khujo56
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I think this is the wrong forum to post but i'll write it anyways. I'm 31, single and lonely. All my friends are either married or engaged. I miss hanging with them because they are with their wifes or g/f or are doing the couples thing where i feel like the odd man out. At this point i thought i would be married or at least have a g/f but i have none. I hate the weekends because i'm by myself and have nobody to share it with. I sit and wait for friends to call me. I like a co -worker at work but as usual she has a boyfriend. I know she likes me more than a friend but i'm just being taken for a run since i'm a nice guy. I don't know what to do anymore. I cry because i'm sad and i feel like not good enough for any girl.](*,)
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HI Guys I'm meeting a girl for a date this sunday. This will be our first date so i'm not sure on what to do. She did say that she does not want to do the dinner or coffee thing. I have not suggested this to her but i would like to take her to a baseball game (if she likes the sport). What do u think..good idea. Any other ideas on what to do for going on a first date
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I think bethany hit the nail on the head...push comes to shove she will choose her boyfriend over me...thanks for the help guys
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She did admit that she has questioned her relationship with her boyfriend. she knows it's not going anywhere. i think she is not sure what to do. she did say they lack communication. and i don't want to force her breaking up with him. she should do it on her own.
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Hi So i like this girl in my office and she likes me...she admitted she has feelings for me and so do i..the problem is she has a boyfriend. i dunno what to do..we have kissed numerous times...but it's hard to stop liking her...what can i do..she sits very close to me so it's hard to avoid her. I think she really likes me but the boyfriend thing is stopping us. it also does not stop me from seeing other people but she is always in my mind
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Hi Guys there is a girl at my work who is attracted to me. i am attracted to her as well, but she has a boyfriend. which to me seems like a dead end right there. Now she did admit that she was attracted to me and we unfortunately did kiss. But in the back of my mind i feel like this is just a game to her. And i'm trying to push myself away from her but it is harder than i thought. i try to not talk to her as often but she would come to my desk and talk to me. how do i end this????
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Hi Guys So i found out through a co -worker that this cute girl at work really liked me. Now she has a boyfriend but is on and off with him as he treats her like crap. Now i always thought she was cute and i was attracted to her but kept my distance as she had a boyfriend. The last month or so we have been talking alot at work and she admitted that she was attracted to me and had feelings for me and really wanted to kiss me. I to admitted that i wanted to kiss her.... So yesterday when we where leaving from the gym i took the courage and kissed her. it kinda felt akward but i asked if she wanted another kiss and she basically moved towards me a made the move. Later that evenning i messaged her and asked her if she was ok, she said it was akward and now she felt very guilty for what she did. I said i was sorry and told her i would back off. We spoke for 2 hours yesterday and everything seemed ok but at work today she was not herself, she would sorta avoid me and not talk to me. I feel really bad and uncomfortable as she is acting this way. I don't know what to do
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Hi You meet a girl and start seeing each other. Everything is great and you are head over heels for each other. You meet the family, hang out with her, go to her family functions, stay at her place. Things are swell and it looks like it's going in a good direction. You don't rush into it but take it slow. you both agree it's going great and at a nice pace. She decides to head back to school and tells me can't promise anything. She tells me im rushing her into something she can't give (relationship) which i never mentioned. She says that she does not want to be friends, totally cuts me off, blocks my cell number, blocks me on messenger. I'm totally confused and hurt. 2 months down the road i'm still hurt and i miss her but i know that i'm nothing to her, just a distant memory. So in short i'm very hurt, i lost weight, i could not eat, my family was worried as i went into a state of depression. So in short even though it seems like it is going well, know that it can always turn on you in a dime
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Hi Guys Over the last 8 months, i have dated 5 girls and of the 5.... 4 of them there was a connection or spark which lead to dating. Now everyone of those girls who i dated broke my heart and recently the last girl i dated ended it about a month ago as she wanted to be friends since she was heading back to school. I stand here all confused wondering what i am doing wrong. I feel as if i'm not good enough for them and they get bored and move on, tossing me like a piece of garbage on the side of the road. The last month as been so bad for me, not because of the girl who ended it with me but the fact that i don't know what i'm doing wrong. I just turned 31 and all my friends are either married, engaged or dating someone, and i feel like i'm all alone. I just don't understand what i'm doing wrong to get treated like this. I sometimes cry at my desk because i'm so hurt and i'm sorry if it makes me look weak but the last 8 months has been tough, since everygirl broke my heart. My self esteem and confidence is gone. I'm now afraid to date as i'm really scared of been hurt again
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Hi It' s been about 1 month since we ended it, and there has been no contact since but i miss her so much. I'm always thinking what she is doing. I tempted to call her to say what's up but i know that will do no good. I really fell for her and i really liked her but she can only offer friendship at this time, but she decided not to be friends. I feel like i let this one slip away. I really have the urge to call her, just to hear her voice
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OK So last night i went to my friends b-day and me being single for about 1 month now, i was looking at all the people at the party. What i noticed was that all the ladies who had boyfriends where all tall. Me of course only being 5'7, i'm by no means tall. Now the question i ask is dowomen like tall guys. I saw ladies who were like 5'2 - 5'3 and there boyfriends were like 6'2. Is that just in general these days that women find taller men attractive?
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I have a question. What do you guys think, when you meet your partners family. Is that a big step? also if they allow you to stay over at their place. example you can sleep over whenever you want. Are these considered big steps when dating someone. I would think so, i met all her family and i was able to stay over whenever. But she says it does not mean anything. Now call me old fashion but i think that is a big thing when dating someone. What do you guys think?
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You are dating someone and you are unsure if it will work, you ask to be friends and they say no, so you decide to stick around and see if it will work out. Only for that person to decide they want to be friends. That sure left a bad taste in my mouth since i decided to give it a chance only to be hurt.
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Well the reason for the breakup was that she wanted to be friends because she is heading back to school and did not want a relationship
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Today after a week after my breakup with my girlfriend, she emailed me to say she does not want to be friends. For the first time since we ended it i really cried because i knew she was not coming back anymore. I really miss her and to be so harsh as to e-mail me is the worse. It is very lonely now
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Hi Guys So i was dating this girl and she decided to be friends. Now at first i did not accept it but after a few harsh e-mails to her and later her admiting that i really hurt her, i find myself feeling very guilty for hurting her. To make a long story short it sounded like what i said made her look like a prostitute (not the right word). And today after thinking about it for 1 week, i emailed her to apologize. She accepted my apology but told me those words were really hurtful to her. Now the other reason for the e-mail was that i did not want to loose her as a friend. She is heading back to school and she said she was not sure how the relationship would go , so she decided to be friends. But i'm feeling very hurtful for hurting her and the fact that she does not want to be friends. After a few e-mails telling her that i did not intend to make it look like she was a prostitute, she said she will think about it and will get back to me. Is this a promising sign. Normally i would not care, but i think how great she is and i don;t want to loose it. Should i wait and see what happens or should i throw in the towel
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I would agree that is can be stressful and confusing sometimes. What i have learned is that you should never settle for what the person you are dating wants. I mean if you want a relationship and she wants to be friends, then you should let the person know. Don't settle for anything. You know what you want and you should stick to it. If you are not on the same page, then there is no point wasting your time. Move on. I have learned from my mistakes and now i stick to what i want.
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Hi Guys After numerous posts regarding my recent break up with this girl i've been seeing for 3 months, i still think about her constant. I don't call her but i did however message her and apologized because i said some really harsh things out of anger. Now i still think about her. I know it's because i use to spend my weekends with her and i was use to that. Now i spent it alone. I know they say to do stuff to keep her off your mind but it's insane. I check my phone hoping she will call or on msn to see if she will log on and talk to me. How can i get over this, it's drives me insane and then i get depressed. I want to move on but something is stopping me. Please help anything to get rid of it
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Hi Guys Lately i've been having a problem where when i meet a lady and we start dating i put alot of effort into it. Now i'm trying to see how i can ease off and gradually take the dating step one at a time. What happens is, i tend to fall for a girl to quickly, then i start acting all insecure and weird. I don't know how to stop that. Well the last girl i dated, we were seeing each other for 2 months and i really liked her. From the start we said we would take things slow. She mentioned she was going back to school and i asked if she would still have time to see me. She said yes, but a week later she says she can't promise anything. A week after that i asked her where this is going, and she said friends and she does not have time for a relationship. If i knew this from the start, i would not have dated her. But because i had feelings for her, it really hurt. it felt like i was just used for sex and that's it. she is telling me i'm insecure and immature for not accepting friends, but i did accept it. And i suggested friends before but she decided to wait and see how things go. I know i should have ended it when i had the chance. Well i really need to know how i can stop from rushing into things and falling so hard for girls, only to end up being hurt. I apologize for the long note, but i needed to speak. Thank you
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Hi guys On thursday the girl i was dating decided that we should be friends as this is all she can give at this moment. I really had no choice but to accept it. It's been very hard on me the last 2 days. I guess i really liked her and find it hard to accept that we are no longer together. I usually spend my weekends with her but now i'm alone at home very lonely. I can't stop thinking of her, i miss her, i wanna call her but can't. i miss waking up beside her, watching her get dress, her smile, her caringness and other things. How do i get over this.
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yes that is exactly it i guess
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Hi Guys Questions, does this make sense, the girl i'm seeing does not want to be friends but is not ready for a relationship yet. She heading to school for 8 months so i can see her point. But what am i doing , just seeing her?
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hi So i am seeing this girl for about 2 months and we usually spend the weekends together. now this weekend she has some other plans and we are not together. it's driving me nuts. i want to call her but i also want to give her space, not really space but time to her self. Should i call her or should i just wait to see if she will call. i am seeing her tomorrow but i'm just itching to call her.
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Here is a question for you guys. seeing this girl for about 2 months now and whenever she asks me if i want to do something, i always ask her is that what you want to do. So today i said that again and she called me and said to stop doing that, it's really frustrating. it's like there is so much pressure on her. She also said it's like i don't trust her or trying to make her slip up on something. Now the reason i'm like this is she is going to school and i'm not sure if i want to end it or see how it goes. i only see her on weekends and she does not know her schedule and she can't promise anything. i already asked her if she wants to be friends and she said no but she is not ready for a relationship. does that make sense what should i do
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Hi Guys Previously i posted something regarding a girl i was seeing for 2 months now and that she is heading to school. i was not sure if it would work out. Now i spoke to her earlier and she said just to see how it goes. I asked her if she like to be friends instead and she said no. i'm guessing she likes to still see me. Now i usually spend weekends with her but the she said that she can only see me on sunday because she has other plans. I don't what the hell is going on, is she still interested in me. i don't know what her intentions are with me. My gut feeling is to just end it before it gets worse. am i jumping the gun?