khujo56
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Thank you guys for all the imput. It does make me feel better when someone else says it. i was not seeing the whole picture before, i was rather focusing on myself. Now i do see where you guys are coming from
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hi Guys I think i'm being really paranoid. I've been seeing this girl for 2 months now. We only see each other on weekends but talk during the week as well. She is heading back to school for 8 months. Now i asked her if she still wanted to see me, and she said why would i even say that. I said because you have priorities. She said we only see each other on weekends and that she will make time. She wants a life as well. Am i being paranoid because i like her and afraid i might loose her. what can i do to get over this bump
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Hi Guys I need some help, i am seeing this girl for about 2 months and there are times wer i want to have sex with but it's hard for it to stay up. it's not her, she is aroused and wt, ready to have sex, but i'm just can't get it to stay up. i am very attracted to her. is it maybe just nerves. i dunno what it is. is there anything i can take to make it stay up longer.
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I met this girl online. it was sort of a weird thing. i messaged her and she never responded. then the next day she messaged me back. It's been 2 months now i like how it's going. I was dating a few people before but no sparks really. With her we seemed to click right away.
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sorry it's when i'm with her, it's hard for me to cum
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Hi Guys I've just been dating this girl for about 2 months now and we have had sex but i have a problem where i cannot cum. now it's not that i'm not aroused or attracted to her. i'm just having a hard time cumming. is this a natural thing.
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i honestly don't think all men cheat, it is unfair for me being a guy and having a girl say that to me. it makes it harder on the guys who don't cheat to convince that person you are not yet alone make them trust you. it's will always be an endless battle i think
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Hi there I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now and i was wondering if it is a good idea to give her flowers or candy. i'm not sure if it is to early because i don't want to come on too strong. should i or is it too early
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So as i discussed prior on this site, i was dating this girl for a month and she decided she wanted to be friends..i had no choice but to accept that. now since we are in friends mode, i try to speak to her once a week via telephone or text message, but it seems that she is not really interested in being friends..basically i contact her and she responds..she never contacts me..so i know asked her if she likes talking to me..she said she was busy with work and her family and it;s been really busy lately..no time for anything...that was last week and i never heard from her...i know she is not interested in me anymore, i guess i just want to see if you guys think the same. thanks for the advice
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Hi Guys Question for you, ok this girl approach me and we dated for like a month, but she wanted to be friends in the end..too soo for her i guess. now have you ever felt like you are the loser in a situation like that where she ends it or would you feel like the winner for her approaching you. it's not a competition but i feel like i'm the loser. just a question
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no never said cheating has made me stronger..i'm not the one that got cheated on..she did..i'm just tired of meeting someone and then it all goes down hill....i'm just scared of being hurt again and again
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yes it is very hard to do..the reason why i'm so fragile these days is basically...i met 3 girls over the span of 4 months..the first girl we never met but talked on the phone only for her to cut me off..no reason why..never got a hold of her. the 2nd girl we were dating only for her to e-mail me and tell me that she met someone else..she changed her number so i could not get a hold of her. this girl now who i really like , we dated for about a month only for her to realize that she wants to be friends...so if you guys can see my frustration in this. i've sorta come to the conclusion that it's not them..maybe it's me. either way i know i should move on, but going forward i'm just being honest, i'm afraid of being hurt again. thanks for all the advice
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I REALLY HOPE THAT'S NOT THE CASE WHERE SHE IS USING HER EX AS AN EXCUSE. THAT IS TERRIBLE, IT MAKES ME FEEL SO UNATTRACTIVE. I KNOW PEOPLE ARE SAYING MOVE ON BUT IT IS REALLY NOT EASY, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU TALK EVERYDAY AND NOW YOU DON'T TALK AT ALL.
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Hey guys I've been dating this girl for about a month and she told me a few days ago that she is not ready for anything yet..she wants to be friends...long story short..she got out of a relationship about 3 months ago, her ex cheated on her and she said that she is just not ready to date again..everyhting was going fine, well that's what she said. she did say that she does not want to loose touch with each other, she does needs time. my question is i'm dying to call her like everyday but i know i can't. she needs her space..should i move one or stick around and see where this goes.
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ok so i met this girl and for about a month everything seems great. then she hits me with the i'm not ready for a relationship, just friends at this point. i'm a bit hurt cuz i thought everything was going well. i understand where she is coming from, she was cheated on by her ex and it's only been like 3 months ago, so she is probably not ready for anything yet. we both agreed that we have alot in common and would like to continue to talk. she did say that she does not want to loose what she has between us. i'm not sure if i should continue talking to her as friends or move on
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yes thank you for that advice. is there anything else i can do
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HI Guys i met this girl about 1 month ago and everything seems great. But i feel really insecure. i guess if i don't hear from here that day i think that she is interested in someone else. i asked her if everything is ok between us and she said yes. i know it's early and i'm stressing myself out. i know i should take things slow and we both like the way it's going. i guess i'm like this is becuase i met a girl prior to this girl and liked her only to find out that she was with someone else and ended up cutting me off...so i tend to get scared and think that this girl will do the same. i told this girl that and she said not to think that. also i have not seen her in a week because she is busy with work so that also causes me to panic..any advice guys.thanks
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So i me this girl and we seem to like each other. this will be the 4th time i'm seeing her...think it's a good idea to get her some flowers.
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i mean not to be so pushey ...i've only know the girl for 2 weeks. not to rush into it
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i honestly think i over analysing the situation..i have not had a g/f in a while..so i'm being very anxious...i think i should back off
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that is what i'm not sure about...i think she has met a few bad ones in the past, so i think she is being very cautious in not making the same mistake again
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Hi Guys I met this girl off this dating website. we have not met in person yet although we did exchange cell #. i think she is a really nice person. the first week we spoke online she seems like a sweetheart. she did say that she believes in being friends first first. which i understand. i see were she is coming from, it looks like she wants to take things slow..getting to know you first. my concern is i think she is a great person, just not sure if i should continue with this or move on. i just need to know what she is thinking. do you think it's good to takeit slow and let her make the choice
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Hi Guys I have been single now for about 4 years. the problem i have is that i was so hurt during my last relationship that i am afraid of getting hurt again. i do meet girls but for some reason i fall for them to easily which leads to me getting hurt again or i keep my distance so they don't get to know me sort of a defense mechanism to avoid getting hurt. i also have a problem where i always think that i am bothering them when i call, which leads me not to calling them at all...is this a normal thing and if so how do i stop it from happening again. i mean i would really like to have a girlfriend again..single life is great but it does get lonley most of the times. thanks for your help and listening
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hi guys..i took your advice and never called her in about a week. but i decided to call yesterday...only to find out that her cell phone is no longer in service...i'm speechless...i know for sure now she is not interested, but what really tickes me off is the way she handled it. i mean i would have been more happier having her say she is not interested, but to stop calling and the disconnecting her cell phone..that is just a real slap in my face. hey i never called her that much..this one i really don't get...what makes it worse is i feel sooooo rejected and ashamed of myself. i'm constantly thinking of what i did wrong
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those are very good points...thanks guy...as for the e-mailing her, i have no idea why i did that and i actually regretted doing that but it was to late. i think your points are well taken...i'll ease off for sure and see what happens
