Dev007 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Hello everyone. I feel like it is time for me to move on and at the very least get a couple of dates. I am only 21 (july 2) and nature and heredity has been very cruel to me. I am balding pretty bad right on top of my head The hair grows everywhere else (back, shoulders, chest) but not on top . I have been exercising a lot so at least I look athletic. When I had hair I was told I was cute by some people. So I must be at least average looking. If you saw a balding guy at a beach or party, would you even be interested or would you keep looking? The reason I am asking is because I am considering buying generic propecia (hair regrowth pills) It is a big investment for my college budget. Thank you Link to comment
Thunderforce Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Depends ... Bold men can be very sexy!!! Don't hide boldness though with comb-overs, or pulling your hair to the front. Best you can do when you are getting bold is to shave it very short. I've had one bold boyfriend who shaved his hair. I thought it was very sexy! Link to comment
Dev007 Posted June 3, 2007 Author Share Posted June 3, 2007 HMMMM shaving it short, that is interesting. I never really thought about that. My hair, the hair I have, is really poofy so that might help. Then when the propecia kicks in I can grow it back and style it. Thanks for the idea thunderforce. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I really dont care either way my bf started balding at 18 It wouldnt bother me at all and being bald on top, with a hairy chest (omg sexy!!!! -sigh-) means you have lots of testosterone... manly Link to comment
Portage Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 yes, i agree. The shorter the better when one is balding. i love the look of a clean cut guy. If it is short, neat, military rugged...no worries I know many women who love the look of no hair, you have no worries, just go with it. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Shave it off - veeeeeeeeeeeeery sexy!! Frankly, in a relationship I want to be the one with the pretty hair. The guy can have short, shaved, bald whatever!! Just be in good shape, good skin, clean, smell god, and hair is not relevant at all!! Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 here is another vote for "bald is sexy!" cut it short, go bald on your own terms Link to comment
mademoiselle Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Bold can be hot, but be careful. I mean, if you have a weird shaped head, you might end up looking a bit funny. Ask friends how they'd think you'd look bald or with ultra short hair. But generally, speaking, no. Balding isn't really a turn off because once girls get to know you, looks whether good or bad tend to disappear anyway. Link to comment
Ixtapa Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Well...that's not going to help you much but I think it really depends on the person. Some guys just look really sexy with a bald/shaved head and some do not Im thinking it has more to do with confidence and the way you carry yourself. Same thing with being a bit overweight, too skinny...or whatever else, as long as you feel good about the way you look and don't consider those little things as being "flaws", it won't really matter and you will look attractive to others I think Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Avoid combover at all costs YESSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
sooky Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 i'm in agreement! sexy shaved heads...! (also you share my birthday! happy 21st!) xx Link to comment
Brooke657 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I personally wouldn't go for balding but I would go for bald. If I saw a guy that was balding I would just assume he's older then he looks..that's the only reason. Link to comment
kellbell Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Hey there, My sweetie has a bald spot on the back of his head, not completely bald but thinning out. And he has a receeding hair line. He is so sweet, adorable, I have no issues with it. We met via online and the first picture he sent me, I was smitten from the start. I had no idea about his hair issues. When I met him in person, it made no difference. Heridity is cruel to him too. Link to comment
Dev007 Posted June 3, 2007 Author Share Posted June 3, 2007 Awsome. I am suddenly not so worried about it. Next time I get it cut I will just go really short. I definetly avoid the combover for sure. Thanks everyone! I will be sure to have an extra drink for you sooky Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Many men shave their heads completely. They would not be doing it if women found it repulsive. Let the logic follow......... Link to comment
JadedStar Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 I would suggest cutting it very close, very short. Maybe military style. If you think you could go bald, do it. But note not every many can wear complete bald well. That said, to me I would not mind a man with thinning hair if he were attractive and his personality was a match for mine. I am not superficial in regards to looks tho, not at all. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 buddy of mine has this problem. he shaves his head all the time now. u can't see the bald anymore. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 tip from my bf... dont shave your head in the shower, little bits of hair get stuck in your crotch and itch all day Link to comment
Dev007 Posted June 5, 2007 Author Share Posted June 5, 2007 HAHA Eva that's funny. I went really short. I got a 3 all over (that is military length) Going to wear it short for a few days see what people think. I will keep you guys posted especially if I decide to shave it completely. I think I look a lot better though without that stringy-thinning hair. Thanks for the advice everyone Link to comment
jengh Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I personally wouldn't go for balding but I would go for bald. If I saw a guy that was balding I would just assume he's older then he looks..that's the only reason. yes, i am in complete agreement. If a balding man were to persue me and i knew NOTHING about him, I'd assume he was much older... however, if his head was shaved, i'd be more apt to go for it. Of course, if I had known the guy previously, knew his age, etc... a little balding wouldn't bother me, though my PREFERENCE would be that he just shaved or buzzed the rest. Link to comment
CreedBratton Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 I usually dont notice bald dudes, not as much as a moutachiod woman anyway, for me .... I mean I keep my head shaved anyway ..... less work in the morning and loads cheaper on shampoo. Link to comment
psychoanalytical Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Hair, how important is it? Not that important at all. As long you're not ashamed and don't try to hide it. Honestly man if u exclude the superficial girls that do care, 85% of girls would not really care as long as you keep the rest of your hair short - no. 2 at the most. And I don't think the 15% of girls that do care would be much hotter than the rest. I think it matters more how much you have going for you... career, success, money, friends, intellegence, personality, etc etc. If you ace all the other categories you wouldn't even be making this post in my opinion. Link to comment
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