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  1. scorchio
    hi cc good advice from that book, The problem I have at the mo is that my ex was and admitted always that she is good at the silent treatment, blanking someone if she not happy with them annoyed etc, its a sittuation for me that is awkward for me that even if she had a notion in the back of her head that she wants to try again or one dayget in contact, her stubborness etc may stop that...... I dont know, any girl point of view who is stubbourn might be appreciated, I suppose stubborness will die away eventually !!! who knows! good points you have brought up definitely, just get the impression any phone call she would probably ignore - maybe that push her away, im not sure confused by it all
  2. scorchio
    know what you mea. what annoys me, I know for a fact that she didnt fall out of love! she admitted when we split that how much she cares and etc etc and that has never changed..... so does make youwonder why ... stubborn ets feel like shaking them ..... lol
  3. scorchio
    "playbrat" thankyou for your kind words difficult, but im trying I have a feeling, just maybe she is testing to see if i reacted to her being online and being able to be contacted - AND I DIDNT!!! but will never really know,still I hope im on her mind still, thats the hardist thing to wonder....
  4. scorchio
    silly really, but you know wot its like im sure, mind goes in overtime and runs riot
  5. scorchio
    ok, thanks I have stayed strong in N/C for 1 1/2months because I havent wanted to appear needy, she always put her away message on when she was online, (even when we was a couple and she used to see me online). she hasnt been online since we split (3months) and then tuesday (yesterday) she was online no away message on................. spose that has triggerred my mind in overtime now
  6. scorchio
    N/C I meant
  7. scorchio
    her contacting you, was that after a period of N/D Doc ? and thankyou all, I am trying to be strong
  8. scorchio
    yes, Doc and Urban sound advice, I will try and be strong, Im sure you are right and she is missing me or thinking about me, but you are right at the momement I dont think I would get a reply from her even if it is her being stubbourn im sure ...... i think, i hope lol
  9. scorchio
    thanks Urban, yes it is hard, Problem I have is the N/C has made me stronger, but I feel by being stronger I am able to deal with asking her back on my terms (even tho she wouldnt im sure respond to anything i send or ring or text) very stubborn girl. But by being stronger makes me feel I want to contact her more .... stronger to do it ... does that make sense LOL cheers by the way! I will read your previous post, sound advice
  10. scorchio
    I have been N/C with ex for 1 1/2months, been split up from her for 3months today my post explaining the split if you need it - link removed Miss her and her daughter an awful lot, just feels like she has forgotten about me as she hasnt contacted me since we split. can anyone give me any advice, I just want to send her a text picture message, no writing just a picture she would like, thats all. is this a right thing to do !!!!!!!!!!!
  11. scorchio
    thankyou for all your advice, i do take it all on board, however difficult the stuff I dont wanna hear lol !! its frustrating to know that she didnt even fall out of love with me! just finding it all very difficult at mo, the missing her, the N/C.
  12. scorchio
    hi all, I have a dilema and need help, my previous post is this as a background: link removed she has not contacted me since we split 2 1/2months ago, i love her and her daughter, want them back, I have N/C for about a month now, no texts etc - she didnt reply to them anyway. should I break it and text her, and if so wot do I put just, nothing heavy, justa few words. I think she is on a planned holiday to spain this week. I miss her
  13. scorchio
    can anyone help, im struggling with this N/C, just so wanna txt or something, I know it wont help............ miss them so much, want them back so much, tearing me apart.
  14. scorchio
    feel really lonely at the momement, missing them so much, im trying and trying N/C, im suffering.........................
  15. scorchio
    OUCH should I contact her, feel a bit weak last few days, miss her soooo much
  16. scorchio
    hi all, bit low miss ex and daughter tonight evenings are awfull - trying hard to do the N/C wish she was missing me as much as I am her and going through the same hurt and pain !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  17. scorchio
    no offence "helo", take on board what you said, thankyou. but she didnt lose interest, the relationship hadnt lost its course in that way at all, promise you.
  18. scorchio
    no, dont think she lost interest, right up until about 2 weeks before the split things was ok, nothing to indicate that AT ALL, still very loving, even when we split, she made very clear she still loved me, and her feelings have always been the same for me. so its not like we even feel out of love.
  19. scorchio
    no, she didnt take daughter with her lol, daughter stayed with her nan. I always offerred to baby sit when she went out, all I got was "no, you know we dont see eachother till weekends" She was always strict about putting daughter 1st, strictly weekends only we would see eachother, was hard for me..................... especially when I always offerred to be there as a support WHENEVER. Maybe I shouldnt have..
  20. scorchio
    Thanks Gradle, Ive started my own topic now, thanks guys and girls, didnt realise I had too, all done now tho with new topic cheers. I wish you Gradle all the best, have read your topic and advice with interest which has helped me. The best of luck, and to all of you best wishes
  21. scorchio
    hi all, Before I start posted this on the back of someone elses topic, sorry forgot had to start new topic, so here it is. so sorry to the 2 that replied before and repeating myself or them saying again. me and my g/f split 2months ago...........i have no N/C for about 1 1/2months now, she didnt reply, its so difficult, want her to get in touch.... we was together for 2yrs, i was really close to her daughter. I would do anything for both of them romance for g/f, day trips out for the daughter, included the daughter in ABSOLUTELY everything, more than alot of guys would have, have done, or would do. we split up because a few silly arguments, the daughter didnt like mummy arguing or upset so became funny about that. we split up 2months ago, reason being, my g/f saying her daugher is not happy, so she has to put her 1st. The week before we split up was the weekend I was suppose to see my g/f (we only saw eachother every other weekend, because of space for her daughter and g/f - which I agreed to, of course - more than alot would do), and she went out clubbing, so I wasnt happy about that as missed her, we had a biggy argument, and she said thats the final straw. Apart from saying its over as explained, she has blanked me ever since.........(wish she is known for when gets in arguments or angry - childish i know but hey) she said hurts her to do it, i should know how I much she still feels about me and cares for me. So its not even that she has fallen out of love with me. She always said I was the only guy who has really taken a genuine interest and look after her and her daughter. she has been out with a few guys before me included the daughters dad, who all have treated her bad, she found it very hard to open up to me when we 1st started out together, she wasnt used to the love and romance, being treated nicely. but I always feel thats what it should be lie, especially when they are worth it. sorry if i gone on a bit, a brief explanantion covering events. I love them both very much still, i can handle most things, but silent treatment OUCH. in limbo now ...................................
  22. scorchio
    oh ok, sorry didnt realise take care all
  23. scorchio
    finding N/C difficult I meant
  24. scorchio
    hi all, its nice to hear people help each other through these hard times. hi Brando, thanks for your earlier advice you gave me, similar sittuations i feel, although your relationship longer. im really finding N/C at mo, although I havent contacted her for nearly month and a half, been split for 2months. miss her loads, wish she was feeling same and suffering like me !!!!
  25. scorchio
    hi all, bit low tonight, miss her and her daughter alot tonight, feel like breaking N/C, I know I shouldnt. just bit low, down tonight
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