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Poochie I find it really disturbing that how a man can behave in this manner. I am Indian too but it's unbelieveable as we Indians are known for long lasting relationships and strong values. It's a good idea to just forget him and try to start a fresh life.

Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?

It doesn't matter to me. It is more important how you carry yourself. Your personality and attitute and body language.

Is there anything wrong in entering into an encounter with someone while you are travelling and are alone, just to satisfy your physical needs. I am in love with someone but keep travelling most of the time. I would like to know from Females how they feel in case their b/f or husband is in my situation. I like to mention here that I really love my Girl but I have my own physical needs.

I have got an interesting article and would like the Ladies to read it and let me have your views. This is regarding benefits of swallowing the cum. link removed Your comments will be of help to me and my girlfriend.

My G/F wants to give me Oral but unsure about the taste of Man's cum. She has never tasted it. I told her that it is not harmful to her, as I myself swallow her cum while giving oral to her. I would request you Ladies to please let us know whether it's harmful for her to swallow the my cum.

Girls close eyes while having sex with guys generally. I feel it's natural as the girls normally don't make eye contacts with guys, penetrating in their bodies. They close eyes sometimes to absorb the pain or sometimes with pleasure. I don't understand why a guy should close his eyes while having sex, as it is very important to make eye contact with girl which helps in finding out how she is feeling whether she is comfortable or feeling pain, as some Girls don't tell even if the penetration is painful and like to avoid annoying the husband or b/f by telling that.

Blink Your girl would love to have sex with you in case she reaches orgasms with your efforts. To make out whether she is properly turned on, see if she shows all the classic symptoms of arousal. First check her lips, they would have darkened. Blood rushes to her face initially and then as the pleasure travels down to the area between the legs, she will flush. You can make that out by physical changes like an increase in heart rate. That will of course make her breathe harder, or shallower; you can see her pupils dilate; her face will flush, since all her blood rushes to the genitals. She will not want any hard touching as the clitoris swells and becomes more sensitive. The vagina becomes swollen and the lips of the vagina swell, gradually becoming wet. Those are the Bartolin's glands making lubrication for the penis easy to slip in. With some amount of lubrication, or wetness, you can tell if a woman is really aroused or not. Some women have little secretion and some more, but if there is a notable lack of wetness, you know she is doing the moves with you.

Yes, of course, not only Girls cum but squirt some times. When it comes to turning a woman on, there’s wet, and then there’s wet. You can learn how to unleash a tidal wave of orgasmic juices in your bed. Females ejaculate? Yes, they do. I am talking about a gusher of fluid spurting out of her as she comes. Actually, to be more accurate, the fluid comes squirting out of her urethra. Don’t let this gross you out, though; it’s not pee! Female cum is a clear, odorless liquid produced by a small organ called the “female prostate,” or urethral sponge, which is located between the urethra and vagina. The fluid it produces just happens to come out of the pee hole, but...so does guys’ semen, right? While some women may experience ejaculation naturally in the course of intercourse or other sex play, most require some concentrated stimulation of the G-spot. Massaging the G-spot causes the urethral sponge to become engorged with fluid, which is then expelled during orgasm. And, as with an orgasm, ejaculation also requires the woman to “let go.” Before ejaculating, the woman will feel as though she is going to pee. However, it is nearly impossible for her to urinate while coming, because the muscular contractions of orgasm close off the bladder and prevent the passage of urine. Begin by stroking or licking her clit to get her aroused. Once she begins to get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into her vagina. About an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-spot. Stroke against this area using firm pressure. It should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. Try touching or licking her clit as you manipulate the G-spot. Follow her responses and pace yourself to prolong her period of arousal; the more time she’s aroused, the more juice is building up in there. As she gets closer to coming, she will start to feel as though she has to urinate. That’s the cum beginning to flow into her urethra. In order for her ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and push down and out with the same muscles she would use as if she were peeing. It may be hard to overcome the impulse to hold back, but you can reassure her, again, that if she is coming, she will not pee. Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid out, she should feel extra intense orgasmic pleasure, and you should be rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may range from gentle gush to a drenching spray.

The thought of my G/f breast feeding me while stroking or caressing my penis with her hands very gently really turns me on. Alternatively, I like to suck her breasts and my penis entering her vagina which is fully wet and she having orgasm while breast feeding me.

You are right when you say that you felt little uncomfortable during your boyfriend fingering. Look, don't allow your B/f to finger you unless you are wet and feel a desire for it. Ask him to cuddle you, kiss your cheeks, lips, eyes, chin, or try to massage you on back or kiss/suck your breasts which will result in a strong desire in your mind for penetration and your vagina will start getting wet and ready for penetration. You can use some lube in case it's not wet enough for penetrating any hard object like finger (nails). Incase you like, you can ask him to give you oral and try to lick the lips of your vagina and use his tongue to explore your G-spot. You can guide him to the right direction and ultimately this will lead to a great ORGASM and that too without vaginal intercourse. Try it.

You should not try to control your emotions in case you are feeling need for sex. It's not a bad idea to have your sexual desired fulfilled by your old friends rather than handing over yourself in the hands of strangers. Wishing you best of luck

It's not surprising to me at all, as it happens very commonly but you don't have to regret for it. It's not you who is to be blamed. It is difficult to control emotions and avoid such weak moments. It was circumstantial that you lost your virginity to some time passer. Try to forget and have a new beginning with someone who is honest and trust worthy.

Thanks for all of you for your comments. I am sure that my G/f likes me going down on her and making her cum again and again. She herself pulls me and sometimes when I am not in mood, she insists for it. Even after she has 4-5 orgasms, she keeps me going and by that time it becomes extremly important for me to penetrate her. She enjoys various positions with me and finally ends up with final orgasm mostly on top position through vaginal intercourse. I prefer to cum after she has finished. She loves me and always try to satisfy me but except Deep Throat. She kisses, caress and try to swallow but finds it difficult. Unlike me, she doesn't like the taste of pre-cum whereas I love to swallow not only her pre cum but even post cum and she really enjoys it.

While making love to my G/F, I always try to make sure that she is satisfied completely. She prefers to receive oral from me before the main course. She moans and cums very heavily. By the time, I penetrate she has already cum 3-4 times, as she claims. I have requested her many times to give me Head but she ignores it, saying that she can't take it inside her mouth. My submission is that when you love someone, you must make all efforts to please him or her, no matter whether you like it or not. More importantly, if my partner likes and demands something like this, I should honour it since I love her so much and wud like to see her happy while having sex with me. I don't know how to convince her to give me a Head.