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Thread: On & Off Emotionally Abusive Marriage... I am Deciding Whether to Stay or Leave

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    Because this is YOUR choice. Stop playing the victim.
    Tell me how Iím playing the victim here? Please enlighten me with your wisdom.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Are we being attacked? 👀🍻🤯🙀😥🤬😲
    NO. There are some here who are attacking ME. I donít take kindly to being confronted and attacked when I came here for support only.

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    Thought you said you were leaving a few posts ago....

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    If ppl keep saying things

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    In your OP you stated "So I guess I am mainly looking for support and compassion around this rather than advice to leave or stay."

    That's like you standing on a railroad track asking for support and understanding, but saying "DON'T take me off the track"!

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    When someone asks for support what does that mean?? People here clearly do not get what support is or compassion. Goodbye. My final words.

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    Originally Posted by SingingRain
    When someone asks for support what does that mean?? People here clearly do not get what support is or compassion. Goodbye. My final words.
    You can't expect support and compassion if we disagree with what you are doing.

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    They are monsters.👺👹🤖👾👽😫💩💀🐷🐗😖🙈🙉🙊
    Originally Posted by SingingRain
    People here clearly do not get what support is or compassion.

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    Originally Posted by SingingRain
    Iím already beaten up in life. I donít need to be beaten up by perfect strangers on the Internet. ďYouíre playing victim, you just want pity,Ē whatís wrong with you ppl?? Bye.
    Again, you have to realize using the word Ďabuseí will often cause people to react strongly, ie telling you to leave.

    Had you painted your situation differently, I think you may have gotten different reactions.

    For example:

    My husband and I have communication issues. Our marriage is good but during fights tempers seem to be extreme and our fights are not healthy. He insists on continuing to fight even when I try to walk away. I am very stressed out about this situation and am seeking support and help with ways to diffuse this situation.

    Is different from the post you wrote, one needs to kinda decipher what you want which as others have pointed out may be whatís causing so much tension in your marriage, like I said, you seem to like to flirt with the disaster button just a bit much and it makes it hard to get through to you.

    Itís not that no one cares.

    Itís not that anyone wants to beat you up.

    You most likely donít realize this but you are coming off a bit petulant.

    No judgement, I come off cold often on this board and real life, but Iím not, Iím actually a very nice person, I just have to work on verbilizing myself in effective ways. I think you do as well.

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    It's a little hard to offer support, when someone has no Intention of helping themselves.

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