Hi everyone. Me and my b/f have been going out for 3 weeks, and he wants to make out with me... however, he told me that he HATES making the first move. Now, Im not shy, on the contrary, Im VERY open... I was thinking we coud walk on this pretty courtyard I know and just go for it.. lol but i was wondering how you lead up to a kiss... I mean, do you say anything to them, like anything nice or catching, or do you just kind of go for it?! thanx! Also, I've heard 2 different stories bout frenh kissing. One says you should basically jam your tongue down a persons throat and the other says you should BARRRELY touch your tongue! umm.. which one is correct?! Thanx you guys.. also, im kinda in a situation here where I kinda need specific answers.. i mean, not that I dont appreciate the "juss go with the flow" answers... but I kinda am lookin for somtin else here! THANX!