jdmon53

Hey thanks alot for all the advice. Just to clear somethings up. i did tell the guy to back down and i told my Gf to respect my wishes not to associate with him again. also, i do love her and i want to make it work. But i guess the underlying issue is that its my fault for having a break if i can't hack the events that unfold due to it. So i guess we'll see, I think i'm going to call her and confess everything thats on my mind and i want to call off this break because it is killing me. If she doesn't want to than i'm gonig to have to learn to move on and see what happens in the future.

I've been dating this girl for about 2 yrs, we got into a rut a few months ago and she went out with some friends got drunk and kissed a guy thats been infatuated with her. Also causeing some insecurities within myself doubting everything. THis got me really mad and confused, so we broke for a bit, either way we worked through it and got better but he still trys to be in the picture. I decided to take a break from our relationship for the summer to expereince what we need and restart our passion and so on. Well i just found out that she has seen this guy again and they did more than kiss (not sex) and she stayed the night with him. I went off the deep end and it caused me to question everything about my hopes for our future. Also brought alot of insecurities to my plate because this is the second time he has gotten in the picture. How can someone do this to there boyfriend after knowing the pain it caused the first time? I need help dealing with this and just what anyones opinion might be for my actions later and for what she might be thinking. Thank you and please help i'm in dire need.