I have a male friend, we are new friends, basically we have known each other 3 months now. He is a sweet guy, we have similar interests, ideally it should be a match made in heaven, and trust me he would make a perfect partner – he is attentive, sensitive, he has a cat (yeah I know that is neither here or there but thought I would drop it in) anyways…….I don't fancy him at all….not even in the slightest, in fact the thought of being intimate with him just does nothing for me…..so here is the dilemma, he wants more from me than friends I have told him just friends. Now I cannot tell him I don't fancy you…….but I don't want him to keep hoping that things will change……advice please.