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here's an example of what im talkin about taken directly from an im (here i think i find out what the matter is) this time i pryed a little: FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: im still confused tho haha Mashooginayiddle: about what FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: what manda said.. its just.. Mashooginayiddle: just...? FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: no.. nuthin... Mashooginayiddle: tell me Mashooginayiddle: plzzzzzzzzz FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: u dont wanna no... Mashooginayiddle: i do FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: ha,, no Mashooginayiddle: w/e it is i can take it Mashooginayiddle: come on just tell me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: haha.. no u cannt really u'll be mad at me FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: and im not gonna tell u Mashooginayiddle: i wont FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: hah.. u will Mashooginayiddle: come on...plz...i promise FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: no.., cuz i know u'll get mad.. and i dont want ne thin to happen Mashooginayiddle: oh come on Mashooginayiddle: i wont Mashooginayiddle: i promise it wont Mashooginayiddle: w/e it is i can deal with it FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i dunno.. Mashooginayiddle: plzzzzzzzzzz FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i really shouldnt... Mashooginayiddle: come on Mashooginayiddle: u can tell e Mashooginayiddle: *me FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: well i.. FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: umm.. Mashooginayiddle: u what FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: kinda like jimmy as.. more than a friend.. i still kinda like him... Mashooginayiddle: ahhhhh Mashooginayiddle: i c FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: c Mashooginayiddle: yeah well Mashooginayiddle: see i can deal with that FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: no... FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i know ur mad at me Mashooginayiddle: no im not Mashooginayiddle: i understand Mashooginayiddle: its ok FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: no... Mashooginayiddle: no? FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i no ur mad.. Mashooginayiddle: im not Mashooginayiddle: if i was mad i'd get off or put on an away message and not come out of my room for a few days Mashooginayiddle: dont worry FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: hah... but... Mashooginayiddle: i'll be here with ya Mashooginayiddle: but? im not mad FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i feel bad... Mashooginayiddle: u shouldnt FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i do... cuz it makes it sound like i lov eu less Mashooginayiddle: it doesnt Mashooginayiddle: i no u dont FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: yea... but i feel bad Mashooginayiddle: its ok u have no reason to FrEaKyVoOdOoDoLL: i cant talk to u rigt now... Mashooginayiddle: im not mad at u. i no u still love me just as much. i still love u. I'm always gonna be here then she put on her away message and it was sorta end of the discussion...maybe i shouldnt have pryed...i'm not mad and i can deal with this completely...im just worried about her. i dont want to lose her. just now she imed me again but this time i forgot to copy it. so i really shouldnt have pryed. she told me she wants to break up. All i could was ummmm...i was really speachless. I mean did i cause this? so this is just great...we love each other, make each other laugh, and my curiosity blows it all to hell. i dont no what to do. i told her that she should do what she needs to do and now shes gone. damn me. god damn me. i no i shouldnt be hard on myself but right now i feel like i caused this.i told her that i would be here for her and i dont really no what to do. I'm gonna try to repost so more ppl will see this.

sure ask her out. U might be suffering cuz u dont go out lookin for a dare. go with ur gut and ask her out. And if she says no its not the end of the world. She'll probably say yes (unless shes involved) cuz ppl like to meet ppl. Try it and goodluck. I no it seems difficult but its not. I'm 13 and i've had maybe 4 g/fs so if i can do it u sure as hell could give it a good shot. Again try it and good luck

Ur probably how one 13 year old could have sooo many problems and make as many posts as i have in the past week. the truth is that they all could've been put in 2 posts. But neway here's another and this is my problem. As u might already no i am in love. My g/f unfortunately lives accross the bay (chesapeake). neway we love each other very much and are doing quite well. We talk to each other almost everyday online or otherwise. We tell each other that we love each other a lot. Sometimes she'll say (quite out of the blue often after sayin that we love each other) that she doesnt want to break up with me. I'll of course say the same. But then she seems to express some doubt. When i ask what the matter is she says its nothing and doesnt concern me. I feel it does but i dont pry. So now im concerened that she might be considering breaking up even though we dont want to. It might have something to do with the fact that we dont see each other much b/c of the distance or that she might be afraid the i might dump her. But in reality im sticking by her to he very end. I'm probably goin to tell her this and i definetly just decided i am. However im not sure this will eliminate her doubts. so i guess im just askin for any consolation or suggestions as how to see her more and show her that im not goin to dump her.

well it sounds like u got a solution to me. just keep in touch (me and my g/f do and we dont see each other as much as we'd like to) and see her as often as possible...maybe once a week or so. i dont no the exact situation. it might not turn out that bad and u may see her more. so good luck and i hope every things stays good between u two.

wow! thats odd. i've never heard neone say that they're too busy for a boyfriend. is this her freshmen year in college? sounds like it. she might not have enough college experience to realize that there is time.there really is. she might already be takin to many credits. but u shouldnt take so many credits that the work cant be done. u shouldnt even take so man credits that it makes problems in ur life.

im just soooo damn busy these days...i just asked my g/f is she could do anythin next weekend and she said that it'll be hard to get together durin the school year and shes right. i have school on the weekdays until 3:30 and the bus is always late so i dont get home untl 4:30 and on monday i have piano lessons, tuesday=soccer, wednesday=hebrew school, thursday=soccer, friday i go to mydads,saturday=guitar,sunday=hebrew school. plus i live on a busy road so i cant walk to my friends houses and i addition to lack of time to spend with my g/f she lives about 1-2 hours away cuz beach traffic can get nasty out there. i cant really afford to give nething up. i dont no. i guess there really isnt nething i can do about it except cope and hope for the best. unfortunatley the way things are goin i think its gonna be like this every year for a while. i may just need to vent and i guess thats what im doin but if u do hve advice plz do share.

i get the feeling that every ones gonna say that when the time comes u'll no so i guess just next time i feel its time to kiss i try throwin a little tongue i there...sound good?

i no i've been tellin neone who has a relationship or kissing problem tht its all about the timing. i stand by this and i no good timing but i dont always have good foresight. so wile i can tell in a moment to moment basis when its a good time to kiss i am a little clueless as to is there a good amount of time to wait b4 u french ur g/f for the first time. It'll be the first time for both of us and i just am a lttle afraid of rushing. i also have another post askin about how to french. i no i should go with the flow but if u could give me some tips as to tongue movements and stuff.

i'd just like to say to the last reply that that was just cruel. ok? i mean everyone has their first time and they should get a break. so then for ur question just stop when it feels right. be on ur toes (not literally obviously) to react to nething. and small movement could mean somethin. take it slow. it helps to make the signals (such as when to stop) stronger.

this is the secnd gender mixup i've seen today. eric is a boys name so he's probably not gonna suck on HIS lower lip for a while. neway to answer ur question. its not so much of lip movement as timing. u gotta no when to kiss her. there really isnt a set or best movement. just go with the flow. be creative.

im kinda lost in some of the kissin dynamics too. i have 2 posts here currently one concerning kissing. neway would ppl plz read. i was readin through here and i was thinkin of postin this cuz i no i'd be embarrased as well.

i'll see if i can provide ne advice. first of all i think of my g/f all the time and i can still think about school. this may be different for her and i'll give her that it is difficult sometimes. Also, myg/f says that i'm protective and thats a good thing but in ur case it sees to have gttn out of hand. What happened in the past is gone. My g/fs b/f and me are good friends. ppl's feelings go away and hers may have for u and thats just tough luck. i man hey, its happens. also concerning th other guy i ppl who have friends that kiss them and its perfectly innocent. Its a bit of a judgement call but if nothing happened then there shouldnt be a problem. I pity u a little cuz of the results of the way u reacted. Just give her a break. She should be free to go out with neone she wants and there should be a level of trust between u to allow that.

wow! some situatin u got there. well i read but i really dont no what to say about it. i hope it does somethin just to no that someone is listening. if u really fear jack then u could get a restraining order but i think that if u and rod got together u'd be safe.

i'm 13 and i've asked out about well i dont feel like countin right now. really u just gotta go for it and be ready for rejection. if u expect it it doesnt hurt as much but it makes a "yes" that much better. really just keep on tryin. if u love this girl and really care for her then u will just ask her until u get a defite unshakeable no or better yet a yes. it might make u look stupid but again if u care for her enough u wont care as long as u understand what shes decided. (confused? i kinda got lost somewhere in there myself) good luck.

the reply that someone made is true. patience is the key. if it seems like a relationship i dont see the problem. She sees u as safe haven from life which happens between b/fs and g/fs. she lets u hug,kiss,and hold her hand. the thing is she may be afraid to admit her feelings for u b/c of her parents situation. She might be afraid that it might lead to something like that and she might get hurt. Just take it slow and dont force nething. whenever i try to fix something or make something whether it is tangible or not she says "dont force it...it might just break"