TheMailMan

link removed by John Geiger pretty darn good so far, chapter 5

how many people out there actually think that these two prodects smell good...

haha... awww made my day

thats a sign of an STD... get to the doctor quick...

no way man... i have seen this a million times... and experienced it... you need to trust heloladies and i... its a bad idea... FORGET ABOUT HER... SHE LEFT YOU FOR ANOTHER GUY... DONT EVEN BE FRIENDS WITH HER... DONT TALK TO HER

im not going to beat around the bush... i would say dont see her... she has flaked off a bunch of times and left you for other guys... she is dirt... and you deserve better... trust me man... forget about her and look forward to the moment (that you least expect) when you meet your true love... IT WILL BE HELLA OWNAGE.... just drop this girl and forget about her... trust me... you will find someone 100 times better... Good luck

holy moly chica... look not all women can get an orgasm with sexual intercourse... if you two have a very open relationship then there wont be a problem... if hes a good guy, he will want to know what feels the best for you and do it... just open about it... next time you two are having sex, try something different... try a diff position... (there are certain positions that are better for the G spot than others... try a bunch of different things and see if a change in the routine wont help... when everything is perfect it will happen.... if it doesnt... DONT SWEAT IT... there are many many women who cant orgasm off of intercourse... only works with oral... or may not be able to have one at all... chill out... your fine... if he loves you he will understand... just let him now whats going on... good luck

cheer up charlie... before you know it you will be in love and not even remember the two guys...

i would say see you later to both the guys... this fling with number 1 is going no where but more trouble for you... be friends with him mand the other dude... go find some other guy and build a relationship...

this is going to be brutally honest... breaks are bull crap... that is the stupidest thing you could of done... "breaks" give the opportunity to go out with other people... unless you guys said to each other... lets not go out with each other for 2 weeks and no one else and get back together... i dont think you did that... you should have told this guy off when you two were going out... she was your gf and he should have stepped down or face consequences... You said this.... : How can someone do this to there boyfriend after knowing the pain it caused the first time? I need help dealing with this and just what anyones opinion might be for my actions later and for what she might be thinking. Thank you and please help i'm in dire need. dude... you two were on a break... you werent her boy friend... OK NOW STOP i know your really steamed right now and would probably take a swing at me if you could that was the harsh side... let me go on... that is your girl dude... 2 years is a hell of a long time... i would say that you two are in love... i dont know what that guys intentions are... but it doesnt matter... you love her... now go get her... go to her house with some roses... when she awnsers the door look her in the eye and tell her that you are sorry and that you love her and you hate being without her... tell her you cant stop thinking about her and that you made a mistake... (whatever you do think about what you want to say to her before you are standing at her door... make it honest and from the heart and she will know you are true) dude... thats your girl... now go sweep her off her feet and get her back... -TheMailMan-

ok first... no one is going to read it if its that long... you really need to cut it back next time... now.... you really need to get out and get your mind off of him... and i know your thinking... easy for you mailman... he was my first in everything and he has hurt me so much that i cant do anything but keep going back to him........ NO YOU DONT... he doesnt control you... he knows he can do those things to you and lie to you because in your head you are seriously saying to yourself... we are going to have another shot... this guy is done... he makes all guys look like crap because in every relationship you have after this you will be thinking... is this new bf manipulating me... is he lying to me... is he only with me to try and get me to have sex with him........ THE ONLY WAY TO BE 100 PERCENT SURE THAT A GUY ISNT IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO HAVE SEX IS TO NOT HAVE SEX.... NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS... you dont have sex... even if he makes promises, buys you presents, says he loves you, says he would love you more if you had sex... UNLESS YOU TWO HAVE GONE OUT FOR A YEAR AND HE DOESNT MAKE ANY HINTS THAT YOU AND HIM SHOULD HAVE SEX.... SHOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER IT!!!....... this is what saddens me so much about girls in highschool (and even college) is they think that their body is the only way to get guys.... ill tell you what... your body is the only way to get all of the jerks and dicks to try and go out with you... look around... their are plenty of nice and true guys in this world who would love you for who you are and not for what you look like... you are special, your body is special... dont let any guy tell you any different... you will meet mr. perfect... all it takes is the patience to find him... do me a favor... go out with your girl friends... have fun... and never call this jerk again... hope i helped a little... cheer up and smile... you will make it threw this... -TheMailMan-

i would say they would want something from the heart... depends on what kind of a contest it is and who would be judgeing it...

how do you get sex or a bj from a massage therapist? aren't they just supposed to massage and leave... isn't it illegal or something? like they aren't allowed to have sexual contact with their customers or they lose their jobs or something... I don't know... I heard that somewhere though...

tigris... shes talking about making out not sex… good boundary comment though… JoJo... making out doesnt mean that you will be having sex... kissing can be stimulating but it doesn't mean its always going to sex… especially if you are only 16... DONT GET PREGNANT!... now off the whole sex thing... we are talking about kissing........ when you dance... usually someone does the moves and the other person follows... if the other person follows and works with their date, the couple looks good and they have a hell of alot of fun... kissing is similar... who ever is the more experienced one will probably be the one moving their lips around and taking control... kissing is all about adapting, reacting, and observing… adapt to what the other person does… react to show the other person that you like or dislike what they are doing… observe to see how the other person reacts to what you are doing... there are many things and variations that you can do… try kissing their lower lip... maybe their upper... do i kiss on the side of the cheek and move down to the neck... lick their upper lip... suck on their lower lip... bite VERY GENTLY on their lower lip... tease by backing off when he goes forward... push your lips into his for a hard kiss... back off and keep it very soft and slow kiss'... its all about those three things... if you want to control the situation get on top... there are many diff things you can do... do stuff you enjoy and like... have fun with it... the last thing that i want to tell you is as you make the transition from a closed mouth kiss to an open mouth kiss... do your best to open and close the kiss with the other person... do it at the same time... when you have mastered the same time... turn your head slightly and get an off axis kiss... (you get what im saying if not just tell me and i will explain)... i would say if he is more experienced... let him pull some of his moves... (kissing moves)... she what you think... and if you see what im saying and think you can do it... go for it and take control... (guys like the girl taking control... like she wants something and shes going to get it no matter what we do) one last thing... be confident... you will be a natural and before you know it you will be the one giving advice on how to do it... GOOD LUCK! (don't forget about body movement while you make out… whole different subject… master making out and then we will talk about hands, body, legs…!) -TheMailMan-

dude... no problem at all... there are so many positions that you could do... think about using something that she can lay on while you stand next to it... or a chair or a kitchen table... i dont know... go get a book on sexual positions... those things are crazy... find the clit is the only advice i can give you on going down... sometimes its hard to find...