Mark1016 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Why are women so afraid of it, until they try it? Link to comment
rocio Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Have you ever had something shoved up there? Would you be nervous to try it? Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Why do men always think they can speak about women as though they're one entity with one mind. That said, I only give, so I could be bias... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 I believe that some women are scared because they fear the unknown and they may have some misconceptions about it, which may or may not be true. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 I'm not AFRAID of it, just a little nervous. We've talked about it and we're gonna try it soon, but neither of us have ever done it before. I've got kind of the same nervousness that I did before I had sex for the first time. Link to comment
Ash Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 I think the inital post is a big generalization. A lot of women think it will hurt. Either somebody has tried and been too forceful, or they've read something or talked to somebody that has said that. It doesn't and shouldn't when approached in the correct way. Other's think it's not a proper thing to do. Some get a lot of pleasure from it once they discover it, others don't get the same out of it. There are also those who just aren't comfortable with it at all and either can't see the point, or simply don't enjoy it at all. Link to comment
flower99 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Have you ever had something shoved up there? Would you be nervous to try it? I laughed.....lol well said......This sums it up perfectly.... Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Why is it okay for guys wanting girls to try anal but if a girl brings it up to a guy, it makes the guy gay and the girl is a freak for bringing it up? The worlds view on things and double standards are so ridiculous! Link to comment
shikashika Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 what kind of blanket statement is that??? just like asking"Why don't women like sex?" Many women like anal sex.. I find as they get older they like it even more! Link to comment
zerohalo Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Why is it okay for guys wanting girls to try anal but if a girl brings it up to a guy, it makes the guy gay and the girl is a freak for bringing it up? The worlds view on things and double standards are so ridiculous! There is far more social stigma for a man wanting to have that done to him. I'm not saying it's right, but that is how it is. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 There is far more social stigma for a man wanting to have that done to him. I'm not saying it's right, but that is how it is. That was the whole point of my post.. Link to comment
zerohalo Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Indeed! And if I wasn't working, I would have developed my reading skills and noticed the final line to your post. I also agree with you, it's a bad double standard that hurts both sexes. Link to comment
Dako Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Women are afraid of anal sex? Don't you read this forum? I've read some long graphic DIY instructions here by women for women. Link to comment
shikashika Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Why is it okay for guys wanting girls to try anal but if a girl brings it up to a guy, it makes the guy gay and the girl is a freak for bringing it up? The worlds view on things and double standards are so ridiculous! Exactly!!!!!! all guys want to do it to me... When I say "so I brought a strap on with me today......." they have a 'headache' or need to 'dry thier hair' Link to comment
bulls03 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 personally i wish i could comfortable ask my gf to try anal play with me recieving, but i feel she would be freaked out or thought i was gay when really thats not the case Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Have you ever had something shoved up there? Would you be nervous to try it? LOL...good one hazey. As with anything dealing with sex....some are going to like it and others wont. Some women find it better then vag sex...then there are those who wont even consider it. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 See that's the thing MANY men would love "anal play" but if they ever admitted it to the world they would be labeled as "gay" and theyre partner will freak out over it. I think its stupid, as I stated in my previous post the double standards for guys adn girls are just crazy. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 My problem with anal sex w/my bf is he is extremely "blessed" and it would take a few alcoholic drinks for me to allow it to happen just because I dont feel comfortable with it and am afraid of tensing up and actually hurting myself. Link to comment
treefrogkate Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 ... I was trying not to be offended, but seriously, generalizations like this really make me angry. "There are billions of women out there, but let's lump half the world's population into one neat little category: Scared of Anal." For the record, I was the one who wanted to try it first in my first sexual relationship, and I am the one who has brought it up to my boyfriend now, and he is not really that interested in trying it. Maybe if you stopped putting labels on people you might find someone who didn't live up to your preconceived notion? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 Treefrogkate, It's narrowminded people like the original poster that make my original statement true.. People like him who generalize and make things seem a certain way is whats wrong with the world today. Link to comment
treefrogkate Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 Yup. I know it's hard not to have any preconceived opinions whatsoever, but if people would just try to take each individual at face value and not try to label them or worry about what's "normal"... well, we'd all just be a lot happier. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 For those afraid of anal sex, but still curious enough to perhaps try it some day, I would highly recommend that you first allow your partner to finger you up there, so you are able to get "the feeling" of it. I for one was shocked by how darn good it felt, though still somewhat distressed by the fact that my boyfriend's finger was up my butt. Link to comment
nnjlon2 Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 For those afraid of anal sex, but still curious enough to perhaps try it some day, I would highly recommend that you first allow your partner to finger you up there, so you are able to get "the feeling" of it. I for one was shocked by how darn good it felt, though still somewhat distressed by the fact that my boyfriend's finger was up my butt. as the red queen said, if you start slow with the fingers and gradually incease the depth and how many you will be more prepared for the actual enjoyment Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 I for one was shocked by how darn good it felt, though still somewhat distressed by the fact that my boyfriend's finger was up my butt. You said it girl. Link to comment
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