iwishiknew

I am 28 and still a virgin

Just curious about how many dates a week does everyone have a week?

My motivation comes thru my mind and thinking of how much I wish I had a gf and my first kiss and thinking of the past of all the names of the girls that I knew who never given me a chance at all, I just think of it and shove it all in my head and I run like hell!! For some reason this frustration of never having a gf or never kissing a girl really does put a hard impact on me and gives me andrilen (I think thats how you spell that word) .. I do alot of running as a daily routine workout for me. I could run the mile in 4 mins and 57 secs..Everyday I run 3 miles straight non-stop and my running is improving each week for me..My motivation might sound dumb, stupid and lame but for some reason it works for me.

I kind of believe in it..Hurleybabe where in Michigan are you at? I used to live in Michigan for 8 months until I got laid off

I think I will grow out my hair just alittle bit

What exactly is speed dating? Is it expensive?

Thats true also! reason why still today i never had a gf

looks matters alot to girls period!

How many here have found relationships from online dating? I want to have a gf and a relationship! I am 28 yrs old and I have been doing online for like 6 yrs now and never could find any girls interested in me, I can't even get a date..Reason why I have been doing online dating is because I don't like the bar or club scene also I don't have alot of friends...I do go out, I go to the park, workout, to the stores and crusing, but never had any success from online dating..I have done most all of the online dating websites and wasted alot of $$ but now I am just on link removed and link removed because its free..Does anyone know anymore free dating websites? Also how many dates have you gotten from online dating? Were any of them successfull?

Dam your 14, When I was your age, I couldn't get anything,,,grr...14 yrs later I still haven't gotten it! ](*,)

I am also a virgin...

What kind of hair styles do women find attractive on guys? Just curious if most women like guys with short hair, long hair or being bald?...I have tried many hair styles in the past except shaving my head bald and never had any luck..Other day ago one of my teammates on my team said that alot of women find him attractive due to his hair being long (not to long like a girl) thats why he never cut his hair, he used to have it short but now its a little long and many women like it...I am thinking about growing out my hair just alittle bit..Maybe I will get some luck! Do many women find guys attractive with long hair?

Wow your lucky!, 5 gf's and your 28...I am 28 and still trying to get my first gf...I have been to the bars and clubs and majority of the girls I see there smoke...thats a turn off for me..and never had any luck at the bar or club scene

I hope my luck will change soon! It just seems so weird being 28, never had a gf, a relationship or even kissed a girl yet..What makes this so hard is no girl finds no interest in me or even wants to get to know me at all...

I have been single my whole life and just can't beat the odds

If I had a gf..I would get her jewelry

For me getting dates isn't always easy to get..I am not to much into the club or bar scene...I do go out to the stores, the park, bookstore just not to much into clubs and bars..

Why is getting a gf so hard to get? I am 28 yrs old, living in the suburbs of chicago and still today I haven’t had any girlfriend or any relationship and still haven’t had my first kiss. I never even had a friend that was a girl. Females don’t find any attraction in me at all or never have any interest in me or never given me a chance. I don’t know why but I wish I knew. Ever since I was in hs I never had a gf..10 years later I still don't have a gf, I have been to college and never had any success in getting any girls.. Since last year I have been out with a few girls only once and never been able to go out with them again. They just lost interest in me. I call them they don’t pick up or I leave a message and they don’t respond back to. That tells me that they are not interested in me so I give up on them. When I went out with them, I thought they had a good time. We had good food, talked, and laughed then after that never was able to go out with them again. I also got ditched a few times when I went out with a few girls, which really hurt. When I went out with this one girl to the movies, she was really nice and we had many things in common and I though we will have a good time. After the movie started she told me she’s going to get some popcorn and after time went by like 20 mins, I was wondering what’s taking so long? Then my phone vibrated and I got a text message saying “SORRY", I just felt sick after that. I don’t get why in life it’s so hard to get a gf? In the movie and tv shows you see guys getting girls so easy and girls smiling and approaching guys, what can’t this happen to me in my life? Why can't girls approch me? I am very honest, caring, fun loving, sweet, active and very out going person; I am not lazy at all! I am in good physical shape. I can run the mile in 5 minutes and I workout everyday. I play sports; the main sport I play is ice hockey. I would think being in good shape and working out everyday and even playing hockey would at least attract one female and find me somewhat interesting but it hasn’t. I have been running and playing hockey since I was small and no females every approach me or at least say a comment to me of my progress especially if I win many big games. Or run good time in the mile run. I do go out; I don’t sit in the house all day. I do go stores, book stores, restaurants and places to get food, car shows, and the park (I go there everyday). I am not a big bar person or club person at all, just never was. I do go once in awhile but not a lot. I can’t stand the smoke! It makes my eyes itchy and red. If it wasn’t for the smoke it would be so awesome. Also I am not too much into drinking but I do drink once in awhile but not a lot. I have heard many people having success with online dating so I tried several online dating websites and I usually get no responses back. I got a few responses but somewhere fake profiles and a few asked a few questions and I responded back and never heard back again. Some of these dating sites my profile has been viewed over 1000 times and no responses or emails back from any females. In my opinion that’s alot of views! Now I am trying craigslist personals and okcupid, but no luck yet. I find so many females with a perfect match of interests as me, if I find a female with the same interests in me I respond and I introduce my self, I tell what I enjoy doing my interests and just simple stuff like that. And I send it with my picture and no response back. It’s so hard to believe that no females out of a thousand who viewed my profile has no interest in me at all. I don’t understand? I am also on hotornot and my rating is below average, it’s a 5.2, even on that website I can’t get any responses or doublematches. I am also on myspace and I have over 100 girls as friends and when I email them many of them don’t respond back to me. ( Possibly half of them are fake or just have no interest in me). I do get some comments but it doesn’t go further as I want to so I can at least get to know them. I have notice many times if I see a girl walking like in a store or anywhere and I try to make eye contact and smile they always never look me into the eye, they just put there head down and just walk away without looking at me, this I really have notice alot happening. I really think my problem of why I never had a gf yet is my height and looks. I have been told many times by girls why they don’t want to go out with me, many said I am to short and I have no physical attraction. I have read so many online profiles and majority of the women wants a man who’s 5’8 or taller. I have gotten a few responses from girls before saying “oh I am kinda tall” “you kinda short”, and I respond back saying you being tall doesn’t bother me at all. I know that height matters! Also a girl wants a handsome guy that she find attractive. I do have confidence in myself, I like the way I am but females don’t find any attraction or interest in me at all. This who situation of me never having a gf or kissing a girl really puts an impact on me every single day that I never had any experience, having fun or a relationship with a girl. I have always wanted a gf since I was a teen. I remember when I was a teen and never having a gf didn’t bother me at all because I was still young. Today since I turned 28 in May it just hurts and I am almost 30 and sometimes I just think that I will be single forever and never be able to share my life with a female. I don’t want to think that way but the days and years are going by fast and I am getting older each year. Every single day when I wake up it’s always in my mind and doesn’t go away. Thinking about girls and having a gf being able to go out and have a good time and being able to talk everyday to each other. It’s so hard not to think about it everyday. It sometimes affects me at work by not concentrating and thinking “I can’t believe I am 28 yrs old and never had a gf or kissed a girl yet” or hearing guys talking about their girlfriends and dates etc. Or going out anywhere especially to the movies and seeing guys with their gf. I have heard so many times before “don’t look for them, they will come to you” like when? "Or you find a girl when you least expect it" Still today I never been approach by a girl. Sometimes I ask myself what does it take for me to get a gf? I don’t get it at all! I am nice person who’s, caring, outgoing, fun, sweet, honest, loving, active, athletic, good physical shape, so why can’t I get a gf? The 3 important key things, which I believe why I never had a gf yet and reason why girls never find me attractive, never want to get to know me or never give me a chance and losing interest in me is. 1. Height ( I am 5’5) 2. Looks (my looks are somewhat average) 3. My voice, I have been hanged up on the phone many times before. To me what I have been through and seen many times its all based on looks and appearance, and height. The first impression a girls sees is what you look like, if shes doesn’t like the way you look you won’t get a chance, happened to me so many times. I don’t reply to super hot girls, because I know they won’t respond to me, I like pretty, average girls who enjoys the same interests as me. I wish I knew the problem so I can change so I can get a gf or so that girls find me interesting. I can’t change my height, my voice or looks. I have tried different hair styles except shaving my head bald. I do dress neat a normal. I am clean all the time, I bathe everyday and brush my teeth after I eat. And I use cologne, BOD man all the time. I do go out, stores, parks, etc. Is it possible that I could be single for the rest of my life? Was I born to be single forever? It seems like it to me, I don’t want think it that way, but the way things have been happening and having no gf since my teenage years and now being in my late 20’s and almost 30 yrs old and still nothing at all. It’s just a weird being 28 and never having a gf, to me I am missing a big part of my life and my manhood. I just can’t beat the odds!! I wish I can beat the odds but its so dam hard! I wish I could experience what its like to have a gf and to have someone that cares about you and knowing you have someone to talk to and have a goodtime with. I would give up anything just to have a gf, I would give up my pride and joy my 90 mustang gt, which I like so much and put some much into that car. Sorry for making this post so long but I want the readers to get the picture and I am looking for help, advise and any suggestions what I can do or change? If you were in my shoes, what would you do? What do you think my problem is? Why can’t I get a gf? Why don’t girls find me interesting? Why haven’t I ever been approached by a girl or even kissed a girl yet?