BreArna

Hey This used to happen to me, still does sometimes. I found out that when you have an orgasm for a few seconds you loose total control both mentally and physically and so thats why you sometimes cry afterwards, cos all of the emotians about anything bothering you at the time, or in your past that you havent dealt with surface. So maybe thats it ?

I think you should get to know him in person.. before you put ur friendship on the line

Yes i believe in it

Without talkin to them first is alittle hard.. but lots of eye contact is a good sign.. so is basically acting shy ( i take it ur talking about a girl here lol) So like if she looks over at you alot to catch ur eye and when she does she looks away and stuff.. body languge.. playing with hair and that aswell.

Well i guess someone should reply to you lol I have a long term boyfriend of 7 years so i guess what he is , is basically wat i want/ need.. But no one is perfect lol and there is stuff about him i dont like and stuff i totally love I think we all have basically the same needs be a girl or guy Someone who we are comfortable with, someone who respects us and cares about us, Someone we can talk to .. not nessicerily about anything tho lol, someone who makes us smile and laugh. So i guess a girls ideal man would be able to make us feel safe, make us smile and laugh.. be kind and gentle, willing to give us the space we need to be ourselves, oh and one thing that i totally love about a guy.. whether it be a boyfriend or jus a friend.. is the way he loves his family, hes gotta have good morals and family ideals.. like love his mum lol,, and his siblings.. cos thats really sweet.. and not be afraid to show emotoin, not all the time of course, but when its needed.. hope that helped u lol

If your really worried then go to the docter and ask for the 'morning after pill' .. it works anywhere up to 72 hours afterwards

No big deal ? Its her virginity

You like Josh. .but he likes your best friend You say you love Chris.. but he has a girlfriend walk away from them both

Your aware that its you starting most of the argurments.. so do something about it, if she is this important to you. Say sorry or soemthing to make up for the most recent one. Its possible that ur starting these little fights to try and hide your real feelings for her.

Why do you always start arguments with herr ?

Firstly,, are you male or female.. and is the friend male or female. And is this friend an ex boy/girl friend ?

Yeah i feel bad for him.. with us all speculating but its not something i can jus put out of my mind cos i care about him alot... My boyfriend wanted to tell his brother about what we know about his son but i told him not to because its too early and if anything comes of it then its up to him to tell people or not.. I cant see his brother confronting him about it because hes too scared that he will admit it.. I talked to the friend that was checking out the history and told him to keep quiet because it could jus well be curiosity.. I know what u mean about lesbian porn, but i jus thought straight guys were different, like wouldnt go near gay porn etc

Hey everyone I need some advice about something thats happening with my boyfriends 16yrld nephew.. Well one of his brothers whos 18 and a friend were looking through the computer history and found alot of gay sites that had been searched for and the sites had been looked at all the way through, enlarging pictures etc of gay men .. so this 16yr old is pretty interested in looking at men and stuff.. Is this normal ? Also ive always thought he was alittle different to his brothers and friends, but could never pick what it was.. now everything hes done and says seems to fit with what hes looking at now and im really worried.. So is his uncle, and his brother was pretty shocked. Do any of you think its something to worry about ? or just a phase or something ? If he was gay im not sure if his family would except it and theyd make his life hard i think.. hes a really great kid and i know itd be alrite with it and support him but i guess its different cos im not a guy.. Any advice would be appreciated

All i can guess is that the reason she feels like shes cheating on her new bf is because she has feelings for you still.. I cant see any other reason for it

I would probably say the best way for her to get some closure is to stop having contact with this guy.. until she is sure her feelings for him have changed.. Itd probably take awhile tho because of the circumstances of them breaking up