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  1. just to add to that....WHAT is infatuation??
  2. Something i forgot to mention is that before we started going out, and during the first 5 months or so he was great and then little by little he started acting out a lot, i still love him, and he doesn't act like a child all the time, just often. He is mature, just not as much as he should be at his age. could his mother and family moving off and leaving have anything to do with it. could it be a way to make himself feel better?
  3. i've been going out with my b/f for 11 months now and recently i feel that he acts very childish. i was wondering if any body has any tips on helping him act more like a 19 year-old rather than a 9 year-old. He has ADD, i don't really know if this has anything to do with it. I know that ppl with ADD tend to be really hyper and all, and im ok with that, i just wish he would learn to control himself. Many times for ie., we'll be on the bus or train and he'll talk really loud, and ppl will stare, something i don't like much. sometimes he'll start dancing funny(he can't dance), and i get really embarrassed. it bothers me so much that sometimes i feel like breaking up with him. i've told him how i feel, but i don't think it's helping very much. I would really appreciate your help.
  4. what is it that you run or hid from. is knowing that some one loves you or is it the signs of affection. Does she hug you or vise versa, do you kiss. it's deffinetely not a matter of whether you love yourself, the question is whether you allow others to love you.
  5. how long have you been feeling like this. if it's been going on for a few months, then you might have a problem. i went through the same thing. Then a friend of mine suggested writing journals. Do you write journals? if not all you really need to do is write how you feel, and why you think you feel so. so if your really mad just write, im so pissed off. im angry because...you dont even need to write full sentences, you can scribble, dont worry about structure, or punctuation just right until you feel better, it might even make you cry while you write, but believe me, ive tried it, and it deffinetely works. you can do it on the bus, in your room, any time any place, just try it please..you can include all the positve stuff too.
  6. you hug her right? Well, right before you pull away, softly and slowly kiss her on the side of the forehead, near the temples. out of curiosity, does she wear make-up?
  7. what you might try to do is start with a kiss on the forehead first, then one on the right cheek, then on the left, then on her nose, then on her chin, and finally on the lips...do this as a day by day thing. on the first day the forehead, second day the right cheek, and so on. my boyfriend did that with me when we first started going out, the first week actually, then i decided to make my move and kiss him on the lips. try it like that. hopefully she'll think its really sweet. good luck
  8. i would like to know how to stop getting jelous over my boyfriend spending time with one of his long time female friend. She's a year older than us, she lives really close to his house and when ever he cant make it over to my house ( he lives an 1h 30 min. away) he goes over to her house or they go walking around in the park and hang out. i get jelous because she's really pretty and im affraid of losing him, although i know that he loves ME, and i get jelous that she's spending time with him and im not. is it just me being insecure or what...i would like to stop feeling like im going to lose him to some one else..any advise.
  9. have you tried soap to take the vaseline off your hands
  10. all i have to say is that you need to talk to him...tell him that you feel uncomfortable about it, and it bothers you. and go from there. are you going out.
  11. lucky for me my dad is still alive and kicking, no heart attacks or heart probs. he's been smoking since he was 12 and now he's 49, thats a miracle im thankful for.
  12. lol...if you have no one else to do it for you, as sick and weird as this may sound, get a bottle that is large enough to allow you to put in and out slowly, and do that, make sure it doesn't get stuck.
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