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  1. When i look at pictures, models seem to have square pecs, but mine arn't. How do i make them square? I was thinking about that whole muscle size = high weight, and shaping = low weight, but will doing loads of low weight things make my pecs square? Whats the best way?
  2. "Hi i've seen you around, but i've never really spoken to you before, and I would like to get to know you. Do you want to go out sometime?" Thats what I would say. Im 100% sure he likes you. I think hes very shy, and likes you alot. So much so that hes scared to talk to you incase you reject him and shatter his dreams.
  3. Im not female, but i've seen this before, and been advised on it. This is a common thing im told, and from personal expierance, I would say this is exactly normal for her liking you. Go for it.
  4. This might be obvious, but whats the difference between the terms 'Hot' 'Fit' 'Good Looking' etc? In terms of a female saying this about a male. I guess another term could be 'Cute', but I guess that means you look like someone who other want to hug or something.
  5. I guess blushing, and either over talking or not talking much. Eye contact aswell.
  6. Why not be direct? If she says no or whatever, you've lost nothing, just gained knowledge.
  7. I would get him to go somewhere with you, then ask him. Thats what I would do with a girl. Just say "can you come with me for a moment?" or "Can I borrow you a second". Perhaps have some task you need help with or something, like elsewhere, and ask him to come help you, then while your doing it, pop the question. Just say somehting simple like "Do you want to go on a date sometime?". If he brags about it to his friends or whatever, and he rejects you, just make some come back denying you did that, or make out he was joking.
  8. From a male POV, I wouldn't be scared of that... If anything About it.
  9. People also say I look young for my age (17) sometimes. They say I look about 15/16, so it's not that bad. I don't think its that bad really, as girls might see you as cute. I know I get attention and stuff a fair bit, so I like the way I look. The toruble comes when you get ID'd.
  10. Mate... I think she likes you. You made a mistake by not asking her out! Try and contact her perhaps.
  11. I have always imagined that snogging was like a french kiss, and necking was giving someone a love bite on the neck.
  12. Stalker. Just do it normaly, no nonsense, no pressure. If you do this, she will most likely feel funny.
  13. OK. Don't be scared. Believe me its not that bad if everyone you know finds out etc. Most people would be too scared to ask themselves, and so wouldn't say anything, or say well done. Just ask her for a date. How I ask is to just open my mouth and speak, and once I start, I find it really easy. For a phone, I just type the number, and press call. Once it starts ringing, don't put it down, just speak. Once the balls in motion it is easy.
  14. OK, if I was in your situation, I would go "Hey, do you wanna go on a date with me?" if she says when, say "when ever you can", if she says where, say "Where you want - im new and so odn't know many places". I could be wrong, but if she likes you, she would say yes. From my expeirance if they like you they will agree to go on a date when ever, and to do what ever. Good luck, and those signs sound positive to me!
  15. I don't really know, but I kinda think she does like you. Perhaps she gave up on you, or she used him to make you jealous. I think I was in a less serious situation as you before, but I decided not to do aything about it. However, she really does seem to like you. If I was you I would chat to her in person about it, and clear it all up. Ask her something like "Dont joke around plz - I like you alot. Will you dump your BF to get with me?" Somehting like that. Good luck.
  16. IMHO being 14 is young. When she gets older, more boys will start noticing more girls, and even then she has time to improve her image if thats getting her down. Theres someone for everyone, no matter what you look like - I've seen unattractive people get bf's/gf's more so than attractive people, because the attractive people worry to much, and have too high standards in terms of looks. IMHO, around 16 is when boys start liking girls generally.
  17. I doubt thats me, I think you have me confused...
  18. Holy cow! She just phoned... she really wnats to date me... eventhough tomorrows her last day in the country. Im shaking... I wasn't suppossed to win... I didnt seriously think she liked me....
  19. Last date i went on, I thought it I wouldnt worry about anything, and do it all naturally. I had no worries, but I also made her hate me (although we've made up now, it's kinda bad when i see her kissing another guy). I have learnt now, that you really should follow advice given on her, unless your naturally a nice charming person. Personally I didn't think I could screw up as bad as I did, and 100% faith in myself, but then afterwards, I realised what I did. I actually insult her several times accidently, and well done everything bad. The pain of seeing her kiss another guy taught me my lesson though.
  20. Well, what makes you say that? What does the handshake mean? And yeah I have asked her out via txt/email, but well i seriously doubt she will even reply, because if we do go on a date, it will be for tomorrow, and then that will be it, 1 date. Thanks to my enotalone advice though, I dont hesitate, i just ask nowadays.
  21. Hi, I shook this girls hand that I was talking to last night at the prom, and she put her free hand on my elbow. I don't know if this is flirting or not (doubt it), but its weird, because i've never had a handshake like that before. Oh and this may be relavent or not, but she seemed genuinely interested, enthusiastic, and happy to talk to me in the convo, and I had a slight feeling she may like me like that. She smiled alot during the convo, asked open questions, like "Did you?" etc. We hugged at the end of the convo, and we swapped emails (she offered to write it down, but I said I would remember it), then this guy came along and pushed me away.
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