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    Hello guys, I hope you can offer me some insight. My girlfriend and I are rather confused and worried. She recently (3 months ago) switched birth control to a "weaker" pill. Everything was fine until about a couple of weeks ago. She was not due for her period till 10 days later, but she had it anyway. She kept taking the hormone pills (non-placebo) and she kept menstruating for 4 days or so. When it was time for her "sugar" pills, i.e. when her period was SUPPOSED to be, she didnt bleed much at all, and just spotted a little, and we kept having sex. I brought this up to her and now shes worried, and so am I. What does this mean really? Is this common? Can that happen and the woman not be pregnant? Its too early to take a pregnancy test ... Help?
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    I am a skinny guy and I absolutely prefer curvy women over skinny ones. I usually date women that are heavier than me and I wouldnt have it any other way. Dont give in to the image in the magazines and on TV these days ... girls with nothing but bones and skin, thats disgusting. LostBird
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    The are two things that I can think of as "change" 1. She gained a bit of weight because of school, lack of time for the gym, etc. That doesnt bother me though, and shes still as attractive as ever. 2. We talked about moving in next year. She is excited about it and she was the one to suggest it, not me, so I dont think theres any pressure there. I even asked if that was the cause of her low libido, and she assured me it wasnt.
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    Hello folks, I have a bit of a weird problem, and I hope someone can offer me some advice. I am 24 and my girl is 21. I feel insecure about my girlfriend's career choice. She is studying graphic design at the moment, which is more than fine by me. But she also DJ's as a hobby at some clubs and raves, and for some reason, I feel insecure about that. She wants to become a superstar DJ someday, alongside her graphic design degree. Whenever I think of her getting big, getting gigs in other cities (she can do it, shes that good), etc, it worries me and makes me feel clingy and needy and I hate it. I cant exactly pinpoint why, maybe coz its jealousy of being famous, or maybe its coz she'll be away often...I just dont know. I know its not me feeling "inadequate" since I have a Masters in Engineering and make a very good living. The strange part is, I really want her to pursue her dreams. I would be sad if I saw her give up on what she really wants to do! So whats the solution? Has anyone gone through something like this? Thanks! LostBird
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    Thanks for the input guys ...
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    Hello all, I've been going out with a wonderful woman for the last 8 months. Shes 21, Im 24. Sex has been GREAT, everything else is awesome. We get along so well, and we are absolutely in love with each other .... Recently (2-3 weeks), shes been saying her libido is dying. We started looking for reasons, and couldnt find any. We communicate really well and she told me that its definitely not some emotional problem she has with me. Then it was time for her period, and she went off the pill (as usual) for those 4 days. Her sex drive came back ENTIRELY, and I was very happy with that. Once she started back on it though, after she was done with her period, she went back to having low libido. Shes really frustrated and so am I. Its sad to see something like that interfere with our otherwise wonderful relationship. By the way, she can still orgasm, and still gets wet. She just says she doesnt feel "horny", and theres no "tingle". She decided it might be her Birth Control, "Mircette", thats causing all these issues. So my question to all of you is: Has anyone experienced anything like this, or perhaps know someone that did? And if yes, pleeeassee shed some light on a solution for us troubled lovers. Thanks in advance! TheLostBird
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    Ok, so the replies have been encouraging...but I still dont see an explanation for the usual case of a girl leaving a guy after a while, for no "apparent" reason. The reason might be apparent to some, but me (and many many other guys) are left in the dark with a lot of un-answered question. Perhaps its just a fact that people essentially get bored, and just dont want to admit it... TheLostBird
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    No this is not how she used to treat me at all, however i know for sure its not the guy shes dating, hes a decent man actually. Thats why its confusing, it seems like shes a different person trying to "teach me a lesson" or something stupid like that....
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    Its a mixture of a lot of feelings. I know I can be ok without her, its just that shes winning winning winning in ever single way and its bugging the crap out of me...
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    I dont want to change my number coz its heavily involved in my work and shes not worth the trouble anyway... TheLostBird
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    So I have cut all contact with my ex fiance for about a week and I actually have been feeling better since. However she still sends me an occasional txt here and there. All very weird and random. The last one she sent was her telling me "I really miss you ... riiiiggghhtt", implying that she doesnt at all. So I replied with a simple "Ok" and that was it. What is all this coming from. I was almost happy she found another guy to quit harassing me for a while...but she still does this cold hearted crap. Any thoughts? TheLostBird
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    Sigh... So my ex fiance has now told me via txt that she is dating that very old friend of hers, and that she has wanted him for "way too long" but has been denying it. All I wanna do is punch a wall, but its not worth the injury. It bothers me coz shes sitting on top of the world and Im sitting here hurting like hell and complaining to you guys. How can someone get engaged to someone else when they want some old friend of theirs? or is this rebound at its best? Im so angry and sad at the same time. Its so awful. Its like 3 years didnt matter at all to her, just down the freaking drain. How can someone do that?? Ive been in NC for three days, and she pops in every now and then with some txt like that to make me hurt or something. All thats happening is that she gets her way and I hurt more....yay. On another note, has this happened with any dumper here? Where they dated an old friend after a breakup? Does this really mean that the 3 years I had with her were "fake"? Ehhh...how much heartache can a human being take...
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    I think SuperDave deserves the crown for being king of this forum. You have given exceptional inspirational advice and I admire you for it. Got any more? TheLostBird
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