Sounds just like me..I am in the same shoes as you..I am 29 and I am not to attractive either (4.9 on hotornot)..I am a fun guy, whos outgoing, caring and nice, athletic, and fun to be with and still I never had a gf yet or even dated yet..worst thing of all I haven't kissed a girl yet..grrrrrrr...I know the feeling..I just have the feeling inside that I was born and to die single.