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Upon closer inspection The image is just a little Disconcerting The reflection seems Jaundiced Gaunt Just a trace of sadness In those uneasy cheeks There is a silent honesty In mirrors That betrays the many truths We so desperately strive To conceal With clothes And gadgets With accessories And makeup An honesty Tucked away like old photographs Behind the pupils

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How Can I ever Walk away from this Without first Having Seen ___________?

You have serious talent.

I'm a chef. I love it 75 percent of the time. The other 25 percent I'm just too tired (long days) to think one way or the other about it. The pay is good, perks are great and recognition is constant.

I'm sorry to hear about the break-up. I hope you find a little "enjoyment" out there anggrace. Use protection, wink-wink.

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I saw this in one of the posts and don't know what it is. I'm guessing "limited contact".

It was a co-worker. He moved to the opposite side of the country and is no longer in the picture. He text messages her alot and she says that he told her he loved her. She isn't really into him like that (just friends, or so she says) and part of the deal of getting back together is that communication between the two stop completely. We're getting together to talk about it tomorrow. Wish me luck. I'm sure I'll tell you what happened.

Wait sorry-- Is he abusive? Does he hit you?

Did you tell him you cheated on him? If not, then you shouldn't stay with him unless you do. If you did and he's still willing to stay with you, you have a heck of a guy.

A brief summary... Girlfriend of three years and I split in August. We were VERY close. Still are, just not a couple. Circumstances for breakup include: 1. I was working too much 2. She was working too much 3. We were working opposite schedules 4. She was becoming close to another guy 5. I was not happy about it The guy was a catalyst more than anything. We had other problems (intimacy, fear of taking next step ((marriage)), future goals differed), but ultimately, we were doing really well. She has admitted to not dealing with the situation well. I have admitted to clamming up when I should have been open and communicative. Now we're thinking about getting back together but I am getting the impression she just wants to keep me around because she's scared of being alone. She has an anxiety disorder and needs constant affirmations (read - she's smart enough, she's pretty enough, she's making the right decisions). Since we've talked about getting back together, she's kinda been blowing me off. Before the "talk", I was doing fine on my own and only occasionally getting depressed. She called me all the time. Ladies especially --- What is she thinking?????

Maybe you should just give him some space for a little while and then, wait and see. I wouldn't go NC, just let him breathe and relax. If he's having issues (stress, anxiety, oppressed feelings regarding his mother, homosexual feelings, etc.) then the space may give him some time to deal with them and perhaps he'll be more articulate about his problems. If the space doesn't help and he still won't talk, and he won't go to counseling, then you might want to consider moving on. Good luck.

When I found out my ex was kind of seeing another guy, I broke up with her and found myself in a pretty deep funk for a while. LOL, I started doing the same thing (bookstores, jogging, played alot of chess) and before I knew it, through the change in routines, she was no longer at the forefront of my mind. Sometimes when we break up, it's not the person we miss, but the routine.