goddess Posted August 5, 2019 Share Posted August 5, 2019 Hi peeps! I apologise for being so dramatic and silly but I would appreciate your opinions on what to do. Yesterday was my birthday. Some quick background info on me for those who don't know me: I am recently divorced, as of January 2019, after 29 years of marriage. I am the dumpee. I've been NC with the ex since June 2018. I have absolutely no desire to see him, text him or otherwise. We share two adult sons so I imagine that, at some point in the future, I will see him (which I dread). Guess I'm still in the anger phase. That said, he sent me a text yesterday saying "Happy Birthday". I was so stunned and didn't know what to make of it. I broke down and cried, I'm embarrassed to say. I cannot fathom why on earth he would do that. It was totally unnecessary and all it did was upset me. I'm trying really hard to forget him. I decided, however, to take the high road and answered "Thank you". His birthday is in December. So, my question is: do I send him a text saying "Happy Birthday"? Link to comment
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