blondjeanyis2009

The car gets my attention, but what keeps my attention is the guy inside it, as long as he's cute I mean, even cute guys in old beat up cars keep my attention. It all depends on the girl and her tastes.

OK, I need to know what guys do when they like a girl, how they act, What signs they show, etc... It might help if I knew these things LOL

Bring her to one of her favorite places and talk to her about it there, she'll like that. I would! LOL

I personally don't think so, I like a guy thats 3 years difference. But ya it does depend on her parents and your parents, and it depends on your maturity level.

First tell your grandpa, and just be cautious. This guy is a sick perverted old man, just probly looking for....heck I don't even want to know whats goin on in his head. You just need to be careful when he's around, keep your distence and keep someone you trust with you, atleast until you get it all figured out! hope that helps!

Well, he's not a stranger, i've known him for about a year, and he I dunno, its just weird because he show's interest, then he stops then he does then he doesn't, its weird. Like if I don't see him for a while, then he'll come and give me a big hug, then he'll not do something that he said he was goin to, then he'll show up and just start talking to me, and so its just confusing.

So, I've posted other messages, but didn't exactly get the response I wanted, so i'm trying it form a different perspective. So I really like this guy, he's funny, very cute, he's in a band and is the lead singer, and I've just totally fell in love with everything about him. My only problem is, every time I talk to him, we talk about stuff but after about 10 minutes there's just silence in the room, and one of ends up leaving. Its just awkward. And I don't know what to do to keep his attention. I'm just out of ideas. I need some advice. What makes guys like a girl, first with out sex, and second with out acting like someone your not?? There's got to be something I haven't tried?? Help me out pls!! thanks! -amber-

You are only 13 if you ask me its stupid to even think about such things!!

I have had college guys do that to me when I was 13 and now that I'm 15 there's ladys at some place who think i'm above 18 and they wanted to sell lingere (spell??) to me......its kinda a blessing yet a curse at the same time, you just gotta watch out for who's eye you catch and to not get involved physically with guys that are like 4 or more years older. ok ttyl

LOL, thanks!

Because I really like this guy, and he keeps flirting back, but then he acts like he's not interested then he does and he does this over and over agian, and I'm beginning to think that maybe he likes me, but he's worried about the age difference....What should I do??

Well, considering that sneaking behind the bf's back isn't really that uncommon, its still a problem morally. Age wise, i'm only 15 and I adore an 18 year old guy, and my parents have no problem with it. But you are like 5 years older than she is, if you want to make it serious atleast wait till she's 18. Then you wouldn't have to worry about legal issues and she would be able to make her own discisons. Plus its not illegal if the parents approve of the guy....

k thanks!!

ya, but thats just hard for two reasons. One, because I don't get attracted to younger guys or guys my age or a year above, I like em old, and thats the way i've always been. And second because I have liked him for so long, and I'm as others say very mature for my age. Do you think that maybe when he says "kiddo" he's just messing with me, because every time he calls me that I kinda playfully, tell him to stop and I'm not a kid, and he just kinda chuckles and smiles at me in a way that is like wowing LOL, hmm I don't know, its just difficult for me. Would anyone have any conversational advice for me?? Maybe that would work. I dunno?

Ok, i'm 15 and he's 18, first off is that two big of an age difference?? Second, ok, i really like this guy ALOT! Sometimes I find that I can't go to sleep at night and I end up staying up all night thinking about him, or crying because I don't know if I could be as lucky to have a guy like him. So here's the thing about him. He show's interest in me, but then he shows signs that he's not interested, then he show's signs that he is, and i'm just so confused. Like, I saw him for the first time in a while two weeks ago, and when he saw me he came up behind me and gave me a big hug and picked me up and twirled me then put me down, and oh I though it was heaven LOL, and he keeps calling me kiddo all the time. Is that considered flirting, because he does that to other girls too. Then sometimes when i'm holding something like a cd or something he'll come right up close to me where I can feel him breathing on my neck and he'll ask what i'm reading or what i have, and he'll put in his two cents of the conversation, but It seems that he then goes off and does similar things to other girls, and I don't know why. Its bugging me because I just can't read him like I can other guys. Then the reason I didn't think he was interested one time was because, I was sposed to meet him at a concert, but then he never ended up coming and didn't tell me he wasn't. See its just so weird. Please help someone, I can't stand it anymore, especially when I like him so much! thanks -amber-