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  1. The thing with a diet is that it's not immediate. You will get a point where it seems nothing is happening, you have to percervier and do it longer than a month and soon you will notice.
  2. I left you the address, go back to my last post and look at the Try: Macrobiotics. That's in a bluey colour. Click on it. Good luck. It can be extreme but what I love about the diet is that you can make allowances so long as you balance it
  3. The only one diet I do is quite gruelling, and hard. It's called Macrobiotics and a lot of the actors and actresses do it, but I did this diet before it became fashionable. It can seem extreme, but since you are a vegitarian it might be a good one for you to do. Try: link removed
  4. Sorry I don't understand that last sentence. I don't mind people believing in something, I just don't like it when others try and push their religious beliefs on someone else. I really hate the people who come up to you and try and get you to come to church.
  5. Then do something about it. You know you don't like your body, so the first step is, what to do. Do you excercise? Food diets may not be the solution, you may just need to exercise. If exercise doesn't work look at what you are eating. If you have lots of chocolate and crips and junk food, cut them out completely. Really the road to happiness is for you to take. What size would you have to be to be happy? Have you always been plump?
  6. Yes but that is what is weird. I have never experienced love before. I have never had the inclination to love another until now. I never use age as a barrier and that is why I have a broad age range in friends. I never expected to fall in love with him, it just happened. He's worked there for a year or two and only now have I noticed him.
  7. if it is making you unhappy why don't you do something about it? Your boyfriend may like the more curvier women. I know he looks at Hewitt and stuff but they are just his fantasy women. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't love you.
  8. 32, but believe me when I tell you, I do not look it. People think I'm 26. And I certainly do not act like a 32 year old should.
  9. But then you get that I'm such a fool head and then you start avoiding them. Well I seem to think so. Ah to be in love. Drat!
  10. But it does change it. I mean to know that someone facies you and they have openly told you. That's like giving over power to them.
  11. Just ask him straight out. Say I hope I don't offend you, but are you gay? If he is and you are not, just tell him. If he is gay would you still be his friend? I find gay men make the best friends....most of the time. Just tell him you don't like the way he's behaving towards you and that if he is gay then you are happy for him, but if he is making you uncomfortable tell him.
  12. Isn't there male actors you fancy? Perhaps he's being insensitive to you by telling you, but he's only having a healthy obession in fantasy women. It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you, he must like you otherwise he wouldn't be going out with you. I thought I'd never find a man with good looks, but what it does boil dowm to is personality. The man I fancy isn't exactly handsome, but he isn't ugly either, I like him just the way he is. I just wish I could tell him Anyway you are right about your weight, you must do it for yourself and not for him. Believe me, I have mostly male friends and I went out with a group and some were already married and going out with girlfriends, but all they did was watch women all the time.
  13. Haha. Nah it's just this man came to work where I work and for so many years I never really noticed him, until now and we seem to get on well. He's a very nice fellow and we always seem to have discussions on certain things which I find fun. I notice as well he smiles alot when I'm around. There was a day when he looked down in the dumps and when I asked him what was wrong he wouldn't say. But when I spoke to him he seemed to smile. He's always on my mind and I find that I may be falling in love with him. I don't know because I've never been in love and he is the first man I've let in. Most of the time I build up a wall so they can't pass, but everything is different for him. I just want to tell him how I feel, but you could say I'm scared of the outcome. Maybe it's because he's a good friend that I don't want to lose him should things go wrong. But I just want him to embrace me and to hold me, to feel him close.
  14. No problems and good luck. I just need help with my love life . Ah well.
  15. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's just a mans perception of beauty and at the moment this woman is in the limelight. In a few months it will be someone else. It's just something men desire, but in reality can't have. It's a fantasy.
  16. Don't expect results, remember she's already got a boyfriend and that's another hurdle to jump over. If you do want her, and she wants you, make sure she isn't attached or you'll have more trouble than you can handle. Take things slowly. Drop subtle hints, if she's touching you in a certain way, do the same back, but don't go any further unless she does.
  17. You don't need pointers, just talk, it doesn't have to be about anything. I mean you already talk to her, just keep doing more or less the same thing. How old is she? Same age? Go for a walk in the park or a fun fair. Something where you both can interact and have fun.
  18. Why not ask her out for a casual drink? No strings. Ask her if she would like to go for a drink for a chat. Heh, me saying that and I'm scared to ask the man I fancy out.
  19. Do you really want to stay with a girl who doesn't love you anymore? Let her go and move on. Sorry to be harsh, but maybe her moving away will hopefully help you move on.
  20. Well you talk to her so I guess you're not as shy as you think. I think it's more the rejection you are scared of perhaps. Scared that if you do tell her how you feel that you could lose her. What is she like when she's around you? Does she do things an ordinary girl wouldn't do?
  21. Why don't you just ask her what she wants instead of guessing. Ask her what she desires and act upon it. Everyone has a degree of aggression. She may not like the abusive stuff, but maybe be into rough sex. Ask her.
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