd that you believe they're nonprofit organizations to find you dates. The phone you're typing on and all the apps in it are made by for-profit companies. So the whole dating apps are just be to make money is a ridiculous copout. It seems you lack experience and true confidence and are matching steadily toward inceldom with your skewed attitude towards dating and women.
  4. So if you refuse to use dating apps and refuse to socialize and meet women in real life, what are your options and why are you regurgitating incels rhetoric? In your other threads you claimed you are some sort of Adonis who should have women falling at your feet so you're not even trying. When you put zero effort into something you get zero results.
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  8. Is your mother eligible for social security? Can your sister go to social services for food stamps, Medicaid, housing assistance and employment assistance and training? There's no reason they can't take care of themselves if they are eligible for appropriate assistance and there's no need to enable them or send them money. They can look at the services available to them and go to the local office or apply online. Send them the links to social security for your mother and social services for your sister. Does your mother have healthcare? Does she have signs of cognitive decline,? Does your sister need to take care of her? Please stop enabling this triangulation and letting your mother put you in the middle of this. Simply send them the links and wash your hands and let them resolve their own issues.
  9. How long have you been using them if you are supposedly 20? You have to be 18 to use them. You may not have any luck because of manosphere misogynistic attitudes and extreme entitlement.
  10. Don't use them if you're so bitter and jaded about it. Join some groups and clubs, get involved in sports and fitness, volunteer, take some classes and courses. Broaden you social horizons and start making friends and meeting people you have something in common with. You could start talking to women as people rather than the enemy who's depriving you of what you feel entitled to.
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  13. Unfortunately your situation is not that uncommon. Please read up on this: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/when-my-partner-threatens-suicide/
  14. This is irrelevant. You hung out a few times and he moved away. All the rhetorical questions won't solve the problem of your unrequited crush.
  15. Unfortunately you're in parallel relationships. You're in a monogamous relationship with her and she's in a non-monogamous with you and her other lovers. You shouldn't have to feel bad or controlling in order to live by your own values in order to accommodate her poly lifestyle. There are even words invented for what she wants "The word “compersion” refers to a form of joy in the joy of others. In the world of consensually nonmonogamous relationships, it more specifically relates to the happiness someone finds in their partner seeking out and enjoying sexual and romantic intimacy with other people". This is to cope with the cognitive dissonance created by trying to be happy for someone stabbing you in the back. Please be true to yourself and your own set of standards.
  16. Until the next round of texts bickering and pleas to have a relationship rather than dump you in the FWB zone and you fighting that? It's clear he's not interested except for your willingness. If you don't want to be demoted to FWB, leave him alone.
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  18. Start applying for universities online including those which offer scholarships and financial assistance.
  19. Exactly. The reason he wanted to get together in person was because he wants something physical. He knows you're down for it and it doesn't happen over the phone. Please stop begging him for answers. He's told you plenty of times he's not interested in a relationship but will get physical if you want. It's up to you to decide if you want these games or a relationship with someone who cares about you.
  20. Bow out gracefully. It's good you severed accounts. That was a crazy idea anyway mixing her business with your personal social media. Let her figure it out. Enjoy the new job . It's great they seem to have more clearcut guidelines on what your actual job and role is because you seem to need a lot of structure and guidance.
  21. Who says you "have to"? It's your choice to "slave". If you don't enjoy cooking and baking for people don't do it, it's that simple. As an aside a talented cook or baker enjoys the challenge of accommodating special food needs and diets. But it seems you just like being around food you like to eat.
  22. Your mother is the problem. Always has been and always will be until you decide to cut the umbilical cord. Displacing rage you feel towards your mother onto others is ruining your life.
  23. Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately introducing you to friends and family doesn't mean much. Why does he refuse to go on dates? Do you both drive and come up with plans? Unfortunately he doesn't seem that invested and it's understandable if you're moving. Most people don't want to invest in someone just passing through.
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