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waveseer

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  1. I had a dream about you last night (or maybe it was this morning). Anyway, what I remember most was what you said when you were speaking directly from your heart. You said about our former relationship, "I was playing with you and I was not playing with you." I understand how that could be the truth as you see it, but I see it differently and always will. You were playing with me and I will never trust you again.
  2. No problem, print is a tough medium for communication nuance. I agree that it may take anyone time to make such an important life changing decision. Where I diverge in my opinion is that the majority of the time it takes should be spent alone rather than in discussions with the partner in question.
  3. The comment that you found offensive I was merely pointing out that a world filled with only womens brains would be highly emotionally driven at least some of the time and I would find that disturbing. What is it about an opinion you disagree with that makes it offensive? I have no problem leaving the "hard time making lifetime decisions" men to other women. Then again, I have no need to marry. The way I see it no matter what his concerns were he'd be sharing them with me along the way. That's what good communication is all about. It's not us and them its us and what goals we wish to reach in our lives and with whom we wish to reach them. Again, how is my opinion wrong or shortsighted or insulting simply because it differs from yours and the authors. I do agree that men and women generally process things differently and viva la difference!
  4. I didn't understand the premise the same way you did. The commitment I read was about having a solid relationship and being able to count on each other not a lifetime commitment. Even so, I would hope any partner of mine would know themselves and me well enough for it not to take weeks and weeks of being apart to decide. In my little world it shouldn't take longer than a few days of solitude to search one's heart and mind leading to a clear decision.
  5. I have no problem agreeing to disagree. I don't believe disagreeing insults anyone's intelligence, if anything it's a compliment because it means I think they can handle a dissenting opinion.
  6. I, for one, am very happy that we all don't have female brains! I shudder to think what that would be like. lol On the other hand, if it takes weeks of separation for someone to know they want to be with you then wouldn't you surmise that they are just avoiding being alone?
  7. When I read the opening post I had to laugh, no offense to anyone intended. Why would I wait for a man to decide if I am worth committing to? I wouldn't, and I wouldn't expect a man to wait for me either. If he did I would think he was a fool, and if I did I expect he would think the same. Once it's over the concept of loyalty is null and void.
  8. you know the woman I mean the one who wanted to hold you listen to your heart beat with her ear on your chest she boldly showed herself to you reserving no thought nor feeling confiding her secrets softly sharing thoughts unfiltered you explored yourselves together learning yearnings previously unknown without judgment or self-consciousness opening hidden doors in dark corridors then the sun rose so fast both were blinded by the midday light confusion abounded and grew like night creatures both scurried away there is no use for her now self discovery sucks without you so find her on your doorstep keep her, she belongs to you
  9. when it comes to living in today..I do my best when I feel tired, sick and lonely..I do my best when progress is barely perceptible..I do my best when I'm on top of the world..I do my best when there's a need I can fulfill..I do my best when I'm feeling surrounded by adversity..I do my best when good fortune smiles upon me..I do my best when I'm feeling good for nothing..I do my best when my positive energy is soaring..I do my best when I don't know where I am..I do my best when I am inspired and confident..I do my best when the day is dreary and gray..I do my best when everything goes wrong..I do my best when I wonder what to do..I do my best when I question my choices..I remember I've done my best
  10. How beautifully melancholy, thank you for sharing.
  11. Thanks, Capricorn! Part of me feels like I had to heal so I could write this poem. lol
  12. Thanks, little buttercup, I like your name!
  13. Thank you, trezz, I think I can feel some of my rougher edges being smoothed like a rock in the river of life.
  14. We search our broken hearts We search our broken minds We finally search the internet And it's ena we find We read and read In wonderment we stare and stare We hardly believe there's a place like this Could it be true that people care? The pressure builds inside us We wonder what to do We want to heal our wounds Will they care for me too? At last the pain increases To be greater than the fear And we pour out our hearts Hoping someone will be here A response or two is all it takes To make us feel renewed Each person that relates Lifts our spirits and our mood We swear our case is different Our love was like no other We'll feel this way for good We're sure we can't recover Encouragement is offered We're sure no difference will it make We accept it when we can Our hearts feel skewered with a stake We do everything we can think of To convince ourselves there's hope Of reconciling with our exes Beyond every shadow of a doubt We try all sorts of tactics None of which will work We bargain, pray, and stay away Hoping for a miracle At last we admit we're beaten Things didn't turn out as we wished Ready to begin recovering Exhausted from exerting our last ditch We want to feel better We want to feel well We want to be happy But uncertain that we will We take the NC challenge We fight it tooth and nail We wrestle with our demons Locking ourselves in personal jail Now we start contributing To others and their needs We reach out to the newcomers And feel our spirits rise One day when we're not looking An ex-free hour of thought goes by Did that really just happen to me? I may just be all right! And so it goes on ena Round and round and round Do stop in when your happy Let your cheer abound Remember when you're well again That you were once so sad And bring to us your method Honoring us with hope freely shared
  15. Thanks, I'm getting very weary and need to sleep soon.
  16. To all those who are hurting, tomorrow will be here soon Bringing with it the possibilities of a whole new day To all those who are lonely, here we have each other No longer struggling by ourselves but helping and growing To all those who are tired, peaceful slumber in a warm bed So when you awaken you'll be face the day refreshed To all those who are feeling ill, be well or better Someone cares about your affliction and hopes you'll be alright To all those who are happy, store this memory away For the times you need to use it to brighten a bad day To all those who are present, thanks for stopping in I send you each my warmest smile and hug, goodnight
  17. It does help me heal, very much I think. Sometimes I am releasing emotion, sometimes it's a chronicle, and others a memory. They just ooze out as I type them. I've learned not to edit, merely submit. lol
  18. You're welcome, Spondence, once I got over my fear of criticism and started posting poems as they come life got better for me.
  19. Thanks, CrazyAD, I'm so glad someone else enjoys the stuff that spills out of my head. lol
  20. At the rate you are healing there won't be a great number of miserable years in your future. A great deal changes when you get out on your own and finish school. You will gain so much control over your own life and you will be able to do as you wish.
  21. Because you have come this far and I know you didn't endure and overcome everything you have just to lay down, give up, and die now.
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