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  1. Thanks Everyone for your advice.I decided that I'm not going to contact her and continue moving on without her.There is no reason for me to contact her because I know that she may be a cold-hearted bi***that she was when she broke up with me. I'm not going to give her the pleasure of tormenting my mind and let her think that's she is still coming out on top. Thanks again.
  2. Hi, It's been a while since I've been on here,but I had a question and wanted to get some of your opinions before I attempt to talk to my ex...She broke up with me a little over a year ago.Last time I talked to her was in March.I was curious what any of you think if it's a good idea to break no contact after 10 months or stay away for good? Don't know if her reaction will be positive or negative,but whatever it is,I can handle it.Any advice will be appreciated. Dan
  3. I hear ya Kungfumaster, It's almost a year for me also.Yougave me great advice during the year on how to cope with my breakup.I still tend to feel down sometimes,but have had good days.it does take time,but realized that time does heal. Take care!!!
  4. Hi If he is within the U.S., the post was @1:13pm.So it's not possible for him to die @5:51pm. ??????
  5. I feel ya man!!!! My ex left me 10 months ago, and I still am down a lot.We talked up until last march whrn I finally got fed up because I felt that she was just talking to me because she felt bad and gave me hopes that we would get back together. It sucks,but it will get better!!! BE STRONG AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS If you need to,contact her because maybe you need closure.I worked a little for me. good luck 8)
  6. Hi Shainer, I'm going through the same thinh you are right now.I feel for you.My ex left me back in January because she thought that we weren't compatible after 3 years???ok.I still miss her to this day and think about her every moment.It came to the point that I couldn't talk to her anymore because she started to me so cold to me.It does get better as time goes on.11 months and I'm doing a lot better than when I was at around 7 months.Keep yourself busy and be strong.when you meet someone new,it's a lot different and will beable to get over her in no time.Most people say it's not the person you miss,it's there company.If you haven;t been with anyone since,then your missing her with you.For me that's how I think I'm feeling.Don't think I miss her personally.I don't know. Like I said stay strong and we'll get through this!!!!!
  7. Hi, My ex broke up with me 10 months ago and I still feel down most of the time,but doing a lot better since then; is it normal to still feel this way after all these months.is anyone else still feel this way after months or years?Thanks for any reply!!!
  8. Hi Toni, thanks for your reply,but my main question is when your ex breaks up with you and tells you to move on and forget about them,are they trying to tell you that you don't deserve them or are they just trying to make it easier on themselves? Thanks
  9. Hi Toni, I'm going to keep this short.I was with my ex for 4 years.we started having problems the last 3 months we were together.Out of the blue she said that we are done and that I should forget about her and move on with my life.She's 21.I'm 25.It's been 7 months(4 months no contact).To this day still wondering what I did and why I can't get on with my life. My friend's gf told me that when they hung out together,ex would tell her that she's looking for another guy and not to tell me.She has always been very immature.What is your advice on moving on and stop thinking about everything.Just racking my brain everyday.I feel that I'm not myself and that I'm living in a different world.i was on meds for 3 months for anxiety.Everything hit me all at once.ex gone,moving out;living alone,job sucks.Is it normal to feel not myself and feeling down everyday. Thanks Toni
  10. Hey man, I know exactly what you're going through.I've been going through the same thing for the last 6 months.My ex was my everything,but there were reasons that she broke up because basically she said we weren't compatible.After 3 1/2 years you tell someone that?????but I know how you're feeling at this exact moment.It will take time right now to get your life back.Look at me 6 months and still trying to figure things out.Be strong,keep busy,use No Contact,as time goes buy,things do get better.I never thought it would,but it actually does Take care
  11. my ex was such a loving,caring person.after she broke up with me 6 months ago,she turned into something that i have never seen in her.A total b****.She has not had any contact with me since.Will never know what caused her to turn that way.
  12. Hi, I couldn't be friends with someone who ended the relationship in a harsh way.I don't believe in staying friends with someone who can be with someone else after 3 1/2 years with me.They don't deserve us as friends.They decided that they don't need us in there life anymore.Why give them the satisfaction.just so they don't feel guilty?Forget them.
  13. Hi, Just tell the girl how you feel about her and see what happens from there.She may have interest in you also,but you won't find out unless you tell her how you feel.Good Luck!!!
  14. Hi, Seems like she may be insecure.She doesn't seem to know what she wants right now and just give her space and see what happens in the future.She may have wrote the letter out of guilt because she had to get the words out to make herself feel better.Good Luck!!!
  15. hi lillady898, Welcome to Enotalone.Everyone on this site is here to help you!!! We have all been through the breakup period and know exactly how you're feeling.I had a rough breakup for the last 6 months and finding this site has really helped me.Avman put together a great summary of of the beginning healing stage and think you should read it: link removed This post really got me through a lot and hope it helps you. Good Luck!!!
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