Shainer

Well i work alot...and when i have time off i find myself just chilln around my house maybe talk to some friends and whatnot...alot of time online...ive tryed going out and meeting people but its just not the same...i wana try and get her back but i dont think thats possible so ive been trying to just get over it..i dont know

well i posted along time ago about this issue...i believe it was right after me and my ex separated...but my problem is still here..let me tell you what my problem is and please give me any advice that you personally would try i am open for any thing at this time....Well about 7 months ago my ex and i separated after beiong together for 3 1/2 years, i figured i would be able to get over her and heal fine, but these past 7 months have been pure HELL for me its like every wakeing moment something reminds me of her or for some reason my mind just wonders into thoughts about her i dont know where they come from but out of nowhere i will just start thinking about her and that brings pain to me lots of pain....i tryed contacting her and we talked for sometime i asked if possibly she would like to get together sometime but she just replys saying that shes to busy haveing to work everyday and whatnot so i have just been playing it cool i guess lately and i havent made any contact with her just trying to getover this ex-relationship completely but its much harder then i ever thought it would be....Someone please give me some advice on how to conquer this i understand that its natural to think about an ex but how do you forget one.....if you have msn messanger i would love to talk on there about this my contact is email removed or just respond on here....

well i posted along time ago about this issue...i believe it was right after me and my ex separated...but my problem is still here..let me tell you what my problem is and please give me any advice that you personally would try i am open for any thing at this time....Well about 7 months ago my ex and i separated after beiong together for 3 1/2 years, i figured i would be able to get over her and heal fine, but these past 7 months have been pure HELL for me its like every wakeing moment something reminds me of her or for some reason my mind just wonders into thoughts about her i dont know where they come from but out of nowhere i will just start thinking about her and that brings pain to me lots of pain....i tryed contacting her and we talked for sometime i asked if possibly she would like to get together sometime but she just replys saying that shes to busy haveing to work everyday and whatnot so i have just been playing it cool i guess lately and i havent made any contact with her just trying to getover this ex-relationship completely but its much harder then i ever thought it would be....Someone please give me some advice on how to conquer this i understand that its natural to think about an ex but how do you forget one.....if you have msn messanger i would love to talk on there about this my contact is email removed or just respond on here....

Mahlina Thank you so much for your advice and i guess i do need time to heal..Im just so dumbfounded on how this is happening like this. How long does it take for the heart to heal? And how can i get her off my mind? I dont want to call her and bug her but i think about her so much.

mahlina do you think that there is any chance that we will get back together..or do you believe that it is probally over for good?

Hi i am 18 years old and i have been going steady with a girl that i met when i was 15..so we have been together for 3 years.. About 2 months ago it all started to get bad we didnt talk as much i knew something was gonna happen so i just waited for it to come.(Now i dont know why i just waited,,im an idiot) so we finally separated about 4 weeks ago she told me she needed her space..she wants to be free..she used to tell me she loved me almost every chance she got..ive tryed to obey the no contact rule but the longest i have lasted was 2 days then i end up calling her she talks to me but not for as long as it used to be..sometimes i go over and hang out with her but always before i leave she gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek....and the phone calls went from 30 minutes of talking or so down to 5 if im lucky..I need some advice or something i just want her back i feel so incomplete..people tell me im only 18 i can find a new girl but i dont want a new one i want my girl back. I would like it if someone could pretty much give me a strategy or something to try to get my love back.....