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  1. ok i met this girl about 2 years ago. the first time i met her there was attracttion...we did kiss on the 3rd time i met her. now time passes and we never dated but recenlty i met up with her again. this was on halloween night...we chatted for a while, then when i walked to her car, i went in for a kiss which i did. now she continued to kiss me after that. now i really have a stronger attracttion to her. we spoke everyday for a week. she would call me at work and talk. the following week the calls stopped. i could not figure it out..so i called a few times and no answer. she finally did call and said that she was working late shifts at the hospital and never had time to call me. in that time i e-mailed her saying that i was really attracted to her. it's been last thursday since we spoke...i called her a few times but she never called back. should i be concerned or am i over-reacting. i really like this girl but i'm also afraid of getting hurt
  2. here is a question..... is calling someone everyday a bad thing. i'm attratcted to this girl...we seem to like each other but i couldn't figure out why she never called me back. turns out she was working late shifts at the hospital....i felt like an idiot. but now i want to call her everyday...i am trying not to but i can't resist......so from a female point of view am i calling to much
  3. ok here is the deal...i meet this girl a while ago. we hardly see each other yet alone talk that much on the phone. but when we do we always decide to meet up and talk. now when we meet up our feelings for each other are show. the usual touching, eye contact, kissing, body language ect what i don't understand on her part is when the night ends and the next day i call her it's impossible to meet up with her again, and when i call her she will call back but not right away more 2 days later or even never until i have to call her again. do anybody know why she is doing this. i mentioned over the phone that i'm attracted to her..she alreasy knows this. this was 5 days ago and no answer..do you think i shoud give up on her
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    confused

    shoot...i already did it. great now i put more fuel in the fire. i dunno if anyone has experienced this but i tend to fall for girls quckly. it's been 3 years since my last serious relationship and now that i met this girl and really like her, i guess i miss all that. that's why i am so anxious about her. do you think i should ease off and see how she handles it. in the back of my head i sorta know that she'll just move away from me
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    confused

    do you think it is a good idea to let her know how you feel about her by sending a e-mail
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    confused

    Hi i've been talking to this girl on and off for about 2 years. we never have time to see each other but when we do, the feelngs for each other are clearly there. now what i don't get is that i'm attracted to her and she is to me. but for the last 2 days she never returned my calls. we were supposed to go out on saturday, but when i call her to confirm the date, she never returned my call. do you think that she is just playing me. i don't know if i should call her anymore since i've been the one who calls and then she returns my calls. i feel like and idiot
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    feelings

    ok here is the deal. i've been talking to this girl on and off for about 2 years now. i know that there is a spark between us but for some reason i don't know if she feels the same way i do about her. well last week we met up after a long time and we hit it off and ended the night with a kiss. that being said i have stronger feelings now. what i'm doing now is calling her everyday but i feel like i'm bothering her. should i stop calling her everyday and ease up a bit or continue to call her. she does call back when i leave a message but i'm just a bit cautious now with the calling thing
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    lonely

    Hi Guys I've been single for about 3 years now. the first year was fun but after that i started to get lonely. on the occasion i would meet a girl but nothing would come of it. either they are straight up not interested in me or want just to be friends. lately i've been worrying because all my friends are engaged or married or have girl friends. i am so afraid that i won't find a girlfriend. i lost all my confidence because i feel women don't find me attractive..not to sound bold. but that's how i feel. i am just scared of living my life without that special girl in my life ...sorry to be so depressing but it's how i feel..i'm not motivated to do anything anymore.
  9. i had feelings for this girl for some time now and i finally confessed to her in a letter that i am attracted to her has i thought she was also attracted to me. she finally called me to tell me that she got my letter and that she is not interested in me. i tried to play it off by saying don't worry about it but deep down i feel so hurt and really confused. i have lost all confidence in myself and for some reason i feel very ugly. but it's more the hurt facter...she said it so bold like throwing it in my face..i'm so hurt
  10. hi i have these strong feelings for this girl but i have this gut feeling that she likes me as a friend rather than having a relationship. we hang out together and talk on the phone but she does not show the affection for me..i can sorta feel it. i'm afraid that if i call her and hang out with her...i will get stronger feelings for her. do you think i should stop hanging out with her and cut down from calling her
  11. hi there i am really attracted to this girl i met a month ago. we talk on the phone and message each other but i am not sure if she is atttracted to me as i am to her. what would be the obvious signs that she likes me. i am afraid to ask her because i'm not sure if i could handle the rejection
  12. Hi guys I met this bartender a few weeks ago. i asked for her number but she said she was in this man hating phase..regardless she took it. Turns out that she did call me but there was a mix up on my answering machine..she thought it was someone else. She thought i was playing her. Anyways i ran into her and she gave me the whole story about how she called me and thought it was the wrong number...Anyways i gave her my number again and she called and we spoke. She asked me to visite her where she works which i did. We spoke once more for about 1/2 hour...then all of a sudden she does not call. Does she like me or am i just a pawn on her chess board. I called her recently but as i expected she never returned my call..i think i know that is was not meant to be but i just need assurance. sorry for the long paragraph. thank you
  13. Hi guys First post. i was really interested in this bartender. so i asked her if she was single. She said yes but she was going through this whole male bashing phase. none the less i asked if she would like to do something. so she asked for my number and i gave it, but when i asked for hers..she said she does not give out her number because she has met a few psychos. I'm a bit confused if she's gonna call..althought when i left and said goodbye to her..she said she'll give me a call over the weekend. should i hold my breath on that or just let it pass.
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