Seraph
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Woah. People all go through pubery at different times, man. I'm 17 and the hair part didn't really hit me until 16 and now I have more hair than I know what to do with... lol. Sit back and let nature take over. Don't worry so much about it.
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Ah man. First off. You guys have trust between you. That's major. Lots of relationships will die because of lack of trust. I mean, I'd just tell her straight out how you feel, and make sure that it doesn't come between the trust and friendship you two share. There are mixed signs here, but the only way to know for sure is to cut to the chase and tell her. I'm not sure if I'm answering your call for help here. But talk to me on AIM, my sn is a12341b. Best of luck, Cheers!
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Well. Instead of asking him. Maybe just tell him how you feel. Or if you're not that type of person, maybe just drop some major signs that you like him. I mean, even if you don't want to be so explicit, what do you have to lose? Your friendship will survive if you want it to survive. But if you don't act, you might loose him. Carpe Diem, Cheers!
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lol these are definitely conflicting signs. Do you have AIM?
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Try to pick up some clues when you talk to her. Seems like there are conflicting signs here though. Any more details? 1/2 is saying she does 1/2 is saying she doesn't really.
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Woah. Okay clarify the situation a bit. Are you still in camp? so there are still fires every night? At night vs. day?! Try to clarify the situation a bit more - a few more details maybe.
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should i tell his brother?? please help..urgent
Seraph replied to celci's topic in Relationship Advice
Hey Celci, Personally, I'd try to talk to Joe himself, but I don't see a problem with calling his brother. You guys know each other, and he seems cool, so why not? I don't understand why you need so much advice...just go ahead. To the future, cheers! -
Hey smiles, I'd say the most important thing here is to make sure you don't get hurt again. So put up some safeguards. You trust his intentions, but you don't know how the future will be based on a bad past. I understand your confusion. It's hard to say what's best for you. Some might say to stay away b/c he broke your heart once, what's keeping him from one day "realizing" that the feelings did actually die and hurt you again. Others might say follow your heart, and do what makes you happy. I'm somewhere in between. If I was in your situation, I would want to be with him. I would thereforeeeee spend some time with him, get to know the new, improved person that he is. However! At the same time, I would keep my expectations low, and continue to just think of him as a friend. I'd take things very slowly. Like you said, he needs to do more than just talk. He needs to prove he'll stay. Since you haven't been together in a while, try it. As long as you don't get attached, it can't hurt. So, summing that up. Spend some time with him. Don't get attached. Take it a day at a time; be cautious. Your feelings of missing him/deserving better are totally normal and I understand them all. But I guess time will tell. Best of luck!
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As usual, Smokey has the marbles. The ex-bf is obviously still possessive and has feelings for your gf. Hence, he sees you as a threat and acts on it with senseless aggression. Now, he doesn't seem like a resonable person from the description, and you've exhausted all avenues of communication with him. So the only person left to talk to is your gf. Talk to her. Tell her that this has been going on, and that you don't want her to feel uncomfortable and have to choose between bf and friend. Make sure she knows that you're telling her that out of respect and care for her feelings in the long run. That's what I think at least. Best of luck!
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I wouldn't mind it! Kisses are cool in general. But the neck.. hmm.. never thought of that.. Thanks for bringing it up.
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About to start long distance relationship & I'm overreac
Seraph replied to squirrley's topic in Long-Distance Relationships
I don't quite understand the sister thing. I think there's a typo in there somewhere. But anyways. You guys have been together for 2 years, thats pretty special. But also keep in mind that he's known some of his friends for (probably) a long time as well. It's sort of a decision between girlfriend and friends. Tough spot to be in. I can't say whether or not you should have gotten mad at him. But ask yourself what you would have done if you had to move. Would you see your best friends for the last time, or your boyfriend, whom you'll still be in a relationship with. I understand where your emotions are coming from though and you aren't just acting crazy. Just ask yourself that, and that might help. Best wishes. -
Since you already talk to her online, you have a leg up advantage already. She knows you. You know her. So it'll be alot easier talking to her than if you didn't even know her. Keep that in mind. Just remember that you have tons of stuff going for you. Have confidence in yourself. A really easy way to talk to her in school is to start a conversation online, and get to something that she really wants to know about (a secret, etc), and then say "I got to go, but I'll tell you tomorrow in school!" There. Now she wants to see you in school, and you have something to start a conversation with. Otherwise, just be yourself and say "What's up?" I understand the nervousness, but experience tells me the more you talk to her, the less nervous you will be. So start now, and soon you two will get closer in real life as well as on the internet! Best wishes!
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He is my ex, and I will always love him
Seraph replied to BleedingSadness's topic in Getting Back Together
Unfortunate circumstances, truly. But at least he understands what happened. You understand why he's not ready for a relationship. You were hurt, he was hurt. He's probably not quite ready to lose his heart again. You should feel how you feel. There isn't really a textbook "You should now feel happy!"-type answer. Feelings just exist. Do..well that's a different story. Are your parent's still prohibiting the relationship? If yes. Then take it day by day. Try to think of him just as a friend, because you don't want to get hurt either. It still hurts, I totally agree. But you've told him how you really feel. That's impressive in and of itself. He's looking out for his own feelings. You should do the same. Communication is key. And it looks like you have that area down pat. Best of luck! -
I actually went through a pretty similar scenario. Except for the fact that it was she who had found a new guy. I'm the guy left alone. I still think about her alot. alot would actually be an understatement, unfortunately. But I'm moving on, don't worry. If there's one thing that's hard to accept, it's the fact that good things end. I wanted what was best for her. Hence, I told her how I felt about it. No guilt trips. No wild emotions. She had enough going on and I would only add to it if I reacted poorly. So, I guess try to move on. Actually. I would first sit down and talk with her. See what the therapist had to say... and ask her what would be best for her and you. If she doesn't need someone by her side, by all means, move on. You've been totally amazing so far. But on the other hand eclipse has a point too. But this is what I would do. Best of luck.
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As bz said, regret is something that should be avoided. Try it. I had feelings for someone two years younger. I told her how I felt. Outcome was great! And even now that's she's onto someone else, I feel a bit sad, but I can't say "Jeez, if only I told her how I felt!!!! AHHH!!" Just talk to her. One day when you're walking say "Ahh!, sorry, there's just one thing I have to get off of my chest...." See what happens, and let it be. The right one will come, sooner or later, so don't sweat it right now. Just let it be and make sure you feel alright. Best of luck!