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  1. Bibora
    Know also has you feel. I also broke up with her a month ago and now i'm feeling worse than i was in the 1st two weeks... Now i seem to realise where it all went wrong and how maybe i could have saved it... But there is no magic button to make time go back, so i have to pull my strenghs and move on, but its so goddamn hard. Lots of things remind me of her (the house for a start). I actually removed her from my msn contact cause she blocked me and doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Maybe that helps me get over here but now it's like i'm in the dumps and don't know how to exit... And this X-mas will be my worst ever
  2. Bibora
    Guess i'm gonna give her time to cold down. It's only over a month now, and maybe she is still to angry to accept any forgiveness from my side. Not that actually i'm expecting any contact from her side. But i'm going to give a little more time.
  3. Bibora
    Well... I treat her bad when we broke up cause i was so tired and angry over her. In the last week before breaking up, she even called me "piece of s***" and was always giving me a cold look, no love in her eyes. So when it all came down to pieces i just got really upset. And having to share the house after the breaking didn't help... Yeah in the end i said bad things like how could i have care for her now that we broke up (cause she accused me not caring when we were together). Or listening/singing to songs with hate lyrics (really bad move there but i wasn't thinking straight) but then being talked in the back that i had a bad voice and stuff like that (she was chatting in msn with one of her friends) didn't help. Lots of bad stuff happened. And i did alot bad, and im regreting it. But at the same time i'm not the only one at fault here. So i really don't know if i should do it now or give time and let her cold down.
  4. Bibora
    Well presently im doing a NC with my ex to see if heal myself. It's hard but i'm struggling. Well the problem is that i'm feeling completely s*** cause the way i treated her when we broke up. And now i really just want to send something saying that i really regret what i did and hope at least she would forgive that. But should i wait a while and then say i'm sorry or do it now, even she doesn't reply back (most probably)?
  5. Bibora
    yeah i know what you mean. Now in the end i understand. Wasn't aware of it when we were together. It just seem nice to me. I think i just rushed things a bit too much. I really wanted to be with her. And in the end i just pushed too much for her own sake. Her breaking up with me just served me right, got what i deserve
  6. Bibora
    heheheh nice theory Well i never thought it would be that bad for me to put all my effort for her. I thought she would like it. Guess it was too much for her to handle. And she just wanted to run away. And now i'm the one hurting... Cause she even won't talk to me (long story).
  7. Bibora
    Not all of them. Not in my case at least. I changed my life completely because of her. Change cities, work, left family, friends behind to live with her. I loved always to be with her, to see her. Everyday i would pick up her at school (when she didnt come first home). Well i guess i push it a bit too much, but i really loved her company. And i didn't had friends here so she was my only company. Guess i messed up... In the end she wanted time for her own. Until unfortunately we broke up. So now i've learned a valuable lesson. And lost an amazing person.
  8. Bibora
    Great post! Very good tips. Already did some of the steps like getting rid of stuff that remind me of her, and starting to exercise. I still tried to contact her (foolish enough) but she doesn't reply. So it's bye-bye. I'll have a great life either with or without her. Thx dude. (And make this sticky!)
  9. Bibora
    It's a long story but if you guys are interested in hear it pm and after work i'll reply. Cause i know there are lots of flaws in my side too.
  10. Bibora
    Not raping... She accused me of assaulting her, cause i kissed her. Nothing that im proud of doing... But i never expected her to react this bad...
  11. Bibora
    Well i broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks and half ago (actually it was she breaking). After that we still live together for 3 days, but i was really angry on her, those days were like a living hell for both. On the last day she left the house hysterical, cause the night before i kissed her a couple of times without she wanting it. She verbally accused me of lots of stuff. So it was a really bad. I still said i was sorry of kissing her when she didn't want it, but she start shouting so i shout back. Well after this 3 weeks im still hurting over her (normal i guess). I tried to reach her, said im sorry, asking for forgiveness but she doesnt reply. So now im going through the hard but necessary NC stuff. The question is, after all this mess, am i struggling for something i will never have again, or there is always hope? If so, any good ideas to help me out? what should i do?
  12. Bibora
    Well slowly starting to put my feets back on the ground and starting to straight up. Today again, another fase of grief and sorrow mixed with a bit of angry. Still fighting the urge to send her some mail or music lyrics. Actually listen to two songs that would be really appropriate to send, but im not going through that path again. I'll fight the urge to contact her. She knows how to reach me or how to contact me, if she wants... But then again, i don't know if i really want to talk to her, to have her just as friend... I'll survive, as the song says
  13. Bibora
    No dude, i dont think she will come back. Eventually speaking yes, but being together, hardly... You see, when we broke up, i acted almost like an stupid ass... Really did some bad stuff, cause i was really angry over her. We were living together even after the break up for 3 days, and it was a living hell for both. Specially for her. And in the last day i did a thing that although it wasn't that bad, she got really upset and we had one final fight and she left home, saying she wouldn't want to see me again. One day later i might talk back with her, but i being together is already an impossible dream.
  14. Bibora
    Im in the 3rd week after breaking up, and i was desperate (and silly enough) to try to contact her... Before breaking up, i told her if that would ever happened, i would be the one not wanting to see her or talk to her... In the end, it is me trying to reach her, while she ignores me. Well at least i was. It's time to save some little self-respect and move on. If she loves you and misses you, she will call you back. But don't wait for it. it's best for you to start already moving out, or else you will be always waiting. That's what im starting to do. In my case, she doesn't exist anymore, or i'll drive myself crazy over it.
  15. Bibora
    And most certainly she is doing better than me, cause else she would contact me. I still wonder myself if she is back to her ex. And some ppl say she only hanged with me to try to forget him. A situation that never happened, cause her ex's were always a matter of talking and comparing sometimes, even she said she wasnt... Well im gonna try to save the little self-respect i have left and move on.
  16. Bibora
    yeah you are right. She is not worth it. Im already decided to return to university (stopped it for a while now), and start to know new ppl out there. And where i am choices are impressive. Thx for the nice advice.
  17. Bibora
    3 weeks have passed since i've last heard/saw her. In the beginning i felt bad, but at the same time angry at her for the reasons she wanted to break up. And the angry part made me pass it better. That and the fact that i had lots of ppl to talk about it. Now, 3 weeks later, im starting to feel really bad... No seeing her, not talking to her (last summer when we meet, we used to talk all nights until 6 in the morning over msn) and now i miss that... She refuses to talk back to me or see me (cause of the way we ended... another long history). Ive send her some mails, some sms, some music lyrics but she doesnt react. Maybe im wasting my time and sanity over this? I just wanted to know if she was doing fine, cause i don't think i will ever get her back... Or is it smarter to just let it go and move on? Im really trying to move on, but because of her i change to a new city and i don't know much ppl here. So im kinda lonely... All ppl say to me to let it go, she isn't worth it, but it's just too hard to me... And we were together only 3 and half month and she marked me alot...
  18. Bibora
    After browsing a little over google i come up with this foruns... And this post... Well it made today 3 weeks that me and my g-f broke up... Since then life as been totally $h1t on me... The reasons she broke up with me are more or less understandable, although some leave me alot to think... Ok the majour one was that i was to needy (well guess what im 27 and this was my first real relation, so i was to scare to loose - yeah i love her really alot) and i did overreact a bit cause of that... But the rest leaves me a bit to wonder... Well, saying to me she wouldn't always wanted e to go out with me, but actually with other guys left me a bit shocked but i tried to deal with that. She actually got out twice with another guy. I allowed that but never felt good with that and wasnt honest with her. My mistake here. But still i think there should be some respect from her part and avoid some situations... Well with all this, and the fact she had a similar relation before, made the relation come to a break point. I also made some mistakes, cause i meet her over the internet and she was changing to my country to study for a year. So i decided to move in with her, not giving time to know her better. Yeah i change my life completely over her. Moved town, change work, and got a wonderfull house for us... But i never did the smartest thing and got to know her right... Well all this story for what? After we broke up, the next 3 days i was so angry on her that i made lots of sh1t... She wanted to be friends but i was so angry that i hurt her alot. In the end of the 3rd day she told me she never wanted to see me again... Well 1st it was me who didnt wanted to be friends, now im desperate to contact her, missing her like hell and she wont contact me... I will move on but its too hard on me right now... Oh the relation only last 3 month e a half. Ppl say it was for the best that it last so short... I dont know... Im marked by her... She could have been the one
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