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I know i should tell her.. its jsut finding the right moment, im jsut scared she will be all angry and * * * *ty with me any ideas how i could word it?

Ok... so i can get things off my conscience fairly well... but i jsut wanna no.... am i a bad person for doing what ive done recently? theres this guy, who has no respect for women wht-so-ever, he would tell anyone he loves/likes them to get into bed with them... i HATE this guy, hes mesed up my friend once before and has been at my gf for the last few months, at first it wrked but my gf realised i mean more and stopped it, i THINK this maybe the case again, she would never leave me, i know tht, infact we keep getting stronger,(but he manipulates and makes ppl feel guilty etc.) However... i have done some fairly bad things.... iv blocked this guy through any online contact such as E-mail/IM etc, and have deleted a txt in the past to.... jsut wanna no your oppinion? Is wht im doing wrong? she isnt exactly best mates with this guy... and im nt the only one tht agrees with me on my views. My main problem is.... do i continue to block/delete etc? i jsut dont wanna get caught out.. she means everythign to me and deep down im jsut trying to protect her.. i no it sounds like im obsessive... but really... im jsut looking out for her and they aint exactly great mates. srry bout the length.... and the pointless ranting.... i jsut needed to get things off my chest really.. any advice would be helpful Thanks

I can really relate to wht your sayin, my gf is simular with the hugging thing, and the boy tht really "likes" here, but not like in your post, maybe you can try and talk to her, explain your feelings about how you get jelous? i no that sounds stupid coming from me... .as i havent yet plucked up the courage but hey...

There isnt anything that overly sugegsts she likes him, but you never know. and shes known him a while, he tried to get her in about december time to... worst of all, hes one of those guys who will say anything to get sumone into bed or go out with them.... and i no hes flirting with my gf but.... he apparently is after sum girl where he works to.

I dunno wht to do at the moment, i keep putting myself into a state of mild paranoia where my gf and other males are concerned, we have been going out a year now.. and shes told me she never wants to let me go, and after the last few months we've had i believe her but... theres another person who has stepped in recently.. her mate, shes been talking to him and he apparently likes her and has een chatting her up and flirting a lot... i jsut keep thinking to myself that im not exactly an amazingly good looking person and dont have anything that would want her to stay with me i no you probably think im jsut in the state of obsession with her... but i can guarantee that this paranoia is not like that! hehe! I know she'd never hurt me, but i keep getting like this a lot when she is talking to other males via phone or Online. Any advice?

why do i feel so jelous? i love my gf so much and she assures me she loves me, and we both believe each other, i know she wudnt go off with any other guy ever and vice versa, its just, im at tht point of our relationship where its now classed as long term and i feel jelous bout her tlking to any guy online or physically, i think it comes down to me, thinking, well...if shes tlking to other guys, maybe she will find out im not so "special" after all...i mean...i dont have any "skills" and im nt really that good looking tbh i really believe her when she says she loves me and tht she thinks im amazin, more than i believed anyone else whos ever said it....yet.... why cant i accept it? i suppose this comes under lack of confidence in myself....dont know... srry if this kinda belongs to two forum topics, it kinda led into more than one thing

right, to the point, tonite is ny-eve and even better im spending it with my gf....however... im not one for looking in the mirror and thinking "i look good" ..actually, quite the opposite i know im a teenager and expect a few spots, but i recently visited family in a different part of the UK where the water is pure (as apposed to my chalk based water around my area), everytime i visit them and come back, i get looaads of spots due to the water change (dont ask why!)... anyways... i know ya cant make a spot disappear in hours, but what bout hiding it or making it a LOT less visible... any ideas?! i know it might sound stupid but i wanna look good tonight this night means so much to my gf and if i think i look gd then i feel a lot more confident etc.. (hell... i know what i mean!!)

thanks, and yeh, i do feel insercure about myself a lot ...thts why she makes me feel so great,the reason i dont wanna lose her. but after some investigating of my own i jsut found out tht this guys got a gf which is brilliant as he wont try nethin (as far as im aware)... and its coincidencial tht her name happens to be the same as my gf's // ty for the advice tho ,all i nd to do now i make myself more confident in general.... alltho, her talkting to him still makes me feel a bit down, dunno why, i think its coz i dont feel great about myself so dont see a reason why she should stay with me... ah well, seems allrite for now, i shall still talk to her tho

i dunno if this is the right section or not... but im so confused atm... i know my gf and i have been in a long term r/ship for quite a long time now and ive been made aware that shes started talkin to somebody who she liked a LOT a couple of years ago... i dont know why i feel jelous about this, i suppose its coz i know this guy likes my gf, and im suppose im jsut scared of loosing her can somebody re-assure me tht its prob nothing... tht im jsut slightly paranoid.

its not tht it wont heal its jsut tht its an area tht moves a lot ,mainly when i goto the toilet lik i sed, so cant have a long enough time to scab over, jw if anyone had ne ideas thts all. thankx anyway tho, if it does seem to be infected or nethin ill see my doctor

hey, just a quick question, its jsut tht i have has this cut for around a couple of weeks now and its begginin to annoy me as it wont heal to well. The cuts on my foreskin right near the top so obviosuly, if it does scab over slightly it kinda slips open agen when i wanna go to the toilet! it doesnt bleed or anything and its only a thin cut, i cant think whre i got it from either but i nd a quick way of healing a wound lik this!! thnx,

personally i wouldnt use hydrogeon preroxide in my mouth as it jsut bleaches, thats all, if ya in the Uk use Colgate whitening, after bout 4 consecutive cleanings they are wonderfull n white

Well.. its like this eversince me and my now ex g/f were plannig to have sex i practiced getting on a condom and nearly had it right. however a few questions, all the booklets in the packets say "retract foreskin" but does that mean all the way until it stays back? i only ask because i want to be able to get this right, and i dont have too many left to practice with. I have a load of other questions but this one being answered 1st would be ok (or at least a start) Thansk in adv. hope ya can help me

i am nearly 16 and most my mates are not virgins, i still am, the only thing i believe with sex n relationships is that you should really love ea. other. tht's all that matters. but like other posters said, being celibate is a personal preferance, you do what ever you feel is right theres no right or wrong answer.

Same here, i really like this girl and after spending a bit more time with her at the school prom im going for it, may be your only shot go! go! go!

I used to know a website that did them for people who (like me) dont exactly want to go to a drop in centre as i have low confidence as it is Im in south UK and i know theres a UK-based website that sends out free condoms by post, anyone remember the address or have another one?>

Just rub/message/whateva about until you find the spot..

Even though it IS legal maybe its worth mentioning as there have been incedents in the past where slight things can get people into trouble. An example is of course not really relevant to your situation as they have different rules for drug use in sports but one guy in the olympics or simular a while back got Excluded from all races as he Took a nose spray to clear him of a cold If your so paranoid and its only for muscle buildin then can you just not take it for a couple of days b4 the test?

Definatly, i mean you need some fun and they may get in the way if too big.. allthough.. people who only judge on breast size arent nomally people my ex's would have gone out with anyway. Personality all the way baby.

UPDATE! jsut to let yall know it IS the creasil ultra cream, it has poroxide in

WHo is jordan- if your in UK you will know, for others tho, shes a page3 model whos has more plastic than a toy shop

Im a medium type of guy, allthough i prefer personality over breasts. i have had relationships with big breated medium weight people and with ppl like Skinny and small and all sorts of possible sizes/weights. Admitadly bigger ones are nicer but too big and they are crap, take Jordan for example, i mean, Honestly they look horrible. but at the opposite end, too small and well... DOesnt matter really, myself = medium lover. nothing small, nothing big

lmao. i am putting it down to sun as there cant b another reason for chane of colour in one week ill see if it improves by next weekend

erm.. the only face stuff been using is clerasil ultra which reads (may bleach fabrics i wonder if my eyebrows class as a fabric lmao

I have looked in teh mirror every morning this week and towards tuesday morning there was some ginger in my eyebrowns, and now they are proctically all ginger.. thinking to myself, my eyebrowns are like my hair, (chaning colours in sun) i ignored it but now its starting to annoy me, i have a mixture of hair colours depending on the season -summer= Bright blonde and winter a dark blonde. Is this eyebrow thing just something to do with sun etc like my hair.. cant believe that they would change in like a few days