ChrisYellowV6Stang

ok how about this? no more blowjobs till he goes down on you.

the first time i did it i hated it. however it seems that everyone hated it their first time, lol. It's an acquired taste, I think. lol. Some guys don't do it, probably because they're just in it to get laid. However, I like to do it beforehand, just gets me hornier. She likes it too. lol.

I really have a problem with this statement. If it really could work betwen you two, that would be because he loves you. It wouldnt matter if you SUCKED at giving blowjobs or not! When me and my girlfriend got together, neither of us were able to do stuff very well, however I had at least done it a couple times before. She never had. If he really likes you, he'll get used to it. It took her a good 6 months, really even longer, before she got reallllly good at it. just go really fast over the head and he'll be happy. lol.

Okay, this is how it works. When a baby is in the woumb, before the sex is determined, the genetailia is the same. You have a bunch of cells which are very highly sensetive, two gonads, and a bunch of extra skin. If you are a male, the sensetive skin becomes the head of the penis, the extra skin is the penis, the gonads are the testicles if you are a female the gonands are your ovaries, the extra skin is the vaginal walls, and the sensetive skin is your clitoris. this extends back in your body, and into the vaginal wall. this is your "gspot." some girls' "gspots" do not develop fully, thereforeeee they don't get much pleasure out of this. To answer your question. The Gspot is on the upper part of the inner vaiginal wall. This is how girls may reach an orgasm during sexual intercourse. However, many girls really physically can't reach sexual orgasm during intercourse, because of the fact the clitoris is not developed into the vaginal wall fully. If she does, it's from clitorial stimulation. Don't get me wrong, there are a bunch of nerve endings in the vaginal walls, just as there are a bunch of nerve endings in the skin on the shaft of the penis. it's just that they aren't linked to the sexual stimulation. Thats why a lot of girls prefer masturbation by strictly clitorial stimulation. Whew...I actually remembered something from biology class! lol. I've also looked into this, because I had done research on how to please my girlfriend and I wanted to know what all I needed to do.

I like it because it's usually one of the first sexual things that is done between the two, and it makes the guy feel great that she's lettin him do this, but personally I like it because basically I feel more of a man for every orgasm I can give my girlfriend.

well if you're sweaty, if you have a big puddle of cum on the floor..thats a DEAD giveaway. lol. usually sweaty, flushed faces. Just wait till everyone else is asleep, or try the shower, if you're worried about getting walked in on. However you can always say you just got done running a marathon, also

If i'm on top, i like it when she grabbs my ass to pull me closer to her. if shes on top, playing with her nipples, clit, whatever. I enjoy seein that stuff. i think most guys do. thats why porno sites do so well.

me and my girlfriend both started having sex about 7 months ago, both of us virgins b4hand. anyway it hurt her, of couse, the first month or so, but recently it's just goten to start hurting more...and after we have sex it really hurts her...and i know shes wet enough...trust me i know ...lol...but anyone have ideas?

mar has some very good points. Also it may just be that he feels like he's trying to push you into stuff...which is how I am. My girlfriend has had to initiate EVERYTHING we've done (at least the first time, some other times since then also), just because I dont want her to feel like i'm pressuring her. If you kiss him he may jump on the opportunity like a starving dog on a fresh steak, so to speak, lol. Good luck.

I haven't really read all the replies cuz im tired tonight, but you can try getting a couple things from adult stores, depending on how old you are. Try Chinese Nympho Cream....it makes her very sensetive down there. Also try nippilicious if her nipples are sensetive..does pretty much the same thing but to her nipples. My girlfriend loves them both. Hope it helps.

haha emotional...good stuff. I say the wetter my girlfriend gets, the better she tastes It also lets me konw i'm tuning her on and shes in the mood and all. The only thing where it could be TOO wet is you do want SOME friction when you're rubbing her clit, so you may want to take a lick to get some juices off. Good luck.

I don't know what to think...me and my girlfriend of 1 year on march 15th just decided to "take a break" because of trust issues...I love her with all my heart, and I know she feels the same for me...I had told her many times that if I didn't love her as much as I really do, then I would have broken up with her many times, and I had considered breaks but they never really seemed to do any good in my mind..but she brought up the idea maybe we'd miss each other more if we did take one...and i'm just wondering what is everybody's experience on this? Any ideas? She's planning on coming down tomorrow night after I get out of driving school to take me back home with her for the night...but wouldnt that sort of defeat the entire purpose of taking a break???????

What I did for our 6 month was I took her to a resturaunt she enjoyed, but we were serious enough to also give her a promise ring. I went down to the flower store ...got a dozen red roses adn a box of rose pedals. Sprinkled them all over my bed, and put the roses at the top of it with the ring. Honestly, I suck (along with most other guys) at getting ideas. Our 1 year is coming up soon...does anybody hav any good ideas for a year anniversary? She didn't seem to mind me spending that much money on her, lol. But yeah...depending on where you live you could take her down on a dock/fishing area...beach...if you're in a mountainous region you could go up on a mountain overlooking the city...(i've always wanted that...screw u florida!) Hope this helps. -Chris

If you are "seriously in love" with each other, then bringing up a conversation about trust won't cut your relationship at the achilles tendon, i.e. it wont collapse. You will have to decide what flirtng is for yourself and the level you will tolerate. Yeah you dont want to go full frontal and say exactly what you're wondering....how old are you two by the way? I really don't have any more ideas, but my girlfriend will be here in about 15-30 mins so i'll get her opinion on the subject.

I agree with bamster and dikaia. You really need to move on, buddy. I know that's easier said than done, but really...think if you really want to be with a girl who would blow off someone she "loves" for some idiot prick she met one night? I wouldn't even want to be with someone who would blow away 3 years on that. Trust me man, you seem like a good guy. There's girls out there that eventually would love a guy like you. I say eventually, because..well i dont know how old you are...but in high school and early college MOST of them are only interested in drinking, partying, and sex. However there are a few out there if you look hard enough. My good friend recently went through a situation like this...let his room mate stay with his girlfriend for a week while he went home because they got kicked out of their apt..then they hooked up. They were together for 5 years. I'm telling you the same thing I told him, you don't want to waste your time on someone like that. And just like him, i'm sure you wont agree with me now. He's gotten over her, gone out dating. I'm sure you will too. I wish you the best. -Chris