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put some effort in and stop feeling sorry for yourself

ease off. dont bother her. guarantee it will work. if you stop ringing, or smsing or whatever, she will want you bad! good luck!

pash her man! go for it! go go go!

Whoah thats complicated I would think that if the boyfriend is 'through with her', it will only be a matter of time before they break up. It sounds like she is also taking advantage of you perhaps, but then again maybe not. If time does not unravel their relationship, then maybe you should tell her honestly, straight out: I think that your boyfriend is using you. She might go bonkers but at least its the truth. See if she hears that right, then she is gonna go ask her boyfriend 'are you using me?'. She would surely see through his attempts at lying, and there you go, relationship over. hope ive been some help

hahahaha Have you seen that simpsons episode? with homer and the roses? i dont know man, sometimes it can be a little to much to over romanticise things, and there could be very very nasty consequences if she doesn't want to go out with you. I reckon just start off by saying a few compliments, and you cant go wrong.

remember, if the chemicals are right, the guy is just as nervous as you... get my drift?

everyone changes, i am like that sometimes, and you (maybe self consciously) have im sure. Just roll on, chill, see how things go. Maybe talking to your friend will help.

hey i can relate to you. Not one of my friends went to my high school, and i made new friends, yes. But, keep in touch with your old friends, because its not hard. I still meet up with them twice or three times a week, and im sure you wont be considered a tagalong if you are a good friend. Im still not happy at my high school, but its been like this for three years, and trust me, you'll be fine! good luck

Well, first off I'd like to say that I'm very happy: I just have a few questions. Basically I wanted this chick who i had been friends with for around 2-2 1/2 years now. At the start of this year, (and I hadn't seen her for a while), I saw her again. Then I knew that I wanted her as more than just a friend. Ironically, so did she. Is that called love? We still weren't going out, on the basis that we hadn't revealed to each other our feelings. About a month or two ago, she accepted my offer (finally!), and she had taken a while to 'think' about it. Well, we hadn't really done any french kissing. Kissed on the lips a couple of times, hugging yes, fondling surprisingly yes, but I didn't have the balls to do it. When I went over to her house a couple of weeks ago, I sat there, with her, in her room. She found it quite funny, because I would always talk dirty but never do anything. It took me about five minutes, but then plucked up the courage to fully kiss her. French kiss, yay! Now I know what all the hype is about! The funny thing is, that she told me later, 'i sooo wanted to do something, but i was sick of initiating everything and i wanted to see you do something!' There's a lot more passion in our relationship now, I think. This isn't a problem, but she wants, and I do too, to go further. I would happily finger her or 'eat her out', but she wants to give me a blowjob. I guess this would be awkward, but seriously, what am I supposed to do? Just roll with it? She tells me that she has given 2 guys head before. What do you guys reckon? p.s. persistence pays, I am living proof of that.

well guys out there, here's some truthful advice persistance pays off! i really really like my current girlfriend and things are so good! have a good day all!

whaddaya mean buddy? you like some chick or ya wanna get a date for a dance? be more specific

heh i am a guy but i think either the phone or in person is acceptable (get out and off the internet) however, its good to see her real reactions so in person is the better one

im with gelsey. seriously i am FULLY direct. no joke. i will tell chicks that i like em. believe me, it gets results happy chick hunting

um, well first off it's not your fault, i mean if the asshole was decent he wouldnt do that (i know i wouldnt do that to my girlfriend, or if i was single atm i wouldnt do it to anyone i liked). look, it's not your fault, but talk to him! speak your mind. let him speak his. relationships are a two way thing, not just one person speaking and the other being forced to listen. however sometimes guys get the wrong impressions when girls conceal things...thats why i like talking to chicks, and them talking to me hope ive been of some help

im with lipstick ^