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FallingTooFast

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  1. Well yeah, I know they mean no harm. But it just feels awkward at points. I mean I'm not going ot stop them, I have a hard time doing that, escpecially if what you're saying about the mothers wanting a connection to back when they had their kids in their tummys. I couldn't take that away from them, because I might do it at somepoint. Yeah hopefully this baby will just pop-out and I won't have a hard time during the pregnancy. Thanks
  2. Is it just me or is it kind fo awkward to have people sit there, stare at your tummy, and then ask to rub it, and then rub and talk to it? I mean, if you know the person, sometimes it's okay. But a stranger? Uhmm... feedback appretiated.
  3. Yeah the morning after pill isn't going to help now. THanks for all the input though
  4. But see I haven't taken the pill. I will take it once (if) I get my period. Thanks though. I think it eased my mind a little.
  5. Take it from me, who would love a kid, but is wayyy too young for one. Who might be pregnant. Fee's. That's pretty much all you have to say. It might be wonderful to have children. And I would love to have some. But without the money. It's not fair to the child to live a life in poverty because the parent's weren't ready. Don't get her pregnant, at least not yet. Do you have a steady job? Does she? Transportation? What's she going to do about school? And I agree with Rikka. You seem to have this more planned out than your girlfriend (fiance)(No dig at your fiance at all) Good luck!
  6. My period isn't due until the end of the month. But with all the added stress of all this, and the stress of my boyfriends family coming down for thanksgiving and my parents divorcing it could be up to 2 weeks late.
  7. Thanks but that doesn't help me for now. If I am pregnant. That's for later?
  8. I'm not trying to give you grief about it. I'm trying to stop you from giving me grief about it. Of course I'm freaking out about pregnancy. Im 15! I'm not trying to make up excuses about getting it checked out. I'm thinking ligically how I can't. I can't drive. My boyfriend can't drive. And I won't tell my mother until I know for certain whether I am or not.
  9. What if I'm not religious, what if I don't believe in "god", which I don't. Should I thank "him" for something as unreliable as condoms? I mean what good are they if they break all the time. Very hypocritical i think.
  10. I don't live in the city, we don't have buses or cabs unless you mean to find one out of the phonebook and pay them extra money to find us out here. Thanks for the ideas though
  11. The following isn't directed at you, just the way you're talking I've already had sex okay! There is no way I can take it back! I don't need a "Well, you shouldn't have," I DID! okay. So help me fix it from here.
  12. No he doesn't drive either. He could have his liscence, but because he moved so much he hasn't gotten it yet. Thanks for the tip
  13. Thank you But how exactly do i get there. I can't drive
  14. Just because you aren't the skinniest little model wanna-be girl (thats a good thing by the way) doesn't mean you aren't anorexic. I know I don't stare at people who are overweight, most people don't. And those who have time to sit there and make fun have no life and way too much free time.
  15. thanks for your opinion. But I'm not trying to sound like I'm 30, I'm not trying to sound like anything. I just had questions. I needed answers. But I didn't need to be chewed out.
  16. Thank you for posting, and thanks for signing up. I know we made a mistake. My boyfriend won't bail, he's already promised everything for me, he tries. And I think one of the most prominant questions in my head is whether I could keep it. I'm going to tell my councelor just to be able to tell an adult in my area who isn't my parents and see what options there are in the area. Thank you so much for your input
  17. Hun of course its makign you sick not eating, it's an eating disorder. Anorexia. It's just as destroying to your body as cutting. Please just re-think it
  18. Im sorry guys but i really don't need the "your 15 readjust your priorities" speech. I've already given that to myself. I may sound immature and stupid saying that, then so-be-it. I know we made stupid mistakes, I know that. Now all I'm trying to do is fix it. I'm trying to get my life together. Just stop with the speeches. Please. That's the last thing I need right now. I've already done it so I do not need the "you're too young, rethink that" speech either. The condom didn't break because it was old, we had just bought the pack the day before. The condom didn't break because we used it wrong. (We're not stupid.) I don't know why it broke. But I can take the precautions to making sure that the mistake doesn't run my life. Thanks for the replies though.
  19. Please don't start I know you don't know me but there are so many people who die from cutting. I know how you feel and I know how hard it is, and i know you don't want to hear that, but it's the truth. Get a councelor, it helps i swear. I've been in a similar situation, and I know it's hard. But your self destructive self is going to take over and screw you up to a point thats irreverable. Death. Live life to the fullest. Eat. Live. Breathe. Love. Please? If you have to start doing something, then use the rubberband theory. It helps
  20. But sometimes they're wrong. And sometimes you take them too early. When we started using condoms they seemed to always break. And if I start the pill, my parents will know I've had sex.
  21. If your parents are driving you to go meet your boyfriend, then you're still under their control. Get your licensce, or a car. Get a job. Get independent and then they'll treat you like you deserve to be treated. Once there, you should be able to see him whenever you need. And if you're still with him (hopefully, you sound happy,) by the time you get your independence then you can tell your parents (just a precaution so you don't get kicked out if your parents are like that) Good luck
  22. Hi, I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend and I had started having sex October 17th(I lost it to him,) and just started using condoms... I've been having pregnancy scares since then. I try to convince myself that they're just stress symptoms because some of them are (headaches, backaches, fatigue.) But some aren't from stress (discharge, darker colored areas on my breast, bloated feeling) and my period isn't supposed to come until the end of the month. I've researched it and all the symptoms with my boyfriend, and I think we may be just psyked out. Im only 15, i really can't hold that responsibility. And if I am pregnant, how do i break it to my family, they don't know anything of what I've done. I Love him to death, and plan on having children with him someday, but not now. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused. Please help.
  23. I'm saying what my friends have been saying that I know i have trust issues and i know i handle them badly. But I try the hardest i can.
  24. Sometimes, when me and my boyfriend are just sitting in my living room, he does that smallest things to make me happy. Like brush my hair out of my face Or touch my cheek And look into my eyes and tell me he loves me Or that I'm beautiful (even though I disagree) He's just so perfect. I guess it doesn't take much to make me happy.
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