Broomwood Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Hello, here's a question about another guy. I am thinking of contacting him, but don't understand why he hasn't talked to me again. We went out three times, and while we really liked each other, each time there was misunderstanding of some sort. The first time he didn't focus his attention on me too much, and I didn't find this enchanting. He is one of these very handsome, tall and very successful guys who is also a bit arrogant. That said, the date was fun. He misunderstood me then, and thought I didn't like him. While I liked him, but thought that he didn't like me. Classic. Anyways, we resolved it, and went out the second time. It was climbing, and we had lots of fun. Again, he didn't focus his attention on me too much, and didn't ask me any personal questions which I found quite annoying because I liked him. After it, he kept in touch texting me and asking for a third date. Amidst all the banter which we usually have a lot, I said that only if he showed me that he wanted to get to know me as person, and that he asked me questions about myself. He agreed. Already in texts he started showing more interest and asking more questions about myself, which I welcomed and said that I appreciated it. We went out the third time. It was better this time and he did ask me questions about myself, and was interested to find out about my life. Great. We had a very deep conversation about his life goals. At the end, he grabbed my hands and held them. I was feeling shy. He, "Look me in the eyes. Are you comfortable?" Me, "Getting there". He, "Good". We went off to take the tube home. On the tube only talked current events and politics. At my station he asked if he can walk me home. I said that he can. On the way to mine we continued talking current events. By my front porch he gave me two big kisses on the cheeks and briskly walked off without saying anything. We did give kisses on the cheeks in the past, but those were air kisses, while these were real kisses. The next day he texted me phone number of a tennis coach I had asked him for, and we exchanged our plans for that weekend. As I was going to a dance performance, he wished me fun. And that was it. I haven't heard back from him. As I was busy dating another guy, I didn't think too much of why this one isn't talking to me. But now as things aren't working out with the other guy, I am thinking that I should perhaps contact this one. But I don't understand why he hasn't got back to me as he obviously liked me. What do you guys think? And what to tell him. Link to comment
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