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  1. Yes I told her very calmly and she apologized, saying it was a joke when she found two jogging pants without changed price, then how she is maybe doing things and saying not being aware that it may give stress to others and things like that. We finished from her saying she doesn't want to fight, I said I don't want to fight too, then we hugged each other and she left me alone that day. Let's see next week haha!
  2. Thank you guys for your advices. She started sharing in whatsapp some quotes like she likes clear communication, real people and such stupid things. I did not see it but other colleague made screenshots and showed me. Then yesterday she asked me if everything is ok between us, where I answered from my side it is, then she said she thinks I am avoiding her, I said no, I am not avoiding anyone, I am doing my work and let other people do their work and then she started to cry! OMG! Then it went to the point where she started saying how she taught that we are good friends, it hurts her how I ignore her...my God, i never wanted to be friends!...long story short we are again good and we made clear what is the problem, let's see if she really stops being bossy...
  3. Hahahahaha good idea!!! I can pretend that I have cold! 🀣 You all have right, I was polite and not going on, but on Saturday when she invited me in back office to talk, it was too much. I know every corner of the shops after 6 months and she keeps following me and asking if I need help. I just want her to leave me alone. From my side she was welcomed, I made sure that she felt accepted when se was new. Hopefully she stops. It is not solution always to pull back with such people.
  4. You are right, but how not to get upset on her provocations? What would you tell her in such situations? She is following me when I am sorting clothes and asking if I need help?!?!? Things like that, scary also. I avoided today every eye contact, I was observing where she works, I go to other side, but it is so annoying to do so.
  5. Yes, imagine checking each tag for jogging pants for boys, and in that moment there was a lot of clothes where we needed to reduce prices. Then I was printing new prices and I put new price under the old one, so that customers can see the old price. She came and screamed no! It is written in some book we have, that new price has to go over old one! New manager is one lady who is just changing this old lady that had leg surgery, she is not very interested, this week she has leave Thursday, Friday and Saturday, so this crazy will be opening, I will be closing, but for some hours we will be working together. Even two hours with her is such a stress for me.
  6. Problem is, the city I am living is very small and full of students. There are not many jobs. This is perfect job for me, I mean it was before she came. It is near the University and where I live. I will finish all in October, but till October I need to work since the life here is very expensive. At University there are some 10 hours jobs and contracts are from 1 to 3 months, it is not worth it. The money is double less than in this shop. Phd students are paid, master not.
  7. Guys help! I am 38 years old woman, studing master in chemistry and doing part time job as sales perosn in Germany. The shop was opened in August and I am since opening there and I know everything to do there. Many people resigned from there and in one moment one older woman and me, we were left to open and close and take care of all. In December came one woman 35 years old, friendly, wanted to learn everything and I was so happy about her, taught her everything patiently, although nobody did the same for me when everything was new. I told other older lady colleague not to give her any hard time, so that she is not stressed and stays with us, since there was no one we two could rely to. Also this girl sent me nice message for Bday in January, we talked a lot, went together home, hugged each other for goodbye. She has a 14 years old daughter who is depressed and is not going to school. Girl has attacks of anger and is beating her. I felt really sorry and tried to listen and support her about helping her daughter and I taught that I also have a friend n her. Now the older lady had surgery and is not in the shop since last 2 weeks, we are currently 9 employees but all part time job (20 hours a week), and some are 10 hours a week. So the company sent anoither woman from another store to be our manager, and this 35 years old new colleague started being so close to this new manager and started giving me orders! It escalated this saturday, when she asked me if I changed prices for all jogging pants for boys on Friday, where I said yes and believe it or not she started to search and among 200-300 jogging pants she found 2 pants where price was not changed! And told me aha I found you did not do two! Like in joke, but it was scary! Then she changed prices on baby toys and asked me to put it on place and said do you know where are baby toys?!?!?! I am 6 months in the store, she is less than 2 months and she is asking me if I know where toys are. BTW our store is pretty small. Andat the top of everything she asked me to come to office behind to talk!!!!!!!!!!! Where I refused and said that I am not planning to do it. Then she just went home. Today we worked 2 hours together, i tried to avoid her and she was acting like everything is like before and I was giving quick answers, then she asked is everything is all right where I said yes, she said that I look sad. After that on saturday I could not sleep and I am really upset. Management does not care for anything and I do not want to get involved in any drama. I really do my job and go home. She can be bipolar or I don't know, but it is not my problem. I find her scary. This week we have to work 3 more days together for 2 hours and I am so stressed. It is not easy to find part time job. I don't know how to handle this situation. I am angry for being so friendly and helped her to learn all fast, which nobody helped me, now she got wings and I don't know wat she wants from me. Sorry for long post.
  8. Wow, thanks a lot Kwothe28, thank you for making it clear to me to understand. πŸ₯°πŸ€©πŸ˜‡
  9. Yes, I do not trust haha. No asked her how come there is no need for drilling and I told her about what happened, she said please do not worry, there is really no need for drilling, there will be no bacteria left, she will clean with chemicals. Thank you guys πŸ₯°
  10. Dear people, In one tooth I lost whole tooth filling. Today i went to dentist, doctor said there is no cavity, only she needs to put new filling and drilling is not needed. I am confused, since always filling change was with drilling. I had one tooth where cavity was not cleared enough and cavity started to spread under filling. I had to do root canal treatment. What worries me, hopefully she cleaned everything with chemicals before she put me filling today. πŸ™ˆ Thank you guys.
  11. I agree with you Cherylyn, everyone's life experience is different. Everyone has own view on truth and world depending on own experience. I was also like you very very naive, smiling to everyone, being always ready to help... My example were my parents, mother cardiology nurse and father oncology doctor. They are both very empathetic, their life was hard and even in their free time we always had different people in need calling my parents about illness opinion, mental support and so. I am serbian and I experienced war, bombing, inflation and in such hard times we all survived thanks to help of other people, we needed each other. Sharing with others was normal to me. Giving also, but I was also receiving. And again good people still exist, but yes, always observe step by step who deserves your time, company, help, anything. Because many things have changed, more and more self oriented people, everyone has opinion, hypocrisy biiiiig time... Highly sensitive people like you and I, we should always be careful. It is protective mechanism, yes.
  12. Yesss Cherylyn, it will always be better and better, I need to work on it and react on time, to be more assertive and so. There are still good people out there, but we should be always aware. πŸŒπŸ˜½πŸŒΊπŸ‡πŸ¦¦
  13. Dear Cherylyn, thank you for such a nice and warm answer ❀️ I can sign under everything you said. We need to be always wise with people, and for what world we were raised, that world does not exist. Hypocrisy plays a huge role between people unfortunately. But yes, with every mistake we learn more. At least today we have so many sources to read, watch videos and recognize problem to work on it. In theory I think I am master, but in reality when I need to implement it, it still goes very slow hahahhahahha πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡
  14. Catfeeder thank youuuuuuuu, yupiiiiiiiiiiii πŸžπŸŽ‰πŸ¦„πŸ˜ŠπŸ€©
  15. Thank youuuu Boltnrun πŸ₯° I have never heard of CODA meetings, sounds interesting πŸ’–πŸ’žπŸ’—
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