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This is only a little bit of what ive started writing, but i wanted to know if people agree or disagree with my argument. ive gotten teenagers opinions and id like to know what adults think too. so say 1) if u agree 2) why/ why not 3) age 4) and for fun age you first fell in love >>if you love someone, you shouldnt have to worry about whether or not ur going to see them within the next few months. people (adults) dont repect the love teenagers- young adults- can have for one another. yes, we're younger, we have not lives as long and we certainly have not experienced all that the world has to offer, but thats one of the points of being in love as a young adult: everything is new and innocent. THE MAJORITY of us havent been corrupted or experienced real heartache. we dont know what its like to have loved and lost. honestly most of us arent given the chance. we're sheltered and put into this little fish bowl and are told to experience the world but only by watching it.There comes a point in everyones life where they have to take that leap of faith and plunge into the real world.

thing is, we cant live together unless we're married..... both of our parents would freak, probably more so than if they found out we're married. we figured wed get married and live together and then if they have a problem with us living together we can just say that we are married. *shrug* i say all of this now, but who knows in 9 months (when i turn 18) we may have a different plan (which we probably will).

ive tried to tell my family how much he means to me. ive talked to my grandma about it, but not my parents. both of our families know that we have the intention of getting married, hence they are keeping us from each other. >>just curious on how they found out you guys were having sex? one of my friends accidentally mentioned that his mom was nice, well my mom wanted to know how she met his mom cuz she supposedly had only met my bf once at my house. (we secretly picked him up from work one day and took him home and she met his mom there) well my mom wanted to know everything and didnt tell me what she knew so she questioned me for 3 hours, eventually she asked if i was a virgin and i pretty much said no. i was flat out honest with her. i never thought in my wildest dreams she would react like this....... she was so cruel. she called me a dirty whore. and a liar. she said im an embarrassment to the family. shes trying her best to end our relationship....... honestly she could do anything she wants, but we'll still b together in the end.

i have been saving ALL of my money that ive been making. ive loaded up my schedule with work and studying and getting my SAT scores up. im planing on going to college, whether my parents pay for it or not. i just would rather not have to get student loans so im working on getting scholarships. he isnt completely dropping school, just waiting for me to finish (hes already been offered a few editing jobs which pay quite a bit) and as a skating caugh i make $42 an hour. i understand that we are young, and i know ill more than likely get a bunch of responses saying im too young,i understand that im young, but i know that i could possibly have limited time with him, and i also know that if i dont take action with this, i will be without him for even longer. (becuase of college). he and i have already been through so much together (his medical problems, my major family problems, his parents near divorce. we were each others firsts and we honestly have just gone through so much and love each other soooooo much). btw, my brain is DEAD. i have been really sick... i overloaded myself these past 2 weeks and now ive got an ulcer and i really bad cold...... so if half of what i typed doesnt make sense, blame it on that.

basically my parents found out about my bf and I having sex, they freaked, they wanna put him in jail (hes 18 and im 17) but they arent becuase of his health problems. we arent allowed to see each ther, or talk or email. he got his comp/phone/job/schooling all taken away..... basically he sits in his room and goes to the new full time fry cook job his parents got him...... i on the other hand still have all my stuff, and i got to keep my job (i work 40 hours a week, go to school, coach ice skating and practice ice skating and ive been preparing for a skating exam). his parents went out of town this weekend, and so did my mom (my dads been working) so luckily we were able to talk. i should probably mention that i am engaged to my bf and have were planning on getting married in the summer, basically its the only way we can stay together during college. hes chosen to put off college for a while becuase he wants to b a director and its not as important for him to go to college right now (his words not mine). this may sound like a stupid teenage relationship but i assure u its not. i have had adults come up to me and tell me they believe that my bf is the one. my bf told his father how much he loves me, and his father was so amazed at how much he loves me that he actually cried and hugged my bf (a big change from when he hits him and yells at him for being "disrepectful") he actually said he hopes my bf and i will still b together after this (yet he continues to not let us talk). i love my bf with all my heart, and i want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him. he is my best friend and the love of my life and no will ever be able to make me as happy. i would love anyones opinion on the situation and what we should do (hes contemplating getting kicked out of his house, becuase he already has somewhere to live if that happens). i am contemplating getting emancipated becuase of the conditions of my house.....the only thing is, if i do that, i may not b able to finish high school, and i wont have the moeny that i have now for college.... so please......... any help as to how to possibly get this work would be very very very appreciated.

my bf and i went into the gas station right next to his old work. he often went in there to get lunch so he knew the guy working pretty well. anyways, my bf tried to ask for condoms and he couldnt say the word and he kept pointing but the guy working doesnt speak the most perfect english so he had no clue...... so my bf went behind the counter grabbed them and paid for them.

i can understand where ur coming from. im not claiming that i know everything. honestly i know a lot of my little fantasys wont work out the way i want them, but i do know this.... i love my bf with all my heart. he is my best friend and has stuck by me through thick and thin. if we do have a baby at our age (hes almost 19) our baby will get all the love and support we can give it. i know we wil struggle, and i know it will be so hard to keep up a marriage at our age, but i think with the love that we have for one another (may sound like a fantasy but oh well) , we can make it through most anything. I want to spend every second of time i can with him. especially since we dont know how much time we have. he is my entire world, and i know hes the person who im going to fall asleep next to at night and wake up with the very next morning for the rest of our lives together. that may sound immature and stupid, but i do believe i could handle the resposibilities. it would be a struggle, but in time, things would work out.

i know i have al ot of growing up to do and i know im young but if i am pregnant, this is something i will not regret, and neither will my bf, weve talked A LOT about it lately, and we want to wait to have children, but if it so happens that i am pregnant, then we can handle it. i would not even consider abortion or adoption. like i said, this could be our only chance, and i dont want to ruin it. we're getting married next summer and we know it will be a struggle if we have a baby, but we are both up for it.

im not so much worried about the map anymore. i didnt want to take it becuase of the possibility of me already being pregnant. i just want to know when i can take a blood test and hwere i can get it done at since there is not a planned parenthood around here....

map= Morning after pill. EDIT: oh yeah...... if i need to go take a blood test, where can i go? there isnt a planned parenthood around here.

well any replies r greatly appreciated. i only have my comp for the rest of the night, then its getting shipped off for 2 weeks. so this is my last chance to get my questions answered for a while.... anyways! ive given up on trying to get the MAP. my bf and i had unprotected sex again and had intentions of taking the MAP. but i coundt go through with it. i started to think...... what if i was to get pregnant the first time, then if i took the map, what would happen..... after a lot of thought i couldnt go through with it. i talked with my bf about it and he agreed. i also thought.... well, if theres only .1% chance of him having children.... what if that was our one chane ya know........ *shrug* so i guess, i was wondering, whens the earliest i can take a pregnancy test, and if its a blood test (which it will more than likely be) how early can i go and get that done?? was i wrong to not get the MAP?

my mom would probalby be ok with me going on the pill if i had a valid reason from a dr for going on it, but if she found out i was having sex, my bf and is relationship would b over till i turn 18. im planing on seeing a dr here soon so hopefully they can help out with this whole thing. i really want to try and avoid having my period when i go to europe next year (in april) cuz we'll b backpacking for a month (its a senior class trip) so yeah. we'll see i suppose

i cant eat anything anymore w/o feeling sick. in the past 2 weeks ive lost enough weight that i went down on a belt size, and im really week and tired. neither of my parents know that i dont feel well (honestly cuz both of them would quickly send me off to a psychiatrist). so rar........ i tried eating lighter foods these past 2 days, but ive probalby only eaten 2 meals since..... i just feel like total crap.

ok, so a lot has been going on and ive been really really stressed lately........ so things seem to be getting better, but ive almost completely stopped eating.... i go about 24 hours w/o eating then when i do eat, its somethng small......... i cant help it. about 2 weeks ago, things got really bad with my family and i didnt eat ofr more than 36 hours cuz i felt so sick from being stressed. since then, ive hardly been eating, and when i do i feel sick afterwards.... my bf has really been pushing me to eat, and i love him to death for that, but i seriously just dont feel well when i eat..... ugh. anyways, he got his mom into it by saying that i hadnt eaten since last night..... she sat me down and had a serious talk with me about how its bad for me, and its not gunna help me lose weight (which is not what im trying to accomplish here). i feel bad now because my bf and his mom (which are more like family to me than my own) are really worried about me. but i seriously just cant eat w/o feeling crappy....... what should i do.....

how do u get it from a pharmacy? do u have to have a perscrition or can u just ask for it??? confused slightly

r u sure??? i really really need to know for sure.....

sooo im grounded for yelling at my mom cuz she was saying i do nothing around here (i have 3 jobs, a serious relationship and a figure skating career i keep together). so now i cant go get the map..... im in big trouble here.... i dont know what to do, and my bf brought up a good point.... if i go and they perscribe it wont it show up on my record??? ugh crap im so screwed right now and i dont know what to do. im like in major panic mode.

give it time. thats all i can really say. i dont exactly support the fwb sorta thing, but thats just me. ive seen it ruin awesome friendships so *shrug i really hope things get better for ya

okie dokie! here i am again. i just keep getting myself into these messes......... anyways, my bf/ fiance and i had unprotected sex for the first time since the first time we had sex. hes uncapable of having children till he has surgery, and i just finished my period 2 days ago, so i dont know how much of a possibility there is of me getting pregnant, but since im like the biggest worrier im asking questions. please please please dont yell at me or fuss at me for not using a condom. i undersatnd it was wrong, but honestly if i were to get pregnant, we would b able to take care of the baby, i just honeslty dont want one right now. i seemed ok at the time but now im feeling really bad (cuz stuff that happened after really got me upset) anyways, im making plans to get the morning after pill tomorrow. my friend and i r going to the health department, and i wanted to double check that i can get it there. also can i get the pill/ patch there too? and will my parents b notified??? i honestly want to tell them about everything thats been going on, but i do not want them to keep me from seeing the only real support i have in my life. please help.

dad came home drunk one night about 3 months ago. he drove home by himself, and then swore hed never do it again..... he stopped drinking for about 2 weeks....... yeah.

moms hopefully going outta town tomorrow with the friend she went out with tonight. if she doesnt go, im going to stay with my bf or my grandma. i understand parents make mistakes. but this is so stupid. she never goes anywhere and now that she went out for the first time in month, shes stuck puking in a toilet. im not scared. or anything, i just wanna know what to do with her. she got up to go to bed, but shes back to the toilet.

yeah lemme tell ya. mom doesnt want me to have a life cuz she thinks ill screw it up.......... its not like shes helping me any. i clean the house. i have 3 jobs, a serious bf (sorta fiance). and im doing a bunch of stuff for school. so yeah. she calls me immature.... at least i dont stay home and play on the computer then go out and get drunk....... w/e

my mom doesnt get out much.... actually like once a month. shes too into her video games (sims 2) so yeah. im stuck here listening to her puking, moaning, turning the water on and off. she fell up the stairs pretty hard coming in the door. i had work so i came home to an empty house and then they come home like this.......

My mom and dad went out tonight with some friends and got really drunk..... dads in bed and moms in the bathroom, puking her guts out into the sinke while sitting on the toilet. im here in the kitchen. i can hear her turn the water on and off........ what do i do?