blondjeanyis2009

Ok, so i've liked this guy since I was 14, i'm turning 16 in under a month and he turns 19 in feb. He's admitted that he likes me, but he just said i was too young. I saw him at a party a while back, and i was talking to one of my friends about my birthday and he kinda got into the conversation and asked if I was 16, kinda in a curious way. I told him almost and he said oh ok. What was that some posed to mean. I really really like this guy. I'm picky about who I like and what qualities they have and there's nothing about this guy that I don't like. I mean, he's respectful, and sweet, and handsome, and his personality is to die for. I just don't know what to do about it. Whats some of your ideas? Do you think he might take a chance with me once i'm 16? is there anything i should try? Anyway I can tell if he's just waiting for me?

Ok, So this weekend I went to a concert with a couple of my friends, including this guy I like SO much! Ok, He's my "mr. perfect" if i've ever met one. He's basically everything I want in a guy. He's handsom, nice, sweet, outgoing, musical (he's in a very popular band in OKC, he plays the guitar, mandalin, and piano), he's funny, and he even offered to pay for my food and my gas money. The thing is, my friend told him that I really liked him, and he told her that he likes me alot to, and if i was older, he'd date me. Thats whats bugging me, I've pretty much given up the thought of us ever getting together, atleast for a couple years, but he's only 2 years older than me, so thats why I don't understand, and i'll be 16 in a few weeks. He's just got me so confused. But on the bright side of things, he keeps asking me when my 16 th birthday is and he talks to me alot. And he basically shows all the signs of major flirting, yet he doesn't want to go out. He's just so confusing....I wana talk to him about it, and the possibility but i'm scared of what might happen. Its just a bittersweet thing being around him, he's everything i could want in a guy, but the phrase "he's my prince charmingm, but i'm not his cinderella" comes in. And Its almost heartbreaking. Ya, i know i'm a little young to be liking someone this much, but if you met him, you would probably feel the same way. You can't help but like this guy. I just need help, what do i do?

most of the time it depends on the girl and how much she likes the guy.... If it were me and I was goin out with a guy I like, then I would definitely hold his hand, and possibly give him a kiss before I left depending on how the night went.

Well, with me, I don't really care what he looks like, I mean unless he's overly ugually, but mainly I go for the personality....I like guys who are outgoing, but they also have to like me for me, and want to embrase me...I like to feel safe and secure....but some things that do turn me off about guys are guys that think they "all that"(big huge male ego's) and guys who are in it just for sex. I don't go for a guy who loves me just for whats under my clothes, If I'm comfortable then i'll go for, but mostly likely not. But the most major thing is overly over weight guys, I don't mind a little over weight, but hey, i'm a girl, every girl wants some huge hunk, but if i had to choose a hott guy who was rude or prideful over a somewhat cute guy with a great personality.....the personality is what gets my heart over everything else.

Ok, so next sunday, i'm going to this concert with a bunch of friends, including the guy I really like. I'm not really a shy person, but I do get kinda nervous about what I say when I'm around him...and I end up having a lack of topics to talk about....I need to know, what can I talk to him about...I know the normal things would be asking him about himself, because most ppl love talking about themselves, and then topics about the concert, because this band is both our favorite band. But what else can I try and start a conversation with, or maybe what can I do to get his attention to want to talk to me? This is a really good chance for me to get to know this guy and I don't wana blow it. Any help would be great! thanks

I know I'm not alone with this problem, but I've gotta know how you deal with such things? I'll start from the beginning: About a year ago I met this amazing guy, I mean, he's everything a girl could want. Handsom, sweet, sincere, outgoing, funny, trustworthy, respectful. I could just go on and on about the good qualities he has. He's the type of guy you're always happy to see even if its been the worst day in the entire universe. He's the kind've guy who doesn't just want a relationship for the sex. He's always wanting whats best for the girl or what the girl wants. He's considerate of every feeling that girl may have, but he also doesn't take advantage of her. The downfall is.....he doesn't feel the same way. Its the fact that when I see him, its the happiest and saddiest time ever. Happy because I get to see the guy I like more than anyone in the entire world, but sad because i know he doesn't feel the same way. I'm 15 he's 18. I'm almost 16, but he told me that if I were 17 or 18 he would date me instantly. He told me that I was a sweet awesome girl that he likes alot, but because he just doesn't feel right about dating someone "as young as me". And I guess its right morally, but I just can't help thinging about him, because I like him soo much, I even think that I love him. So if you were awesome and read this, my question would be, how does one get over something like this. When I like him so much, I would do anything just to see him. What do I do, how do I get over him b/c I know he doesn't feel the same way b/c of my age. Its almost heartbreaking, but I don't know how to keep my mind off of him. He's basically my perspective of Mr. Perfect.....If anyone has gone through this or if you have any help that you could give, it be much appreciated or if you want to tell me your stories of heartbreak....... thanks btw srry this was so long

wow, alot of you guys are really sweet. See its not totally my looks facial wise that i'm concerned about, because I don't think i'm that bad looking, i'm not ugally, but i'm not drop dead gorgeous either. Mainly its just a body issue. And I started to get into stuff like skipping meals, and even throwing up after I ate. At first I had a thought, this would be for my benefit only, so that i'd feel better about myself, but later on it wasn't about me, it was about the people around me, I wanted to fit in, i wanted to be popular, i wanted to have what my other friends have. There's this one girl in my class who is so skinny, but she's got a really tiny frame, but she was weairing a size 0 pants, and I wanted that so desperately I was determined to do anything to get it. But as I thought about it more. it turned out to only be problems that I'd have at school...its weird because I start compareing myself to other's so much. But i also go to a private school and there's only 25 people in my whole class. But i'm am alot better on my outlooks about how I look at myself now, versus the problem that I used to have. Srry this was kind've long. and to answer your question ( i can't remember who asked) , my bone frame is medium and I would send you a picture, but i'm literally computer challanged and I don't know how to do that lol. thanks everyone

140 i mean lol

i'm 5'6" and about 40lbs, but i'm also kind've muscular from sports, so I don't know if that counts...

do girls who have major self image problems turn you off? What about girls who are a LITTLE over weight...like say 10-20 lbs? How many of you guys, when looking for a girl, go after looks or personality....? What kind've personality do you like in a girl? Is it really all about the sex and the looks? if you guys could answer these questions that'd be awesome thanks!!

thanks, srry i'm stupid LOL

Ok, so I've been browsing all these topics and i come accross words that I don't know what they mean...... alright I don't know boner, flamer, ejaculate (I have an idea), and lots others but I can't think of them right now......so if anyone could help that'd be great......thanks[/b]

Well, everytime i'm in the room, he'll always come over and say hi and ask me how i've been, and stuff, and he tells me sometimes that we should hang out sometime, its just hard to tell. He's a major flirter, he flirts with alot of girls. So its hard to tell.

I know that you can't make someone fall for you. But what are some ways that you can get him interested. What will make him notice me? How do I keep his attention?? Anyone have any ideas?? I could really use some help! thanks

turn ons- of course looks is a given, a guy who is happy, loving, respectful, loves life, nice, positive, musical (in any way)...lots of things turn offs- over weight, mean, cares only about sex

Tonight i'm goin to see my friend and his band play....i've liked this guy for a long time, but whenever I get around him, we say hi to each other, but things never progress.....we mainly just stand there till one of us says he/she has to go. What should I talk to him about, what kinds of ways can I flirt with him?? I need to know these things.....i'm a rookie haha! Thanks

Ok, if you want honesty, I have to be honest and I can't hold it in any longer.....aueft, you are so hott! There i said it, and for the guys who like the big boobs.....well can't help you there.....but personally I don't like big boobs...and I'm thankful for what I got hahaha, ok, you guys are helping....my problem is, there's a guy that I really like....he's so sweet. He would be my definanition of my perfect bf. But he's a major flirter....he flirts with any girl he meets. He's so unreadable, its very hard. I need to know, what kind've things make a guy notice a girl.....what kind've things do you guys like besides physical things in a girl....???

I need to know....and I'm sure that other girls will get info off of this topic as well. The number one question.... What do guys like in a girl the most of anything....I know that every guy is different, but just tell me your opinion. I need to know. It may help me with a problem I have.

Ok, so I went to a concert with a couple of my friends and one of my guy friends. My friends kept noticing my guy friend "flirting" with me. I didn't really pay attention to it, because thats how he always acts around me and his other really close girl friends. He was splashing me with water playfully, playfully punching, tryin to scare me, tickling me. Am I just blind, or does he like me?? B/c I know he kinda acts like this with other girls, but I'm not sure. Do you think its flirting, or maybe he likes me?? Or..... I could really use some help. I'm not exactly good at this kinda stuff. LOL Thanks

Well, it could go either way. If he is brave enough he'll ask you out. Most of the time the guy does it. But guys like to be asked out too. Girls may think they have the easy part when it comes to relationships, but it could go either way depending on the guy. But if you get sick of waiting, just go for it. The worst he could do is say no, and its not really that big of a deal, there's lots of other guys waiting, and one of them "is the one" just wait!! Or go for it. Its your call! hope that helps!

Ok. I have a friend who really likes this girl. But this girl doesn't like him and doesn't want to start a relationship w/ him. She likes him as a friend though, and doesn't want to loose him as a friend. The only reason that she doesn't want to go out with him is b/c she really likes his brother. But this guy doesn't completely know that. But he has an idea. My question would be some ideas for him, because he's goin through a hard time and I hate to see him like this. I've tried telling him stuff, but I don't want to mess up my relationship with him or the girl he likes. I just need some help with this. Any suggestions??

Ok, don't go out w/ both of them. That wouldn't be fair to them or you. Then ask yourself, who you really like the most. And if you really like this person. You'll want to make it so it works out. Thats what I would do.

I met a guy that I really like up were I used to live. My parents are still deciding if we are moving back next summer, but I just wanted to know if those kinds of relationships ever work out?? Oe should I just forget about him and hope for the best next summer?? Im so confused!! LOL any suggestions

When I like a guy I usually do the following: 1. Talk to him as often as possible 2. If he has a myspace, xanga, etc.... leave comments on everything he posts 3. eye contact from accross the room for about 5 sec. with a smile then look down fast, but keep smiling. 4. Get to know what he's in to and talk about those subjects Those things seem to work for me, so there you go!!

As a girl, hmm this is a hard topic to reply to LO. I have to agree with you actually. Though I have never asked a guy out, but I have put him in a position to where he asks me out when I thought the proper time. And so far its worked. But I do know that guys like to be asked out once in a while too. I agree, but its hard to practice what you preach when this sorta stuff is comeing from a girl, LOL!! But maybe you'll find a nice brave girl out there that is willing to go opposite for a day and take the iniciative to ask the guy out and so on and so forth. It all depends on the girl though.