SB2234 Posted May 23, 2017 Share Posted May 23, 2017 I have been dating this guy for a few months and we have so much in common and seem to have the same values. In his photos online he looks much more attractive but has put on a lot of weight since then. He also doesn't take much pride in his appearance. I have tried to see past this as we are a good match pretty much in everything else. I've noticed I feel embarrassed to be seen with him and I think (however vain this sounds) that perhaps physical attraction is more important to me than I thought. If he lost some weight he would look much better, let alone be much healthier. Is this something you can say to someone you have dated a few months? And if so how would you phrase it? The alternative is to just finish things. Link to comment
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