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  1. scorchio
    Im at the 6month mark of being split up............ N/C for about 4months I think..... miss her like crazy ...... staying stong with N/C just still want that text out of blue, im watching the phone less now tho, just wish it would happen. any good stories at this mark or after ............ getting back together etc or just anyone CHEER ME UP PLEASE LOL
  2. scorchio
    This is so hard for me, Yes, I think, I hope, I am doing the right thing by not sending her a birthday card today. HURTS LIKE HELL !!!! AND NUMB THO !!!! maybe deep down she was expecting a card from me ................. BUT I stayed strong, and maybe didnt play into her hands. the N/C is helping me get stronger, although good and bad days, im a little more focused, and clear headed generally but still the annoying thing, that gets me down sometimes, cant get thoughts or silly scenarios out of my head is she with anyone / will it effect her in maybe changing her mind if she with anyone / what is she doing..... etc etc im sure im not the only one even she might be thinking same who knows. LOL but wow, do I miss her !!!! one thing I do know, is, im not going to let my dignity and happiness suffer because of her, my life is there to share with her but not to crumble without her, this im trying very hard to tell myself, its IMPORTANT
  3. scorchio
    still hope one day she sees sense and texts out of blue, changes mind etc
  4. scorchio
    hope I have done right, NOT sending her a card
  5. scorchio
    Its the day of her birthday, and ............................ I HAVENT sent her a card. I feel numb today. Spose because it is her birthday. miss her lots dont want to contact her staying with the N/C, its helping me at least!
  6. scorchio
    thankyou people, im more of the opinion at the mo not to send a card, although since she has not contacted me the day since we split, I am almost certain deep down she is expecting a card from me, and thats whatever her feelings are to me .......... I think that should tell me NOT to send a card. like you say probably me not sending a card would make her wonder what im up to more than if I did send a card, but hey! who knows. her birthday last year I did so many romantic things for her and made it such a special birthday for her. so lets hope ITS HER LOSS
  7. scorchio
    doesent mean she has forgot about me she is human after all well just lol
  8. scorchio
    Hi all, Just a quick question or advice needed. From previous posts you may know my story, been split up for 5 1/2months now, Ive being doing N/C for about 4months ish, strong with the N/C, it is helping me, all said and done tho miss my ex and her daughter and would love that text or call out of blue etc etc bla bla bla LOL. MY QUESTION IS, NEED ADVICE Its her birthday on monday, SHOULD I SEND HER A CARD, im not sure !!!!!! my birthday is in December and my gut instinct tells me that she probably wouldnt send me a card !!!! What should I do any advice I do miss her and her daughter
  9. scorchio
    superdave ! can u maybe reply or write a new post on what if they are with someone else ? is there still hope for the future ? etc yes im still strong with N/C doing ok, bit of a fresher mind now still hoping in some ways tho tape over mouth included (u know wot i mean he! he!) Just a suggestion, for me and maybe others
  10. scorchio
    oh and sorry I meant Misslonely heart not Kisslonelyheart he! he! ooopppss typo error lol
  11. scorchio
    kisslonelyheart, you have mirrored me exactly im strong with the N/C in exactly the same way and for eactly the sam reasons. the wanting is still there and the missing her and wanting her is still there. reading what you posted was like I had typed that, we are very similar !!! keep strong and here's hoping for us both and anyone else !!!!
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    he ! he !
  13. scorchio
    my N/C is helping me lots and i am stronger than I was, she broke it off with me 5 1/2months. feels like forever ! but, Can they call or text out of blue ! is it possible ! does there have to be a time limit when it may not happen I hope they dont forget us and still miss us !!!!!!!
  14. scorchio
    Larz, thankyou, a great post. been 5 1/2months split, 3 1/2months N/C by me she hasnt done, said made any contact with me since she broke it off with me. She also had a daughter (not mine) I know I have to get on with things, but I do have hope for one day ..........................................
  15. scorchio
    I miss my ex, im strong with N/C, dont want to contact her, want her to contact me. Its been 5 months 1 week since split and no contact from her, me N/C for about 3months. can anyone re-assure me with at least some stories of post 5months good news LOL I am getting over the fact that I dont want to contact her anymore and only want her to make the effort. I cannot stop my mind from making up scenarios, wot is she doing, who with etc wish I could stop these thoughts. I am trying to tell myself she probably is thinking the same.............. whether it makes a difference or not, still nice to think she is.
  16. scorchio
    Hi all, If we the dumpee found out our ex (the dumper) was dating someone else, would this close the door on any hope of getting back. Im not sure if my ex is with anyone else or not. Dont think so, but suppose probably best not to know. If it was the case just makes me have silly ideas going around in my head that it would mean she has no need to think about me anymore because she with anyone, no need to miss me etc. Just interested on anyones thoughts on that please someone tell me im being silly and my mind is exagerating too much LOL ive been doing N/C for about 3 1/2ish months, split for 5 and bit months the N/C is helping and i am growing stronger, but, miss her and her daughter LOADS. would love for her to get in contact. I am stronger, and am at the point where I am strong enough to not to want to contact her, but still want her to contact me.ALOT!
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    Hi all, If we the dumpee found out our ex (the dumper) was dating someone else, would this close the door on any hope of getting back. Im not sure if my ex is with anyone else or not. Dont think so, but suppose probably best not to know. If it was the case just makes me have silly ideas going around in my head that it would mean she has no need to think about me anymore because she with anyone, no need to miss me etc. Just interested on anyones thoughts on that please someone tell me im being silly and my mind is exagerating too much LOL ive been doing N/C for about 3 1/2ish months, split for 5 and bit months the N/C is helping and i am growing stronger, but, miss her and her daughter LOADS. would love for her to get in contact. I am stronger, and am at the point where I am strong enough to not to want to contact her, but still want her to contact me.ALOT!
  18. scorchio
    it hurts liek hell but I will get through this I suppose its true what many say on here and generally, for the dumpee, there is no choice, only way is UP for the dumper can be either way, later on usually down as the hurt and feelings kick in when us have moved on or showing it anyway
  19. scorchio
    toonsy, thankyou so much for that reply. Very sensible words, puts things in perspective, I maybe think she hasnt had the chance to miss me yet. I dont know if she is with someone or not, no way of knowing. but if she was or is, then YES maybe thats what it may take in the future to wake her up to me. You say very wise words that really tweaked a heart string in me I THANK YOU FOR THAT. She openly admitted all the time that she had been treated like crap by all previous relationships, even the father of her daughter. I treated them with romance she had never been used to and the daughter with respect and loving putting her 1st ALWAYS. maybe one day she will realise that. I will stay strong with N/C, and I do aprecdiate that is for ME
  20. scorchio
    hi, thanks for the lovely words.... I suppose for me the problem is not the N/C, as it is hepling me I just worry if she is with someone else and would this hamper her ever changing her mind or forgetting me. Like you have said suppose I shouldnt conjur up images in my head they may not be true anyway, just happens I suppose dosent it ?, I am trying to be strong ......... and clear those images !!!!!! I have come along way, its been 5months since split and I miss her like crazy, the N/C HAS! made me stronger, just worry like I said if she did meet someone what impact that may have !!!!!! I would love that text to come through on my phone out of the blue, but like I suppose it sais, a watched phone never rings....... should I hide it LOL you guys are great and i appreciate all of the advice
  21. scorchio
    angelx5. A lovely post inspiring me and ex been split for 5months, here's hoping she realises one day, and I hope she misses me deep down.
  22. scorchio
    scared if i dont text her, she will not think about me or miss me sorry all I know sounds silly just feeling a bit weak at momement, ive been strong ish up till now as well !!!!! do they miss us ....................................
  23. scorchio
    im feeling down tonight anyone cheer me up ............................................... i miss her 5months now split
  24. scorchio
    wow that hurt echo I am realistic about her moving on, and me but it dosent stop everything for the future does it ................................ doesent mean she is not thinking about me or forgotten about me does it ?
  25. scorchio
    its been 4 1/2months since split I miss her hope that phone rings one day I am stronger with N/C, for myself would love to get bac with her and her daughter.......... any advice ............... is 4 1/2months too long well nearly 5 now hey! whos counting lol
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