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  1. I have had pregnancy symptoms. I don't know when i got pregnant, in between October 20th and a couple weeks ago. We're holding off for now until we know for sure.
  2. yeah I bought the test but I can't take it until the end of the month... Thanks for the help
  3. Yeah but they check my mail. When I get a package from one of my best friends they stand over my shoulder like a hawk. I can't take the test until the end of the month. I know it's a little early to really know, but I'd rather be over-cautious than under-cautious.
  4. Not yet. I want to make sure first, because I don't want to get them in it if I'm not. But my partner and I have talked about how to tell them when (if) the time comes.
  5. I know you didn't mean that as an attack. And I know everything is expensive and that I can't do everything when I want, such as showers. I know that I can't hand him/her off to anyone. I don't think I would try to. On the who's paying for this thing: He's getting/got a job. I've got a job. And we know how to conserve money, we both know how expensive diapers and formula are. Thanks for the points though. This isn't an attack back.
  6. Thank you for the advice. Yeah I'm trying to be as careful as possible just in case. And it's hard in the hallways in school but my partner pushes through in front of me. The hallways these days are like the metro in NewYork/DC! Again thanks for the advice.
  7. BTR: I know I probably sound naive. And I know I don't know EVERYTHING of what I'm getting in to. But I know I'm not expecting to have a perfect relationship with my child. I know that there are problems. I know that it's a life, and I know it'll depend on me. I also know that once you have a child, they are your life, you give up everything for them. I know that because I have babysat a child for now almost 3 years, since she was born. She's wonderful, I don't know what I'd do without her. In some ways I act as though she's my child. I care for her like she's my own. I know you're trying to show me what problems come with this, and thank you, but I know a lot more than you guys think. KB: I have not mentioned our relationship staus in this post, but in another. And most of the people who had read this post had read the other.Thank you for your concern, and I'm not trying to attack her, I'm trying to defend my boyfriend and myself. thanks much guys
  8. Thank you for sharing your story. And thank you for not criticizing what you don't know. My boyfriend is a lot like your partner, it seems. He's a great supporter, and he's there for me. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you keep updating us.
  9. Well I've had both types. I have an ex who says everything in the world hateful about me. Even though he used to buy me little stuffed animals and spend all his time with me (he's a thug, gangsta type). And then I have an ex who's my best friend And then I have an ex who's mad at me for breaking up with him even though he's the one who was cheating on me. And he's still mad at me over a year later. Even though he's got another girl who he says is his life. I think that they're just trying to get themselves over you.
  10. Oh my gosh! He's so smart! I'd love for my kid to end up like him! I'm sorry that the other grandma doesn't follow up but your efforts are great! Haha, yeah a girl I babysit started calling her mother by her first name as well, because everyone else calls her by that.
  11. I know what I'm headed into. And I know what im not going to be allowed to do. I know my expectations. And I know my restrictions. We have both planned for the worst. We're not clueless. We've gone over and over the different scenarios. -Boy -Girl -Birth deffects -everything. I just hate how you guys are steriotyping teenage boys. They aren't all the same.
  12. Why are some people on here so against the underage men? My boyfriend has promised me everything, He would promise me the world if he could. I have said nothing to have anyone believe he is anything but helpful. He's the one who said he would wake up 4-5 times a night to help with the baby, even though I said I would. He's not like most of the "hormone raging" teenagers. He's different. And I would really appretiate if you would stop trying to judge him, when you don't even know him.
  13. oh god I know born! I have to wait 2 weeks to take my test.
  14. But how is her post not disrespectful! She doesn't know anything about my boyfriend! She's obviously had problems with men or something but she doesn't have to take it out on me, my boyfriend, or my post!
  15. Awww RODEO!! That's such a great experience. Sorry for confusing you guys. No I'm not certain that I'm pregnant. But I have told my boyfriend and two of my bestfriends that it's a possibility. Right now they're the only ones that have touched my stomach and my boyfriend is the only one who talked to my stomach. (Even though they don't get their ears until later.) I'm pretty sure I am, just haven't taken the test yet. I'm taking the test on Sunday, so I'll keep you updated. I think at this point, of how much we have planned and planned, I really want this baby, I know I shouldn't, that I'm too young to really think about that. But I really do want this baby, and I know once I get it through to my parents, they'll be happy for me. But I'll probably be mroe upset if the test is negative than if it's posative.
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