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I lost the baby this morning. Im really upset but me and rob decided to try again in about a week. we really wanted that baby.
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Hello. I had my son Aiden Robert on January 7th but I'm Pregnant again. He was born on a Wednesday and I started the pill 2 Sundays ago. I know we should have waited the 6 weeks before having sex again, but we did not. I went back for our checkup yesterday and with the blood test, they said that either my body still had the pregnancy hormone in it, or I was pregnant again. They did an ultrasound and found that I'm about a week pregnant. Rob already knows because he was in the room with me, and we told my parents when we got home. They were a little pissed that we didn't wait like the doctor said, and they said that I would be made fun of a lot more than I was with Aiden, because I'm only 14 and my second child will be born in the same year. They know that I had started the pill, but we had sex before the pill had time to take effect. I had posted a board on when the pill becomes effective and I read the package, and it takes 4 days for the pill to become effective and we had sex the day after I started it. I know that we will be able to raise both our children, and it will be a lot harder than just with Aiden, but we know we can do it. The doctor said it will be about a month before he can really tell a due date, but he said around the beginning of October. I'm marrying Rob in September and my mom was going to get me a dress a couple months before, but now I will have to go a couple days before.
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hey. i started taking the pill a couple days after my son was born.. how long does it take to become effective?
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I just turned 13 december 6 2002 and pregnant
jafreak replied to VaNessa1607306442's topic in Pregnancy
hey. im 14 and i just became a mommy on January 7th. I love my son a lot and I know its hard for us (me and my fiance) but were making it. I was also pregnant when i had just turned 13. I was raped though. I was thinking the same things that you thought, but then i lost my baby when I was only 2 months. in june, i had an abortion, and i knew i could never do it again. they had gotten 1 baby, and hadnt know about the other. My son was a twin. I grieved over that baby for weeks and i realized as soon as i walked out of the abortion clinic that it was the wrong thing to do. I felt so guilty. Don't worry about anything, anyone says becuase you are better than that.. and remember.. Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. I would give u more info but i broke my thumb 2 days ago and its kind of hard to type. -
ha. ive been changing diapers since i was 9 when my nephew was born.
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hey. i am dani. i'm 14. I had my son, Aiden Robert Cannon yesterday. You might have read my posts in the forum pregnancy. I had an abortion a couple weeks before I got pregnant. They had aborted 1 child. When my son was born, the doctors believed that I was only 32 weeks. When I had him, He was 9 lbs. 2 ounces. He was way to big for me to only be 32 weeks. When they said that I was no way 32 weeks, it occurred to me that maybe they didnt get the baby in the abortion. The hospital checked with the abortion clinic that I had gone to and they had definatly gotten the baby. They found out that I was pregnant with twins and the clinic had only gotten the one baby. My son was a twin. Anyway, he is completely healthy. I was with my sister and my boyfriend was on his way home when I went into labor. When he got home, my sister got me in the car and we left right away for the hospital, which is only about 10 minutes from my house. They decided when I was only in there for an hour, that it was safest, and that I had time before I delivered, to transfer me to Children's Hospital in Philadelphia. It would be easier for him to go straight into the NICU and I would be right there. He was born at 3:34 A.M. on January 7th, 2004. They took him right away, and thats when they realized that I was further along than they had said. He was back within a half hour and I got to hold my son for the first time. My sister and boyfriend where in the delivery room with me, and when I held Aiden for the first time, Rob (my boyfriend) pulled out a box and he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I love him, and of course I said Yes. Now I am a mommy and fiance. I love them with my heart and nothing will ever be able to change that. I am still in the hospital, and we are getting released tomorrow around noon. They have a computer on each floor and I got this one for an hour. Rob and I plan on getting married soon. We both decided that we did not want to wait until I was 18 to get married (oh yea, he is 16). We have not set a date, but I know that it will be soon. Ok, enough. I want to talk to some of my friends, so I'm going to go. Bye
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hey. i started when i was 12 and i get addicted to anything really easy. ive tried to quit cold turkey many times, but it never works more than 4 days. i want aiden to be healthy when he is born and i never realized how bad it is for him. i want to quit now, but i think its too late for the patch. my sister smokes, and with the insurance we both have, free from the state of new jersey, includes the patch, when your health is in bigger risk. she has asthma, so she can get the patch free. she has no desire to quit, which i wish she would, but she doesnt want to. she is going to try to get it for me. i will keep trying stopping cold turkey, and then if i do not succeed, i will start the patch right after aiden is born, the day i have him if i have to. thanks
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hey. im thinking about buying the patch so i can quit smoking. when i was 12, i was under a lot of stress and found that cigarettes helped take some of the stress away. i got addicted and here i am, 14, 7 months pregnant with my boyfriends child. aiden is due march 2nd. i really want to quit so i can live to see him grow up and see my grandkids. i was wondering if the patch was safe when you are pregnant. if i ask my obgyn, my mom would know that i still smoke and i would get into a lot of trouble. i really want to quit and i know its not safe smoking while im pregnant, and it could be bad for him, so i want to quit while its not too late. help plz.
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hey. im now 30 weeks. i had an appointment at 8:15 this morning and then we had to go accross the street to the hospital and i got another ultrasound. they said, according to the size of my stomach and a detailed look at the baby, i was 2 weeks ahead of what they had thought. my due date was changed once b4 and pushed ahead a week. it had first been march 21st, then it changed to march 16th, and now its march 2nd. i cannot wait. we went to move into the room b/c it was done, but rob went down the steps with some boxes, tripped, and fell against the wall. the pressure was enough that the wall crumbled. we got that fixed and we just moved into it a couple weeks ago. we finished decorating our room and now we r starting on aidens room. we got light blue paint and my brother is going to come in because he can draw really good, and he is going to paint animals or something on the walls. im really excited and i have new pics. IM me on aim and i'll send them to u.
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hi. ok my own experience. I am 13 and I will be 14 in a couple days. The only thing is, I am 24 weeks pregnant. Yea its hard but I am making it good. My boyfriend (16) lives with me at my parents. No, my parents weren't happy having their 13 yr. old daughter having a baby, but they came through and are helping. No matter what, do not have an abortion. I had 1, and I am still grieving over that child. I may have another one, but there will always be an empty spot in my heart. It may seem like the best option, but its not. If you cannot care for the baby, adoption. there are many loving families out there that want a child. DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL! Good Luck!
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Hey. Me and Rob are doing great. The basement room is done and now I am waiting for Rob to get done work and move our stuff to the basement. My stomach is getting bigger by the day it feels like. (aim me.. i have pics) I have gained 12 lbs.. YAY! I had lost weight and now I'm gaining again. I already feel huge and I'm only 5 months. I'm not alone in this though. My teacher from last year is due March 26 and I'm due the 21st. I really miss having my skinny body but I love being pregnant even more. I have this complete feeling. Rob is soooo supportive and I love him to death. I'm having a boy, Aiden Robert Cannon.. tell me if u all like it... g2g bye
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i had been sick in the mornings pretty bad and i lost some weight. i now gained 10 lbs. and i am 5 months. my stomach is getting pretty big and i love it.. the bad part is i am always hungry
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Hey. I went to the doctor again today and I am 14 weeks. They are keeping a close watch on me because I am so young. I had my second ultrasound and the doctor said I was having a boy. We have picked out a name for him. Aiden Robert Cannon. He is going to take Rob's last name, not mine. I am so happy. I cannot fit in any of jeans and last weekend my grandmom took me out and bought me over 200 dollars in maternity clothes. We went in normal stores like K-mart and Wal-Mart but all the maternity clothes were nothing I would wear so my grandmom found this shop in Cherry Hill and they have a whole lot of clothes I would wear and I got some really cool jeans that go under my belly once I get bigger. I have only gained 6 lbs. and the doctor said it's ok. My stomach is getting really big and I love it.
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We were out of it....cud I be pregnant??
jafreak replied to maynards_razorblade69's topic in Pregnancy
Hi. I know I'm not a good example for telling you this because I am 13 and 4 months pregnant. I did not plan this but I am very happy about this pregnancy. My boyfriend always used a condom, but when I got pregnant, It was because the condom had broken. My parents knew about him and they liked him, but they didnt know we were having sex. He never forced me to and used protection because he did love me. Now that we are going to have this baby, He is working 2 jobs and going to school. I hate him working so much because his is barely ever home but still, he is doing it for me and this baby. If your boyfriend loves you, he will wrap it up and protect yourself next time no matter what. -
hey. i went to the doctor and he did a internal again and he said my cervix is normal again and we could continue having sex. He told me to do the excerise as much as possible to strethen even more. i have gained 4.5 lbs. now and my stomach is showing a little more. I love pregnancy!!
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HI. everything is goin great. i have gained 6 lbs. i go back to the doctor on tuesday after school so he can check is the exercise thing he told me to do, if it has strethend my cervix. i hope it has b/c it is driving me nuts not being able to have sex. i cant wait until i know the sex of the baby and we thought of the name jayden for a girl. I am so happy..!!!!!!!
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thats how i found out im pregnant... worked for me
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hi. when they said i was pregnant they did a urine test. and then i had to schedule an appoitment with an obgyn. then when i went to him, he did the internal. When i was at the doctors i had only gained 4 lbs. my stomach is just starting to show and i am happy because i am proud of my baby and want people to know.
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thanks. No im not going to take childbirth classes even though people say i should. i just wouldnt feel right there with all the older mothers and me being the only very young person. I just wouldnt feel right about it.. even if i do change my mind, i have plenty of time. Im only 11 weeks.
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Hey.. I went to the doctors today again. I am 11 weeks today. the doctor did an exam and sent me for an ultrasound to make sure and everything is good. i still dont know the sex but i am goin to be happy when i do find out. the only thing is... I have to be really careful because i have a weakened cervix. rob and i have been thinking of names already at night when we r goin to sleep and for a boy we have aiden christopher, aiden james, or aiden robert. and maybe aiden daniel. we still have awhile to go so im not worrieing about it.. I cant wait to find out the sex of the baby.. Im so excited...
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devoted/confident christian please answer this
jafreak replied to EmptySoul's topic in Personal Growth
Hi. I am 13 and a devout Christian. I have been drunk. I am 3 months pregnant with a child God has blessed me with. I believe that He has givin me this child to change my life around. I am not saying to go and get pregnant but God is watching over you. Never doubt that.. He knows deep down that U believe and He knows you want to please Him. Good Luck and God Bless You. -
ok...first of all thanks for everyone that supports me and i am ready for this baby. my boyfriend had 1 job before he knew i was pregnant and now that he does, he in now working 2 jobs and is thinking about getting another but i dont want him to. my dad, brother, and rob are going to fix up our entire basement for me rob and the baby soon. as for not remembering what the doctor had said, my appt. was at 8:45 and i am not a morning person at all and normally before i would take an energy pill but now i cant. Thanks for all the support. and rob is now talking to his dad but neither will talk to his mother. ok i have to go to bed.. night
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Hi. I am so happy. Monday I went to the doctor and everything is fine. I am 5 weeks and I'm due on March 21st. I can't wait. My boyfriend has moved in because his parents kicked him out when we told them we were going to have a baby and my parents let him move in and we decided to not let his parents know anything about this baby because we thought that when they kicked Rob out that they gave up being grandparents to this baby. His father called last night when I was out with my friends and he told me to tell Rob he was sorry and that he wasn't talking to him mother but he could move back in if he wanted to. He was at work so I couldnt tell him then but when he got home I asked him about it and he said no that he wants to be with me throughout the entire pregnancy and once the baby is born. My mom is happy and my dad is just a little disappointed but he will get over it. And it will be his first blood grandchild.. YAY. ok..Rob wants the computer for a couple min. before he goes to work but I want to know, how far along will it be until they know the sex of the baby?? the doctor told me but i dont remember. ok wish me luck..bye
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hi. i am 13 and about a month pregnant and i told my mom. she was a little upset but also happy. Im sure if i could do it then u can too. Good luck
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Hey. Im soo happy. My boyfriend called me today and I wasnt home so i called him back at the number on the message he left me and we talked for awhile and then i had to go and i called him back later caus he cant call me caus he is at his bro's and his bro doesnt have long distance. i called him back and he confessed to me that he loves me and always has and i told him that when we broke up i never stopped thinking about him. we are happily back together and we think that we are each others soul mates. I love him to death.