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omg! You guys are really funny!! But I will tell you the best way to get a girl to talk to you. Really, just talk to her like you dont really care about getting into her pants (saying all of the above pick-up lines makes it sound like that)! Just say, hey how are ya? And look to see if she has or is wearing something you can talk about. Like a bag from a store. Say, hey do you like {whatever store}? And just go from there. Talk to her like you do kinda know her already. Then you can start asking the more persnoal questions like what school does she go to, does she live in town, anything!! By the end of the conversation, you will get the feeling if you have a chances or not. Then ask her if she has a e*mail addy or even try for the cell phone number. Just dont act like a complete idiot #-o and you'll do fine...hope this helps ya out!!

Hey! Dont worry, your not the only one that had gone through what you are going through. I unfortantly did the same thing to my ex bf. And I too loved him more then the word. But I loved him so much that I just wanted to see if there was anything else out there that I may love too. I guess I just got really greaty. And I hate myself for doing that to the man that I once loved. I told him that I had cheated on him, and told him that it was up to him if he wanted to be with my still. He said yes, but then after that, even when we said that we still loved eachother, I knew we were slipping. We broke up at the end of the summer, and you would think that it was him that broke up with me because he could live with me knowing that I have cheated on him. But its like this. My friend had dround the night I was at a wedding with him. And it took the best of me. I hated everything, and I didnt understand why he had to die. What did he do to deserve that? He was my friend for over6 yrs. Anyways, my bf was not there at all when I needed him the most. So I found someone who was, and started to see him because he would just hold me and tell me that everything WILL be ok. My bf, didnt even call me to see if I was ok. This coming from a guy who says that HE wanted to marry me too. I guess what Im tryin to say in the novle long reply is that when the person that your in love with (and is in love iwht you) has someone (or more than one, like in your case) you HAVE to be there for them. Because there mind is in a possition to hate anyone who is not there for them. Im not sayin that she hates you, but she prolly just wanted you to oreally be there for her. Telling her its going to be ok on the phone is not enough. Im sorry this happened to you. But from experence, all that I can say to you is that it IS going to get better. After my bf and I broke up, I wanted to be with him still, but he went to school and was totally focused on school and had no time to even call me or email me anymore. I thought that I would just wait 4 years till he was done school for him, I thought that that was all that I could do. Turned out that I was waiting for him, and he had moved on with someone that went to his school. So then I thought that I just would never get to love or be loved by anyone every again. But hey, turns out, I found a new bf, who I am head over heels for. I love my new bf so much, and he has taken over the space in my heart that I thought would always be for my ex. Ok, sorry I got really off topic, but I just wanted to tell you, that things will work out to be the best. Take that job, make lots of money. SAVE!!!!!!!!! And if you and her get back together then it was ment to be. But if not, you know that there is someone out there that is. Even if you think that you never will love or be loved again. Trust me man!! I swaer it will get better!!

i was with my ex bf for 3yrs. we were so deep in love, and he told me that he wanted to be with my forever. and then he went away for college and called me up and told me that loving me and doing school is too hard at the same time and that we would have to break up. i totally didnt want to b/c i loved him sooo much, but what esle could i do. so now its a year later and i have moved onto someone else who i also love and want to be with.....anyways this is where i need some advice. i was invited to a huge party this weekend, and all my friends will be there that i havent seen since highschool ended over a year and ago half ...including my ex who i havent seen since we broke up. so i dont knwo if i should just stay home or go and see all of my firends. im just affaid that when i see my ex, i may get old feelings and forget about my new love. my ex hurt me so bad, the one guy that i thought that would never hurt me....but somewhere inside i just want to see him again?!! oooo what should i do!!! 8-[

awwwww, she totally likes you!!! \ You better just kiss her when you can feel that she wants to be kissed buy you....and you will feel it when she wants it. But from what I have read in your post, she is so in to you, shes just playin hard to get....girls do that alll of the time!! so just go for it!

Ok! I just wanted to know, guys (boys) when your having sex with a girl, and she is on top, where do like her hands to be? Raped around your neck? Or touching your balls? Or touching myself (where ever)? I hope I get alot of replys to this cause I would like to know what the guys like best! And girls, tell me if you know anywhere else to put your arms. Thanks alot!!

I have been with my bf for 4 months. He is 7yrs older than me. Is that sick? I know he is falling in love with me, but he tells me that he doesnt wnat o t tell me yet. So I guess that he is alright with the age deffence. I just want to know if people think its gross that my bf is pushin 30 and im just turin 20 in dec. help!

If she is really in love with you...she cry, and cry and cry!! Or if she is insensative she will go and get drunk and try to forget about you. But ya like what MollyElise said, it depends on how mature she is.....sorry!!

I have had many friends who have become with child. And a few of them have had jerk bf's that ditched them. From what I have seen, I would say that you try your best to do without him except when it comes to child support!!! You have to make sure that you get that from him. And if he refusses, take his @$$ to court. Tell him that he knew when have sex with you that there is always a possiblity of getting you pregnant. Its not just your fault or his, its both of yours!! Were you useing a condom? Are you on the pill? How old are you? Anyways, what Im getting to is that you dont want to him around you and the baby if he doesnt want to be. That will just cuase more fights and wont be good for the baby or yourself. Try finding a good friend to help you out, someone who will be there whenever you need them. Weither its a brother, sister, mother, or a best friend.....find one. Because after you have the child, you friends that you thought that would be there, wont be. You have to make sure who will be there for you. I wish the best of luck to you an your baby!! Congarts!! And dont worry, things WILL get better!!

Maybe she wants to lose weight??!!! But doenst no where to start. Thats where you can come in and help her out. Go to the gym, go for nice walks, do anything!!! I use to be a larger girls, and I never new where to start. My current bf help me out, we started working out in his basement and we both went on diets....in 2 months i lost 20 lbs!!! So I say give this a try, and see how it goes......

Hey! She us totally just tryin to make you mad, and make you miss what you had. You should just come right out and tell her, look I dont want to hear about you and your new bf, ok, thats what you have girl friends for!!! Im sure she may be a little hurt from you telling her that, but then she will get the point!! Just ask her if she wanted to hear about the girl you fooled around with lastnight (even if you didnt). I dunno, I hope this will help you out man!! Take care.

I think that you should for sure go.....but dont be early cause then you will look like a loser. show up like 20-30min late. cause then he will be soo happy to see you...trust me!! good luck!