batista04

ANOTHER TURN OF EVENTS, we broke up again today, and became friends again, i figured that i pressured her into a YES, I DONT WANT TO DO THAT because i see her unhappy. IM gonna wait, simply because she told me her and the other dude had a combo, and they arent gonna talk as much anymore, givin me some hope, im gonna give it a month, i really cant wait to long now. She told me while she is alone she is going to be loyal and not look for other things in other people, she is going to try to conform herself first before makin a sure decision on us, what do you guys think?

last night we had a deeper conversation, in which she told me that i broke her heart, thats why she couldnt take me back, and in a way i could see it, although i didnt cheat on her or anything in that nature, i sorta lost interest, but when i lost her, i realized what i lost, i told her all of this, and asked her to take me back to show her that i was the one who broke her heart, and that i want to be the one to help mend it, luckly she said yea. ITS TIME THAT I SHOW HER THAT I DO LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART, or else I COULD LOOSE HER FOREVER, thanks everyone for the advice.

me and my girl have been goin through rough times lately, we called a break for about a week and we got back together, for her to tell me that she doesnt love me the way she use to, that sometimes she tries to be happy with me not to make me feel bad, thats when i broke up with her completely, within that week of use being completely broken up, another guy she met entered her life, she began to like him alot. Now in the past week we got back together 50/50 to find out a couple of things, that if its meant to be or not, for a month, she tells me that she has half of my heart, that she loves me but then doesnt love me, and she only likes the other guy. So as much as she wants time to think we cant because she cant help call me or i cant help call her, knowin that this other guy is there. She told me to give her time, that she will come back most likely to me, that school, and her family are overwhelming her, but i think that if your goin through those hard times wouldnt it be better to have a companion to help you out with dealin with these issues? I told her flat out, she ends it and i dont think i would contact her ever again, and recently i got into a serious car accident, and she was the only one really there for me, which made me want her more. IM scared of loosing her, im not sure if i should fight for her more to get her before i completely loose her, im very impatient too about it. I WANT HER TO MAKE A DECISION ASAP, i dont know what to do. Im really depressed about this, help me.

thanks everyone for the advice, and im following it, im pretty much not calling her, but eventhough she has said she needs time, she calls me everyday, i guess its cuz the whole deal in which we are goin out but we are not? as weird as it sounds, those are the "stipulations," we are not yet allowed to see other ppl but im givin her the space she needs, if she wants to call it off she will call me. With that said, she needs time? BUT like i said she calls me alot, now i promised myself i wouldnt tell her i lover her or miss her, and today it was goin well, she called me twice and i talked to her like a friend, but when she called me again she told me she missed me, so i had no alternative to let her know too, that i missed her, its so hard, shes like my best friend also so its even harder. I dont know, i think this its getting to complicated, SHE wants time, but she calls me everyday, and she doesnt want to take it back to full relationship mode, according to her, because she is overwhelmed, and needs time to herself, its not even me or the relationship? im confused, im not sure if i should not pick up the calls, or pick them up but stay even stronger to the friends game and even if she says somethin not reply? im not sure........

last night, i went over her house, she wanted me to come over in the afternoon, and i surprised her, as i was headed over i told her i was hangin out with a couple of my friends so i wouldnt have seen her(she didnt expect me comin at all) and after i told her that she said bye but i noticed she began cryin, and it hurt alot hearin her cry, so when i showed up to her house, she was surprised and happy, but also said, this made it harder for her. We talked for a while, and came to the conclusion that i guess shes takin her time apart, but shes going to stay loyal and faithful, and if she really doesnt think its goin to work out she will call me to tell me, other than that, i laid down the rule that i wouldnt stay in contact with her considerin the fact that she wants time alone, that is she wants to see me or talk to me, she will give me a call. She is considerin seeing me on sunday, and i want to see her too, but i guess im leavin it all up to her, shes goin to the club tonite, and i got no objection because i feel that if shes goin to be loyal, she will tell me is somethin went down, in any case, that is when i would let her go for good. this mornin her sister in law called me and i told her to leave her the message that i care about her alot and that i still love her. Am i goin down the right path? i was thinkin about writin her a letter, and on tuesday, since she has school in the morning, i would go over her house and leave a dozen roses around her room, and the letter on her bed, and maybe, friday, leave a CD at her house. although she wants this time, she cant help call me, and i resist callin, but she does, i dont know what to say to this. my friend told me that if i really want her, i should fight to get her back? i want to do that, but not over do it, at the same time give her, her time to "think." should i do what im planin to do? thank u everyone!

thanks alot for the posts, she called me a couple minutes ago, and well we talked for a while, i told her i loved her at the end of the conversation, and she stayed silent, i think that it was a mistake, regardless, i left it to her to call me back, hopefully things will work out, but still hurtin

last night i broke up with my girl, we have been together for 9 months, tomorrow it would have been 10, and well the reason she says she broke up with me was because she needs time alone to find who she is, to realize what she wants, and to know if she is IN-love with me, although she claims she does love me. and this all came after a small argument we had two nights ago, i didnt expect this, and it really just hurts me inside, ive known her all my life, and the relationship was great, and we had our fights buts we would try to work them out, then this came and it just killed me. I want to know what i should do, ive gotten advice to leave her alone, not call her at all, if she calls, talk to her, and try to avoid meetin up. Other ppl have told me to talk to her every once in a while, hang out, but let her have her time, i really have no clue what to do, i dont want to make it seem like im avoiding her because she was just another girl, and the breakup didnt mean much, but i dont want to make it seem like i want her back so bad, because then its gonna make her realize that she could keep a break simply because she knows ill be there. please help me out, im so lost in this relationship, i love the girl to death, but i have no clue on how to make her realize that, or atleast make her understand that what she didnt wasnt the best thing, thanks.