Tombo123

I'd keep that feeling inside, but if it's going to affect your friendship then maybe just think that it's good to be friends.. Being friends is better than not being friends, isn't it? If you ever do think about getting into a serious relationship, then take great care to think about how it would affect work.. If it slowly disintegrates, then take action (tell each other to be just friends / work mates).. It's truly up to how you feel.. If you ever need / want to, then don't be afraid to ask him how he feels towards you.. Whatever he says, you decide..

Your eyes are an important factor when it comes to finding a girl on a night out.. The eyes tell them everything without any words coming out from you mouth.. I have to do this when acting in college, and whenever I'm wrong, they tell me, but thats very rare.. If you like the girl you see, look at her with your head tilted to the side.. like you were looking at something on the floor, but then saw her at the corner of your eye.. Smiling helps too.. especially when you've made eye contact.. If you ever do, then don't feel nervous when you see her.. If you get a good reply (a smile back, or a good look at each other), then you could make a move.. maybe go up to the bar, or invite her to the dance floor.. If she's alone (most cases she isn't), then go to her and introduce yourself like lonesomeheartmark said.. get into an easy conversation, but then quickly get into the 'I'm interested' part - ask questions about each other, and tell her about yourself.. Like friends.. But if she isn't alone, then maybe give her signs of where to go, like 'bar' (drink in hand, point to bar) without telling her verbally.. Hope this helps

I've recently kept in contact with my friend (Kelly) that I went out with when I was in Primary School, and we found that we still like each other.. She's on the break (because of me) with her boyfriend, and she really wants me to come over to her house and do some business.. I'm confused though.. She asks lots of questions.. personal questions that is.. Like 'what do you know about sex? what experience do you have? Oral handjob oral what would you want?', and I just want to tell her that I want to take it easy at first, but I wouldn't know what her reaction would be at first.. We have lots of dirty talk too, and I never really have done that before (I'm a mild person if you know what I mean) so I tell her that I wouldn't want to do much of that.. She isn't a virgin.. but I am.. People tell me that it's great to be a virgin because you can lose it to the right person, and Kelly keeps asking me if she would lose it to me because she is the right one for me.. I drop my head to say that I don't know, even on numerous occasions.. I'm sure this paragraph here has applied to a number of others, but has she ever asked you if you love her? I tell her truthfully that I do love her, but as a friend, and that I wouldn't mind taking it further.. I just haven't actually been able to talk to her face to face because of her recent boyfriend.. Haven't been able to ask her what has happened for 6 years (Primary School until now) and get to know her even more too.. She keeps bringing up the moment I kissed her.. She said she never felt anything like it.. and so she tells me that she wants to do it again.. I tell her that we will one day - no wonder she keeps asking me to come over to hers! Sorry for the long message, but hopefully it's given a good understanding of what I'm trying to tell people that read this.. I'm slightly nervous at the fact of meeting her and 'doing something in her bedroom' as she says.. but that will come over quickly when it's done.. Thanks for taking your time to read this everyone..

Personally, I'm not a big fan of challenges - especially with girls.. It would have to depend what the girl's personality would be.. I know a few guys in my college course that would want it to be challenging when getting a girl, but to be honest, I don't understand why either.. I think it just depends on who they're going for.. Games? What do you mean by that? There's lots of different meanings, and to be precise is better when it comes to finding more information..

I have a college prom coming up soon and I'm not sure what I should talk about to other girls. There are lots of girls going to this prom, and it's involving ALL my college mates, so I have male friends to talk to aswell. The disadvantage about me is.. I'm only 16 and going to be 17 in May, so I'm quite young as a college student compared to my friends [just general information if it helps]. So what kind of topics could I talk about, especially when slipping into flirtatious subjects [to girls]?

For me personally, looks isn't the key thing to look for in a guy/girl. What if they were ugly, but was the most caring and loving guy/girl you've ever known? What if you met a very beautiful/handsome person, but realised that they had a stinking personality and didn't give a s*** about anything, including you? See the difference? I have to admit.. If I were to look for a girl, she would have to have some looks, but what I look mostly for is what's inside, and to me that definitely counts. I hate people out there that just go for the looks.. it annoys me!

I have found out that Jamie isn't going out with her (he's going out with a girl called Charlotte), and that Kelly is single. So people, anyone changed their minds on what my next step could be towards a good relationship with such a friendly and fine girl?

How did you take yours? Was it for free? I don't know myself sorry.

To those who have followed my recent topic about a girl called Nicola, well I have given up, because 1.-They now have friendship/promise rings to make their bond even bigger. 2.-There is another girl in our course who I feel is a good friend. At this moment of time, I have been friends with this girl since we started. Her name is Kelly, she comes from Ashford (which is about 20 minutes drive from my place), she's 16 (same as me), but I'm a little paranoid that she is going out with someone. She says that she's single, but the last time I asked her that was last December. What I would like to ask her is: "Would you like to come to the cinema with me?". As part of the mobile tariff Orange, I can get 2 cinema tickets for the price of 1, so I thought of Kelly (asking her out on a date), but I'm suspicious that she's going out with Jamie (and I'm going to see him today to ask him about something else in general). Feedback? What do you think I should do? What would YOU do? Thanks greatly to whose who reply with helpful posts.

It's good to be friends with him anyway! Maybe he's still trying to overcome that someone special has just recently died, so I would leave him be for a little bit of time. Then when the time is right, I would start talking to him again. Depending on how he is feeling (watch his reactions without talking to him), say to yourself if it IS the right time to talk to him. I'm not sure if that made sense

I would agree to one of the first replies.. he's probably doing it for practice! What would happen if he didn't practice at all!? He wouldn't be good in bed! It's good to practice (even I do it, and i'm a virgin, but I'm sure within the next year that I'm going to have sex), so don't be jealous-he's doing it for a good cause!

That's good! Cuddly, right? Does it have a message on it? Well that's sorted for tomorrow! Now the thing you might start to think about is: how is she going to reply? Don't worry.. I think she'll like it!

You'll get over it. I did!

Later on in my school years, a Swedish PE teaching assistant was introduced, and everyone was like WOW . One of the things that made her 'fine' was that she put tons of make-up on (not too much, but you could definitely tell), and we were going through our hormone-changing stage. Mysterious Gurl, we're both 16 coming to 17, and it's normal that you might fancy a teacher at a school, because to be honest I surely did

Talking via messenger rather than in person is very different. First of all, there are times when you wouldn't know if she was joking or not, agreeing or not.. it happens when talking to someone in person, but it's better in person as you see them and can also tell if they do agree to a suggestion or something. If you want to talk to her (ask her out on a date), I'd say talk to her in person.

Surprising her is the best option! I wouldn't go up to a girl I like and say, "Would you like a unique present, or a present that can easily remind you of me?" No way! Just give her something(s) that she will take interest to!!

How about both!? Attach the string of the balloon to the teddy bear!

Mysterious Gurl, do you feel lonely because you are single? Time and time again it has happened to me. I'm feeling a little lonesome now, simply because I haven't got a partner. But there are other times where I think - Later on in life, I have to be independent. I've read through, and it seems that you're still learning. I am too, but you're well ahead of me, and that's something to be proud of. I'm sure you've heard this before - Don't give up. Make it a fact, say it again and again in your mind and you will go through. Like Caldus says, you're also very mature about this, not like other girls of your age. Something else to be proud of! Hang in there girl

What kind of area do you live in? A busy area, mild area, or country / desert? Depending on how busy / popular your area is, then there must be stuff to do outside home rather than in it. So.. describe where you live, and you might just get a few more answers.

I would agree with one of the first suggestions; a rose. I can't really think why you shouldn't use balloons as a 17th birthday present.. Personally I wouldn't. A rose is sweet! Her favourite colours are blue and pink.. Maybe a little teddy bear that says Happy Birthday on its belly or something like that. Or something that lights up / flashes with Happy Birthday on it. It seems much more interesting than getting a 17 year old girl balloons.

Thanks to all that have posted their thoughts here.. cooldude1234, that has to be true. She might just be that kind of person, and I did have that feeling while thinking through. I have seen another girl called Kelly and she's single. She likes me as a friend, but maybe that could go further. Thanks everyone!

Your parents don't understand that white and black people are the same. If you need more answers, try telling us how much you know her, and your ages, because ages lead to different answers.

2 years isn't much. I'm not sure if this is right (well I agree), but for a girl to date an older guy is what women prefer. A couple with those ages is fine. Some think it's a bit weird if the ages were swapped, but personally, I wouldn't worry about it.

It is totally normal if men date older women. I have friends in my college who are female and are older, and some, to be honest, like me. I look at recent replies, particularly from the older peoples ones, and I have to agree - If you were to be in the teen stages, then 1-2 years isn't a problem, but if it's a big difference (5-10+ years), then maybe it is a problem for others. On the other hand, if you were to be 21+, then age gaps may not be such a problem. All I'm saying is - I don't see any problem for younger men to date older women. Personally, being 16, I wouldn't want to go out with a woman that's 20 or 21+. I don't mind 17 or 18 (they're both teens). It's up to you how you feel.

I suppose the best option is just to be friends with her?