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I think this is pushing the boundaries of ridiculous. If your parents abuse you, then tell someone about it, don't just sit there and take it, and then decide to take your life. If you ask me, that is definitely a stupid way to go about solving a problem. I think you'd have a much easier time seeing a counsilor, or talking to someone who can help you escape the abuse than you would have trying to figure out exactly how many, and what combination of pills you could take in order to never wake up. Its too bad that you have twenty entired pages full of people encouraging you not to take you life, and who are giving you advice on what you can do, but you're not really seeing or taking any of it in. Its actually very sad, and I find myself hoping that no many more people post on this thread, because its obvious you aren't listening at all. You seemed concerned that there were posts missing, but I don't really understand why, seeing as how you said you don't want advice, you just want to know how to die. If you wanted to die that badly, you would have found a way already. If you wanted to die so bad, then it wouldn't matter how long it took, or how much it hurt, because eventually you'd be dead anyways and it wouldn't even matter at all. If you are afraid of having the last moments of your life be in pain, then you are really pretty selfish, because you are, afterall, ending your life. It shouldn't be something that feels good, or that you should enjoy, or that should be easy. That's just ridiculous. I say do what you want though. You probably didn't even read a word I said.

Hmm... I think this might be getting a little out of context... Well I hope people aren't taking offense to my post, because I think there are better ways to go about asking for help than to just ask how to die and all that sort of jazz... Maybe it's just me, I don't know. I know that I've been struggling with severe clinical depression for years, and set my first date to kill myself at 12, so I know how suicidal people feel (well, as best as I can from my own experience... I know where they are coming from) I do think that this forum is useful though, because for every false threat, there are like, 100 valid ones (exaggeration, but you know what I mean.) I don't think that this forum should disappear or anything, because I've read almost all the threads and have learned a lot about myself and other people. I think the point of this particular thread was to kinda get people's attention and realise that there are people on this forum who really do need the help, but there are others out there who are kinda...taking it away from them? I don't know, I can't defend the author because I don't know their intentions, I can only defend why I agreed to a point...

I agree, and I don't think that you should apologise at all, because I feel the same way. There are a lot of people on here, in my opinion, who are seeking attention by posting false threats of suicide, self harm, and what have you. I do not think that it is fair to the other people on this board who are actually seeking help. It draws attention away from the people who are sincere, and who really need advice. So please, stop your threats. If you really are suicidal, express your concerns in a way that doesn't involve "omg. Im gunna swallow all these pills. Tell me how 2 die." No one is going to tell you how to die. That is ridiculous. I'm really glad you started this thread, as I was thinking the exact same thing.

It seems that people are under the impression that I just sit around and complain about my weight all the time, which is definitely not true. I also do not just sit and allow myself to wallow in my own self pity about my weight either. I happen to eat pretty well, and also do excercise. (I do about 150-200 crunches a night, which isn't alot, but its something.) I've also tried walking, and dieting, but it's very difficult to maintain a schedule for something like excercise and getting proper meals when you work at a job that doesn't offer steady hours, and you are forced to miss meals and such... Anyways, just forget I even asked.

Alright, so here's the point: I'm nineteen years old, and I've never dated anyone. In fact, I don't think I've ever had someone seriously interested in me in that way, other than one person, which I won't get into. However, lately it seems that guys have been flooding towards me from several websites where I have a picture posted, but it isn't a picture of my whole body. The reason for this, is that I am very self-conscious about my weight, and I worry that if they see the rest of me, that they won't like me. No, I'm not dangerously overweight, and I don't weight over 200 pounds, but I always feel unattractive because of this... Can anyone tell me how much weight really matters, and why it might be that I can't seem to attract anyone other than on the internet? If you want to see a picture of me, then pm me and I'll send it, and maybe you will understand better what I am talking about... It's rather difficult to explain here.

Well I know one thing, do not eat raw eggs. Eating raw eggs will give you salmonella poisoning, something that you do not want. But being so sick from the poisoning will definitely cause you to drop weight, lol, so maybe you do want it. But honestly, you just have to figure out your own metabolic rates in order to find out how much or how little you should be eating of certain food groups. Good luck finding the boxing club. If my friend could find one in our small almonst non-existent town, then I imagine you can find one out where you are, wherever that may be.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I am scared to death of physical contact, and like yourself, even hugs are big for me. I've never had a boyfriend, nor have I been kissed... I'm scared as well, so don't you worry. You can give me support when your time comes Anyways, I wish you luck, and I don' t think he'll mind your inexperience. He'll probably think it's cute. lol

According to what it says by your name, you are only sixteen. You say you are going to kill yourself due to lack of relationships. Think of this, I am nineteen, I've never been on a date. Do you see me running around looking for pills to swallow and knives to cut myself to pieces? I don't mean to sound harsh, but I think you are seeking attention more than an actual solution to your problems. Like someone said previous to me, if you really wanted to die, you wouldn't be wasting your time on here trying to find out the quickest, most painless way to go. I think that if you really wanted to be dead,you wouldn't care that much. Afterall, why go for the easiest way when it won't even matter within ten minutes? Killing yourself is not going to solve anything. You aren't even giving yourself a chance to have a relationship or whatever it is that you are seeking. And your parents are absolutely not selfish for not wanting you to die. They are not selfish for bringing you into this world, loving you, providing for you, and basically living for you. What do you think it is going to do to them if you just go ahead and kill yourself? What are you going to write on your suicide note? "Oh, I'm killing myself at the age of 16 because I can't get a relationship. Bye." Sorry, but that's ridiculous, and you truly are being selfish, and totally unreasonable. If you kill yourself, its not because you can't get a relationship, its because you have some sort of psychological, or mental disorder, like depression or something of the like. So here's what I would suggest. When you reach the age of 30, and if you STILL haven't had a relationship, then come back and ask us how to end it all.

Sometimes there is nothing that is "enough". A lot of what was said in the first post was true. It was insightful, and inspiring, but appeals only to a certain audience. I have a personal vindiction against the bible and christianity as a whole, but I imagine someone who was gung-ho God would really like the post and take it into consideration. Words can never accurately express what we want to say, or what we need to hear... which is really too bad.

I agree. Whenever I read threads like this, saying that things will get better, that suicide is wrong, it is selfish, and all that jazz, how many people have been in the situation where they actually wanted to commit suicide? Have you ever been at the end of your tether, and you just can't see a point in living? Have you ever felt so bad, that all you could do was lay in bed and cry? Have you ever never wanted to wake up again because you knew that the next day would still be filled with the same, heavy, burdensome feeling of pain, suffering, and sadness? I know I've been there, several times, for several years, and I have to say that committing suicide isn't entirely selfish. Often times, people who kill themselves think they are doing the world a favour by ending their lives. People who kill themselves are just so sad, so depressed, and just cannot think rationally. It is almost as if they are another person. Of course, there will always be better days, the future can be bright, everything can be fine again. But when you feel this way, you are blind to everything, including yourself. Sometimes it is just a matter of finding someone who will listen to you, who understands, and who can really just make you see that things are going to be okay... Some suicidal people never find that person. I was lucky enough to have met someone who felt the same. And I also don't know how anyone can actually say that at the last minute people who kill themselves regret it at the last second. How would anyone know how these people are thinking if they are dead? Or are we talking suicide survivors? Suicide is not normal. Yeah, well there are a lot of things that aren't "normal". A suicidal person doesn't live in normal situations, they don't think normally, because more often than not they have problems that surpass the problems of other "normal people." Or they have a psychological problem or mental disorder that causes them to want to kill themselves. Even people who are clinically depressed who take medication as an alternate solution kill themselves, because in some cases, the medication makes it worse, especially if it is not taken religiously. And it is also hard not to let the hard times beat us, because sometimes all we are used to is hard times beating us. Maybe we just don't know what the good times are like. Why should we continue to live, if all we know is sorrow? Anyways... Sorry for this long post, but I thought that I might pop in and say something, because I've been there.

Well, I'm a virgin. In fact I'm a virgin to everything, including all forms of intimacy. I'd have to say that it really just depends on the person. I'm not looking for someone with who is/isn't experienced, I'm looking for the personality and the love, and the connection. I'll know who to lose my virginity to when I find him.

don't worry, I know exactly how you feel. I am also nineteen, have never gone on a serious date, have never had a boyfriend, and have never been kissed. Trust me, all of those thoughts and emotions you are describing have been felt by other people, especially me. I just try to tell myself that everything happens for a reason, and so if I were you, just don't worry about it too much. It looks as though you've got someone now, and you will move on from the never been kissed club. I wish you luck!