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No, if they were in long-term relationships...yes, if they racked up numbers because of casual sex. For me it has to do with the value they placed on physical intimacy..if they saw it as a loving act then I wouldn't have a problem..if they saw it as sport and entertainment to be had with just anyone then that would turn me off.

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Umm...I have alot of experience in the bedroom, so finding someone who was equal to myself was awesome!! I've been with several partners who are not as "adventurous" as I am and I was bored. My bf is as experienced as I am, but in different areas, so we have ALOT of fun!!

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yes.....i have a need to win

 

I also used to have that feeling and am trying get over that type of view towards sex. I feel this need to have more experience or at least equal experience. It's weird (insecure) and I hate it!

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No, if they were in long-term relationships...yes, if they racked up numbers because of casual sex. For me it has to do with the value they placed on physical intimacy..if they saw it as a loving act then I wouldn't have a problem..if they saw it as sport and entertainment to be had with just anyone then that would turn me off.

 

I share the exact same opinion as you.

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Not even, all my exes have been. well, not all of them, but I kind've find it a turn on...and I lost my virginity to an experienced partner, and she found it really cute/sweet I was giving my virginity to her.

 

lol, what's the deal with virginity? it's not that big of a deal anyways...

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Not even, all my exes have been. well, not all of them, but I kind've find it a turn on...and I lost my virginity to an experienced partner, and she found it really cute/sweet I was giving my virginity to her.

 

lol, what's the deal with virginity? it's not that big of a deal anyways...

 

it's the myth that you were their first and the person will remember you forever. it's also like a badge of valor to some people saying like 'yeah, i'm so cool i took their virginity.'

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Not even, all my exes have been. well, not all of them, but I kind've find it a turn on...and I lost my virginity to an experienced partner, and she found it really cute/sweet I was giving my virginity to her.

 

lol, what's the deal with virginity? it's not that big of a deal anyways...

 

You mean being a virgin is no big deal or losing your virginity is no big deal? I have respect for people who can keep their virginity past 15 or 16. There is so much pressure out there to lose it, and I feel like those who wait until they are ready are strong willed individuals which is totally attractive.

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You mean being a virgin is no big deal or losing your virginity is no big deal? I have respect for people who can keep their virginity past 15 or 16. There is so much pressure out there to lose it, and I feel like those who wait until they are ready are strong willed individuals which is totally attractive.

 

I meant that it's not that big of a deal to keep it until marriage. I don't think it's important to keep it that long, I just think it's important to lose it to someone you love, which I didn't do. I wish I did, although I had wished I waited a bit longer.

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No, if they were in long-term relationships...yes, if they racked up numbers because of casual sex. For me it has to do with the value they placed on physical intimacy..if they saw it as a loving act then I wouldn't have a problem..if they saw it as sport and entertainment to be had with just anyone then that would turn me off.

I think the same.

 

if my SO was more experianced than me, hell yea it would bother me cause ive been around the block in my day. I have set standards for how many men a woman i date has been with. call it double standard but its my standard.

 

lol, I am curious what that number is!

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Would you be bothered if you found out your SO was significantly more experienced than you? If so why?

 

I'd just be a bit bothered b.c I'd picture him having hot sex in all kinds of scenario's with a bunch of women.

It wouldn't bother me too long.. Plus it would explain why he's been the only one to give me an O. Lol.

 

 

Bottomline: thank god he keeps his past to himself. I'd just rather not know.

 

 

With one of my ex's, I knew and he told me about how experienced he was. At that time I was not. I'd never had a LTR and had only slept a few times with a few guys. Hadn't tried out many positions and places either.

It made me extra self conscious to try out new positions since I felt like SUCH a novice. JUst totally clueless and him being so experienced made me shy away even more.

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It doesn't bother me if I am more experienced or he is...

 

It's a really valid point about not wanting to know, I told this to my mother and it stuck with me in my relationships.."don't ask questions you can't handle the answer to"...

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I'd probably have a problem with it if she had a couple hundred under her belt.

 

That's quite a difference. Like 200 to 0.

 

 

I wouldn't mind having someone teach me some things...but........I don't have to be taught eveything in a couple of hours. haha

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