JGsGirl

You need to be honest with your dad and tell him the truth, maybe you need help with the drinking and the drugs becase being in that condition is WRONG and needless. I would be honest with him and tell him the truth- there is always DNA testing. I really don't think you should have an abortion and if you trully feel that is the best way to go, than you should still even tell your dad... to be there for moral support! LEARN FROM THIS PLEASE AND DON'T MAKE ANOTHER MISTAKE LIKE THIS -be good

I am not a guy but I understand how you feel sister! When I was younger I used to do that, and come to think of it I do it still now with my husband! I am 25 and when I am at work I think about how he held me or how he kissed me and I smile at the memory of it! Your not alone on the girl aspect anyway! - :silly:

I think the best thing for you to do is just try to hang out with her when you know he won't be around, or even better would be to ask her out on a date or ask her to go over to your place and hang. If you really want to talk to the guy though, that might make him feel REALLY uncomfortable to be around you two from that point on. Like I said if you feel you really need to talk to him about it than you should say more like a friend than of someone who is annoyed. -Good luck!

i agree with both these replies for you- i also could have written your post at your age... don't stress over it... guys your age aren't as mature as girls are... give it time enjoy hanging with your friends... you'll have PLENTY of time to cry and wollow in a pint of ice cream or a box of cookies later in life.... that's what growing up is all about.... good luck and you will knock a guy off his rocker when the right time comes- \

well, i think from the START of her last period it's fourteen days later that she is most fertile... although some girls/women ovulate sooner or later than that 14 day window. I also believe that sperm can live up to 48 hours and women only ovulate and are able to conceive only 24 hours in a month- i know it's amazing! (me and my husband are trying have a baby and we count days and all that jazz- so i have talked to my doctor and researched all this)..... It takes about two weeks for a urine test to be accurate enough to give a yes or no answer. your cousin really needs to be careful when having sex unless she wants to have a kid- which is really hard work! sometimes it happens and circumstances and fate bite you in the ass sometimes, but everytime should be protected and be done safely..... if shedoes get lucky, and is not pregnant, have her remember how scared she was this time and if she want to feel this way again.... good luck to you and your cousin.... also if you want some more info. go online and do some research.... ciao!

i think your mom is right she knows what is best for you and you need to listen to her... go with the flow, if he is going to sign the birth certificate than he has to see the baby and pay support for the child.... good luck and don't stress too much, it's not good for the baby...

Hi- I know I am a little late with this, but I felt like writing to you.... I lost my virginity at 15, not because I really wanted to, but because I felt well HE wants too why not. BIG mistake. I regret it to this day and I am 25!!! I wish I would have waited. You can't make that important of a decision because everyone else is "doing it"! It's a decision that you have to make for yourself and no one else..... If you really love this girl and she loves you than it won't hurt to wait. If she can't wait than she doesn't care for you as much as you think or she tells you she does..... Good luck and if you do decide BE CAREFUL.... remember the only fool proof way from staying away from pregnancy and STD's is not having sex at all.

Hi- don't fret. It is true.. Babies get used to a particular surrounding and if they are one they don't recognize than they can get fussy. My neice was that way- she was so used to being at my mother in laws house, when she went home to her own house- she was very fussy and wouldn't eat as good as she usually did. It will take some time for her to get used to it. Change can bother some babies and not others- it depends on the child. Good luck and hang in there!

I don't understand how he CAN'T know! If you are due in October than you were like 8 months when you posted that message and YOU had just found out! Does he not notice your belly? Didn't you know!? I don't understand that one at all! Anynway you need to tell him and be honest with him and yourself..... Good luck

First, you should have thought about the affect the "sexual" part of your relationship would affect your friend part of the relationship before you slept with him, knowing he was a virgin. I think honestly, if you two are as close and open as you say you are than you should be honest with him and tell him your feelings and your concerns... Seems to me if this goes on your eventually going to push him away, if you don't open up and tell him how you feel.... Does that make sense? Just stay true to your heart and things will fall into place.... Good luck!

I lost someone very close to me that day and it is very hard to get through the day without him, he was my uncle, almost a father to me. Everyday that passes is another day without him and it hurts more and more.... people say time heals all wounds... not for me and my family. He has three beautiful children who have to think and go through life everyday with the thought of the horrible way their father was taken from them. They have to deal everyday with remembering the last time they saw him. He has a beautiful wife who has the knowledge that her husband was alive when the building fell and how horrific it must have been for him. All of us think that everyday, and it makes it so hard, because we only got pieces of him back (only two to be exact) and it was horrible having to say goodbye that way. It's nice that people remember and pray for the lost souls and the families... You always see something horrible on television and you think thank God it wasn't us or my family and then with a blink of an eye it IS your family and it like living in a dream, I expect everyday to wake up and get a call from him to check on me.... Or to call the house and have him answer and complain because I interrupted him Giants game.... Our lives will never be the same.... and that just hurts so horribly....

First I would like to say that I am glad you are having second thoughts... I broke off an engagement two weeks before the wedding. I hurt alot of people, myself included, but in the end it's YOUR life and not your families. Will they be disappointed? Probably, but there your family and they will get over it! You have got to make the decision for yourself... I am glad he treats you good and you get along, than there is NO harm in postponing this wedding for a while.... GOOD LUCK and follow YOUR heart no one elses, cause in the end it's your happiness....

Well, I am not a crazy teenager..... I in my twenties and married.... me and my husband are trying to have a baby, that's what i ment by over react (get my hopes up).... but i took a pregnancy test last night and it came out negative.... thanks for all your replies....

Okay- I think I might be pregnant but don't want to over react. My breasts are SOOOO sore and tender, even to put a bra on! I have white- almost milky discharge and have been extremely tired lately. As far as the tiredness goes, I haven't been sleeping well lately- so that could be a reason for that...... I have had to pee more than normal lately as well, but I'm not sure if it's my head playing tricks on me... I have also been really constipated... All this stared only a few days ago (2 or 3 at the most) Is it possible?