Freckles1029 Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 I recently started up a FWB with a guy and things have been going pretty well. We we're both up front with not wanting a relationship and seemed to be on the same page. Well, inevitably, it's been about 2 months and I started having feelings for him. Mainly because unlike other FWB I've had, he texts me every day, he asks to see me every other day, we talk about our lives, and even spend the night together/snuggle. He even opened up to me about his past (a girl really hurt him), but remains adamant we are just friends, which I was fine with. Last night we drank (a lot), and things got kind of weird. With newfound drunken confidence I told him that if we wanted this to continue, we needed to separate a bit more because it's getting hard for me to just keep this as sex when we seem to be getting close. I guess I teared up a little bit because this triggers the dude to start full on crying. I was so confused at the time and we just kind of cried and laid down while our friends were like is going on. He admitted to having a small amount of feelings for me, but still not wanting more. When we woke up in the morning I asked him why he got upset. He kept trying to ignore the question, but eventually said he felt bad about me having feelings for him and getting upset, and that if I need him to pull away he will. We agreed to forget about the whole thing for now, and even joked about it when he drove me home. My question is, does his reason sound like bull or legit? I know we were drinking but I feel like it should take a lot for a guy to cry like that. My gut tells me he likes me more than he says, but is just scared from the previous relationship. But I could be wrong and over analyzing/wishfully thinking. It's so hard to tell cause he closes up. Any input would be appreciated because the last thing I want to do is upset him or cause him pain. Link to comment
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