HeartGoesOn

You're making the right choice, Bolt. *Hugs*

My thoughts are, you're not the cause of his behaviour, but you're contributing to it by sending him nudes of your own. I'm not sure if you're aware of the danger and consequences of where your nudes will land on the internet. Rather than invest anymore of your time, I'd walk away and take the lessons with me.

Sorry to hear, Bolt. May you find peace and comfort in your memories.

I agree with others about this situation being likely to escalate. Please don't feel you're an exception to the rule, you're not. Keep in mind that your best teacher, is your last mistake. Also, bringing your self-esteem up a notch can do wonders.

Get rid of this Bozo before he drags you down with him. Raise the bar, and realize your self worth.

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Looks like this is for his own entertainment, AKA, Having his cake and eating it too. What's in it for you?

Try switching to popsicles.

I agree with others, and I'm sure you'll find other women who will agree to participate in your hobby.

I agree with Batya as in if DCYF were to get involved, you're likely go down with him. Keep in mind that this girl is a minor, and it's your job to protect her. No offense but why are you allowing this, along with letting it go on for a length of time?

As they say, "be careful what you wish for." This situation has a strong potential to backfire, resulting in coming up empty handed. I'd give this more thought, slow down and be honest with your husband.

Where do you see the prize in a man who cheated on his SO for twenty years? Keep in mind that history has a tendency to repeat itself.

Sooner or later his luck will run out, and he'll mess with the wrong person. This is not meant to minimize your encounter with him. At any rate, I agree with others as to documenting his antics as they happen, and hopefully others will participate. Oh course, if it gets to be too much, no one would blame you for leaving.

I have a hunch this will go right over your head, but rather than trying to win her back, why not focus on being more independent and making better choices? On the other hand, it appears like you're in denial which seems like a safe place, yet it's only temporary.

Before intimacy. Otherwise it's FWBs, which is not a relationship, (imo).

Her disorder is called, "I need to get a life." Seriously, as others have said, "Stay out of her path". How much more time are you obligated to stay there. Did you sign a lease?

Thanks, Vic.

Never heard of her...

I can certainly relate to your pain, feelings, etc, as I lost a sibling when he chose to take his own life at the age of 17. Unfortunately, and it makes no sense at the time, but you have to go through the stages of grief, and at times go back and forth through the stages in order to find acceptance. There are no time lines nor rules while you're going through grief. One day at a time, one minute at a time, and be kind to yourself. You'll get there, yet you'll never forget. Take care...

He likely will cheat on you again, because he has no remorse, nor does he have any morals. Also, ask yourself what scares you about a cheater who continues to cheat? I fear bringing it up to him as he'll just label me as paranoid crazy. 😞 It doesn't matter what he labels you, as it can never compare to the title he's earned for himself. Hopefully you make the right choices.

You don't have to listen to what he has to say simply because his actions have already spoke the truth. Maybe it's time to raise your value, and realize that it hurts to let go, but it hurts more to hold on.

Under review...

She's baiting you to see if you'll bite, and it's working. Rather than allowing her to torture you, why not accept that it's over and block her? Respecting yourself can do wonders...

I'd tell him you were born at night, but it wasn't last night. Seriously, the writing is on the wall, therefore what's in it for you?

Oops, I mis-read that part. 🤔