sweetieyen

hi there! ive been there in your shoes sometime ago and i was able to totally let go of him-over him after one year. it would take time but you will. Just try to help yourself like doing somethings to take your mind off him.

Said to read 'bout what happened to you, but let me tell you that everyone goes through that kind of thing at some point in their lives. I've been into that hearbreaking situation before. I know how hard it is to go over it but with the fact that you're helping yourself out to go over it and through time, believe me you will. Afterall, time heals all wounds.

It seems like you have already done your part. As you've said you've already talked to her about your feelings but that you don't get a definite reply. I think that it would be best if you'll just get over her and find other women who would like you back the way you like them.

Stretch marks appears when one gains weight or loses weight suddenly. As far as I know, this can only be removed permanently through surgery. There are lotions i.e. Vaseline mark minimizer made for this but they just lighten these marks. I suggest that you work out gradually so that the skin wouldn't be suddenly affected by the weight gain/lose. Also, lot of vitamin E would really help your skin.

i have tried talking to them before but my father is not open minded enough to understand my side.. that since he is the father, we children must obey. duh!

in my opinion, it's not just 'nothing'. there's something fishy goin' on. have to say this but it seems like you have to gather all strength and let go of this guy. not that easy since you're married but i think it's even harder to live with a liar (as you've said, he has been lying to you in the past and then, now). some people take other people for granted b/c they know that no matter what they do, the other people will still be there. they're very insensitive.

am already 26 and yet my parents, especially my dad treats me like a highschool grad. im the only one in the family who's not yet married and it seems like they want me to be a spinster! i have work and after work, i look after my sister's kid (who lives with us and who is like a brother to me). My sister is a single parent and lives in the province with her two other child. Doing this routine keeps away my social life! I cant even have a date, and if ever i will go out (the mall to shop&date) my father would ask a lot of questions like where im going (as if im only going out once to twice per month!), who im with, what time will i go back! im irritated with this and when i told them that i will move and get my own place. they will make a big fuss out of it and tells me that me blah.. blah.. anyways, for you all to understand this, i live in the philippines where children leaves the home when they are married and not when they are 18! (sometimes im planning of marrying just for the sake of getting out of the house, but my bf is not financially stable to take the next level) but oh, this situation makes me sick! as of the moment, im planning to take the stateboards for PT and if ever, i will not pass this il just work in the middle east. but i cant seem to concentrate and breath enough to the things I want because my father says a lot of discouraging things that loses my confidence. i cant seem to have a peace of mind. any advice would be greatly appreciated..

if he claims to be committed to you, he should not be dealing with this girl anymore, especially because of the history they have. he is being open to you maybe because he cannot hide the phone calls and emails. i suggest that you try to toughen up and let him go. he is a cheater.

I admire you for your endearing love with her but there are things you must realize in the situation. she is fooling around. the advice to get a get a paternity test, lawyer, and divorce seems appropriate.